Foreplay Certification – Part of the Certified Romantic Course Study

I’m one step closer to finishing my initial certification at Loveology University. My first goal is to complete the Certified Romantic courses – and tonight I passed the quiz for the Foreplay Course.

Umm – foreplay. I think great foreplay is an art form and not everyone knows how to do it right. But that is true about many aspects of sex S0 – what do you think is included in the foreplay course? These are some of the topics —

• What Foreplay Is & Isn’t

• Communicating Foreplay Needs

• Foreplay Do’s and Don’ts

• Anticipation

• Touch

• What is the difference between Flirting and Foreplay?

• Undressing

• Physiology of an Orgasm

• Outercourse

• Kissing the Genitals

• Fantasy and Foreplay

• Foreplay Fun Around the Home

Foreplay can include so many things – a look, a touch, a kiss, but it does not include intercourse. So you can think of it as an appetizer. It gets the mind and body ready for sex — it is true there are times when you don’t feel you need foreplay, like before a quickie. But many times foreplay is a great way to get the juices flowing – for both partners.

The list of foreplay possibilities is huge – but you can think of it as anything you do with your partner as a lead up to sex – kissing, cuddling, stripping, masssage, sucking, stroking, rubbing, licking, flirting, moaning, and so much more.

We’re all familiar with traditional foreplay, but what about Millenium Foreplay? It includes – so much more including, kissing, erotic talk, erotic massage, oral sex, mutual masturbation, sharing sexual fantasies and all the LU courses that lead up to sexual positions with penetration.

Communication is critical in all aspects of a relationship – including sex. Learn to communicate your foreplay needs, just like you should communicate your sexual and all other needs. Its hard to please someone when you don’t know what they want or need.

This  course includes wonderful tips, suggestions, do’s, don’ts, and much more to help you understand and utilize foreplay more effectively. I was looking through the course contents and wondering how long it would take to try even half of the things in here – I’m not sure how long it would take, but it would certainly be a lot of fun

For more details about this course – visit

https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=34&a_aid=litekepr

Foreplay

This Course Is For You If: You want to Learn Foreplay Techniques to Use on a Woman You want to Learn Foreplay Techniques to Use on a Man You want to Turn Foreplay into Adult Play You want to Make Foreplay an Orgasmic Experience Welcome to Loveology University’s Foreplay Certification Course. Inside you will learn all about the basics of foreplay such as why it is so important when it comes to initimacy and sex, the different physiological responses in men and women and plenty of creative foreplay techniques. Foreplay isn’t just a prelude to sex, but a process that helps to warm up the mind and body for what is to come. It can be a conversation, a little trinket, a look, a touch, or a kiss. Foreplay can be a main event, especially when you engage all of your senses, and a romantic memory for years to come. This course offers you many varieties of foreplay to choose from so that you will be a master lover. This Foreplay Course is sure to get your juices flowing and put you in the mood for an unforgettable learning experience. Course Price: $69.95 (Includes Video)

Start the Day with the Couture Collection

Its been really dreary and rainy for the past week at my house. So, I wake up this morning to the sun shining and knew the day was starting off nice. Then, there is a knock at my door. Turns out to be the cute young FedEx guy bringing my newest toy from CalExotics to review. Need to add AAA batteries to my grocery list Will share my review soon…..

	• Elevate your expectations with the new Couture Collection™. Seamless, sophisticated, waterproof massagers crafted from the finest grade Silicone. Designed for power and performance Couture” is simply the best! • Premium Silicone, compact, discreetly sized dual stimulators • Soft, pliable, flexible, seamless, and unscented • 7 powerful functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation • 3 speeds of shaft rotation • Feather touch controller with luminous lights • Automatic on/off button • Medical grade Japanese Silicone (sleeve) ABS (controller) • 3 AAA batteries • 4.75”x 1.25”/ 12 cm x 3 cm

The Male G-Spot – Are You Man Enough to Find It

There has been a lot of media coverage lately about whether the female G-spot exists. I was even interviewed for an article on ABCNews.com and it was very cool the other day to see that article referenced when the ladies of The View sort of tackled the topic again. But I digress (If you would like to read that article, click this link.)

Okay – the reason I mentioned the local media coverage about whether the female G-Spot exists is because I got an interesting idea tonight. And, people who know me, know that interesting ideas usual prompt me to write a blog post I also have to credit a friend that I had a stimulating chat with this evening, for sparking the idea for this post. I’ll leave his identity off – but you know who you are

So – there is a recent study that claims women do not have a G-spot. I personally think that is wrong. Okay, maybe many women haven’t found their G-Spot and some may not have one, but I can tell you from personal experience that some women have one. Digressing again — I’m sorry.  So – here is my question – do the “experts” think that men have a G-Spot? Ah, now if the experts were convinced men have a spot that causes much more intense and satisfying orgasms – I bet they would spend a fortune studying this. Can you imagine the line of volunteers to participate. Maybe I should volunteer to be a research assistant….

Okay – back to the topic. I believe that men do have a spot that is very similar to the female G-Spot, but for some people it can be very hard to find. You may wonder why its so hard to find. That is because of where its located…. it is in the anus – not far inside, but inside. That’s right – someone has to insert their finger into your ass in order to find this spot. Now you’re starting to understand the title of this blog aren’t you?

This picture is a little “busy” – but it shows the way to find the male G-Spot. Someone simply slides a finger or two into the anus and crook the finger in a “come here” motion. It is good to lubricate the finger first and some people prefer to wear gloves or a finger cot. It is also great if the man thoroughly cleans the area before trying this.

Years ago, while making love to one of my favorite boyfriends – we were having a very intimate moment. I knew he didn’t mind if I was spontaneous and I moved my hand down his butt and slid my finger into his ass a little ways. To this day, at least 12 or 13 years later, I have no clue why I thought to do this, but he rewarded my initiative with a wonderful moan. That got my attention and I started to move my finger and massage the area. Yes, the moans increased. Sadly for him, at that time, I had no clue what I’d found or what to do. But I remember that he really enjoyed it – you know how it is, we remember the things our men enjoy.

So – some years later, I’ve enjoyed phone sex and cyber sex with some of my friends. That was the topic of another post, but it does apply here. I found that as I was talking or chatting about various scenarios – these guys each gave a positive chat reaction or a moan of some kind. I love to hear a man moan when we’re together

These experiences, while reasonably limited – show me that there are men out there who enjoy a woman massaging the area just inside their anus.

I mentioned that I was talking about this with a friend earlier – we were talking about things he would like to try with someone and this was something he hadn’t tried yet. I know he’s seeing a couple of women, so I asked if he had mentioned this to them. His answer was “no – they will do it if they want to.” I had to disagree with that comment and its one of the reasons I’m writing this post.

How many women out there in the blogosphere would be hesitant to mention this to their man or to slid a finger in? I know men enjoy it and I still hesitate to mention it – so I know other women probably hold back. So, I asked my friend if he had done this to women he had been with – his answer was “yes”. My next comment was that the next time he is playing with his finger(s) in her ass, he could say something like, “I’d love for you to do that to me.” I also suggested that he should say that to the more adventurous woman

I know that some people has issues with anything being inserted into their anus and that is their prerogative.  I’m just mentioning and explaining this for people who would like to try something new – that can be very satisfying.

I recently completed the G-Spot certification course (home study course) through Loveology University and there is a section in that class about the male G-Spot. I’ll share a few things from the class and the link for more info. You will thank me

I’ve heard many people in the media and on The View complain that saying there is a G-Spot is causing unnecessary stress and pressure for men and women to find the G-Spot. I have a couple of comments about that -

1 – if people want to look or feel for it, they should have the information

2 – just like anything in life, not everyone is the same, so why not at least try to see if you can locate it

3 – it is an incredible orgasm and well worth the effort to find it

4 – even if you don’t find the right spot right away, you and your lover will learn more about your body and could definitely find new ways to satisfy you.

The Male G-Spot – some details: (excerpts from G-Spot Certification Course from Loveology University)

Men have a G-spot too. It is the prostate gland, which can be excited by massage to arouse your lover to new levels of intimate pleasure since the area of the anus is surrounded with sensitive nerve endings.

One reason it is called the ‘Hero spot’ is because it takes a hero to be adventurous, secure in his masculinity and trusting with his partner in order to embark on Hero Spot exploration. Others refer to it as the male G-spot because the intensity of the orgasm is similar to what a woman feels.

The male prostate is deeper and resides at the neck of the bladder and that is where a valve dictates if the man is going to ejaculate or urinate. It is important to know that men cannot come and go at the same time.

The prostate can be effectively stimulated by the insertion of a finger or vibrator into your lover’s anus. Women with short fingers may not be able to get to it, in which case a G-spot vibrator for women works just as well for men.

1.Lubricate your finger or vibrator and insert palm up, in a “come hither” motion inside his anus. Once you feel the sensation of pushing against a walnut-sized lump, you have reached the prostate or male G-spot.

2.Apply a light pressure either tapping, rubbing or stroking towards the perineum (the landing strip between the anus and the testicles) to create pleasurable sensations for him.

3. Ask your lover what feels best. Some men say their pleasure zone is just one knuckle inside the anus; others are deeper. Levels of pleasurable response vary with each individual.

Be sure to ask your lover how he likes to be stroked, including what kind of pressure and motions feel best.

Once you get comfortable with this – you can give your man a trigasm – he will absolutely love that. Imagine his satisfaction if you are stimulating 3 erogenous zones on his body at the same time and he reaches orgasm. Its mind blowing and the full instructions are in the course Actually, instructions for the male and the female trigasm are in the course…..

https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=42

Any thoughts or experiences you would like to share?

Need You Tonight by NXS

I’ve been listening to Music Choice this weekend while I’m working around the house and they keep playing this song. That’s cool because I enjoy it — so just sharing the lyrics and a video.

I really like this song – the pulsing beat, the deep throaty comments — ummm, what’s not to like I still think it just sets the mood —-

Come over here
All you got is this moment
The 21st Century’s yesterday
You can care all you want
Everybody does yeah that’s okay

So slide over here
And give me a moment
You moves are so raw
I’ve got to let you know
I’ve got to let you know
You’re one of my kind

I need you tonight cause I’m not sleeping
There’s something about you girl
That makes me sweat

How do you feel
I’m lonely
What do you think
Can’t think at all
Whatcha gonna do
Gonna live my life

So slide over here
And give me a moment
You moves are so raw
I’ve got to let you know
I’ve got to let you know
You’re one of my kind

I need you tonight
Cause I’m not sleeping
There’s something about you girl
That makes me sweat

How do you feel
I’m lonely
What do you think
Can’t think at all
Whatcha gonna do
Gonna live my life
How do you feel
I’m lonely

What do you think
Can’t think at all
Whatcha gonna do babe
Gonna live my life

So slide over here
And give me a moment
You moves are so raw
I’ve got to let you know
I’ve got to let you know

So slide over here
And give me a moment
I’ve got to let you know
I’ve got to let you know

You’re one of my kind

Flirting Certificate from Loveology University

Flirting — that’s a topic I know well so I started studying for this quiz and was surprised by the interesting things I learned. Flirting can be harmless fun and is definitely fun — but do you know how to flirt, the different ways to flirt, the dos and don’ts and tips for men and women. These are some of the topics that are discussed in this course.

• What Flirting Is

• History of Flirting

• Forms of Flirting

• Common Flirting Gestures

• How to Flirt With Body Language

• Flirting Techniques

• Flirting in Long Term Relationships

• Flirtatious Conversation Starters

• Flirting or Hurting

• Sexual Harassment vs. Flirting

• Flirting, Seduction, Teasing

• Flirting with all Five Senses

• Flirting Do’s and Don’ts

• Flirting Tips for Women & Men

Some of the great things about these courses is that there is so much that everyone can learn – even if they already know a lot about the various topics. I also like that I can study at home – on a schedule that suits me and in the privacy of my own home. The flirting course is one of the topics in the Certified Romantic Course. Its a great course and covers all the main topics that people need to understand for success dating and to build a solid foundation for a relationship. The Certified Romantic course includes: dating, flirting, communication, love, intimacy,  foreplay and kissing. For more details about becoming a certified romantic – click here – https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/CourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=65.

Flirting

This Course Is For You If: You want to Learn How to Use Your Body Language for Flirting You want to Have the Right Flirting Props to Get Attention You want to Have a List of Great Conversation Starters You want to the Confidence to Flirt Spontaneously Welcome to Loveology University’s Flirting Certification Course. Inside you will find all the secrets behind the art of flirting. This course reveals the hottest tips on how to improve your game with unique approaches including questions, compliments and pick up lines. Even if you have your own skills, you are sure to learn something new about the power of body language, flirting props and conversation that will help to get you noticed. There are techniques for couples on how to keep a long term relationship new and exciting by flirting. This course provides you with guidelines of the do’s and don’ts of flirting, the best way and place to find your ideal person to flirt with. From the historical perspective of how and why flirting evolved to its extensive forms that exist today, this course is anything but a tease!

https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=26

Sex Toy Review – Vibrating Support Plus Extended Ring Matador

This is a cock ring with a vibrating bullet which fits into the ring. Its an interesting idea and I like the attention to “detail” to place a small vibrator right in the vicinity of the clitoris. The vibrator is compact, but provides a decent amount of vibration.

While it is a nice gadget — I’m not a big fan of cock rings. I’m sure there is one on the market that I’ll like – but to me they are awkward to use and I’ve found them to slow down the pace. But, could just be me….

But – for men and couples who like cock rings, I think you will really enjoy this toy. It is flexible and expands – as needed. There are two stainless steel pieces in the ring and the ring is built to give a snug fit on the penis along with vibration on the clitoris during intercourse.  Its possible this little gadget could give you a bigasm – that would be very good

For more details, visit – http://www.calexotics.com/

Women Taking the Initiative – When is it Too Much

I’ve heard many times that men like women to take the initiative – to be assertive and forthcoming about what they want.  Most men – well the ones I know – want to please a woman. So, if she is willing and able to share what she’s thinking, how she feels, what she wants, etc – it can be much easier to please her and for a healthy and satisfying relationship.

I’m talking about all aspects of a relationship – not just in bed. From first meeting, working through those initial weeks where you’re learning about one another and even later – when unexpected things come up between you.

But – I have a question.

What is the limit to how assertive men actually want a woman to be?

When does it become too much and maybe even intimidating?

I would think that it depends on the man — that’s why I’m asking the question and hoping to hear your thoughts

G-Spot Certification From Loveology University

The elusive G-Spot – does it exist, is it a myth, did women make it up just to terrorize men? Yes, no and no

The G-Spot does exist and it was identified and named after Ernest Gräfenberg. To really blow apart the myth that women made up the G-Spot – men have a G-Spot too.

This course talks mainly about the female G-Spot, what it is, where it is and maybe most important — how to find it. There are details about female ejaculation – and yes it is possible. I thought it was very strange and unexpected the first time it happened to me, but interesting. It also makes your lover feel very proud when he finds your G-Spot and can make you ejaculate. But, I digress

Have you heard of PC muscles? These are muscles that can improve your lovemaking – for you and your lover and they also make G-Spot ejaculation more possible and more intense. It seems the biggest problem with the G-Spot is that many people don’t know where it is and how to find it. This is a very simple explanation, but it is only part of the process of finding and stimulating the G-Spot – there is a 10 step process that is described in detail in this course – with diagrams

The G-spot area is located inside the woman’s vagina, about a third of the way in-between the vaginal opening and the cervix. It’s somewhere between 1.5 to 3 inches inside the vagina on the upper wall so imagine a small clock inside the vagina and you’ll find the G-spot between 11 and 1 o’clock (with 12:00 pointing towards the navel).

It has a ridged texture to it and responds to gentle stroking.  The G-spot is also known as the female prostate gland, and unlike the male prostate gland, which has only two ducts, the G-spot has over 32 much smaller ducts.  In many women, once properly stimulated, the G-spot can provide a very powerful orgasm.

Some women claim that stimulation of the G-spot can produce a longer, deeper, more powerful orgasm than a clitoral orgasm.  The clitoral orgasm is felt like a release of tension in the genitals while the G-spot orgasm is felt throughout the body with more physical and emotional release.  The G-spot also requires slower stimulation than the clitoris.

The woman should empty her bladder before beginning, especially since stimulation of the G-spot often creates the sensation of having to urinate.  It’s ideal for her to lie on her back with her pelvis raised by a pillow as well.  Put your thumb on her pelvic mound or clitoris and insert your middle or forefinger inside her vagina, palm up, in a “come hither” motion.  Pay close attention and monitor the feelings in your fingers while searching for the G-spot.  Push gently on the outer third of the vagina’s top region, between the vaginal opening and the cervix.  When you touch a small, ridged patch area, your partner may feel sensitive, as if she needs to urinate.  If her bladder is empty, the sensitive feeling will pass and be replaced with intense, pleasurable feelings.

One common question men or women ask is – how will I know when I find it? I can tell you from personal experience that the woman will know and if the man is paying attention to her face and her moans and sighs – he will know too.

If you are a woman, you should take some time to try to find your G-Spot and then you can help your lover find it. If you have a hard time reaching it yourself – and it can be difficult – there are all kinds of sex toys that are made for the G-Spot. Some are better than others and Dr Ava explains a number of them in the course – one of the best is the We-Vibe (see my review – http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2009/12/20/sex-toy-review-we-vibe/). Once your lover masters the G-Spot orgasm – you can move on to a trigasm. You will thank me

I did digress a bit in this write up about the course, but there are many people who think the G-Spot doesn’t exist and I was asked about that today (1-5-2010) in an interview with ABCNews.com (http://abcnews.go.com/Health/ReproductiveHealth/gspot-real-sex-educators-refute-british-study/story?id=9485512&page=1) and I totally believe it does exist. That is an orgasm that is unlike others and I think couples should at least try to locate each other’s G-Spots. Even if you don’t succeed at first – you will have fun and like Dr Ava says — “Practice, practice, practice”

If you are a man or a woman and you want to learn all about the G-Spot – I highly recommend you check out this course. You download the course materials and can study in the privacy of your own home. And, the homework is great

For much more information about this course and to learn how to find and stimulate your G-Spot or your lover’s G-Spot, visit https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=42

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Learn Exactly How to Find and Stimulate the G-spot
• You want to Know the Difference Between a G-spot Orgasm and a Clitoral Orgasm
• You want to How Woman can Ejaculate from the G-spot
• You want to Find and Stimulate the Male G-spot

Welcome to Loveology University’s G-spot Certification Course. Aside from learning exactly what the G-spot is, you will learn: what it is made of, where it is located, what its function is, how it differs in different women, the best techniques and positions for stimulation. You will be taught how to find your own G-spot and how to find your lover’s G spot, sex toys designed to stimulate the G-spot and the various emotional and physical responses to G-spot stimulation. Just as important is how to communicate emotions that come up during G-spot arousal. By the end of this course you’ll be an expert on all aspects of the G-spot including G-spot orgasm and how it differs from clitoral orgasm. You’ll recognize that some women experience ejaculation during G-spot orgasm and learn about the scientific evidence behind female ejaculation.

For much more information about this course and to learn how to find and stimulate your G-Spot or your lover’s G-Spot, visit https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=42

What Real Men Should Do When in a Relationship

I found this on a Facebook group (What Real Men Should Do When in a Relationship) this morning and wanted to share it – lots of great points in here about male/female relationships. I don’t know who the anonymous guy is that wrote it – but he’s right I know that I”d like to find this again

We don’t care if you talk to other guys.

We don’t care if you’re friends with other guys.

But when you’re sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we’re still there.

We don’t care if a guy calls >OR TEXTS< you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.

Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can’t wait
till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you’re pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/
cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don’t tell us we’re wrong.

We’ll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.

Don’t be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in.

let us pay for you!

dont “feel bad”

We enjoy doing it.

It’s expected.

Smile and

say “thank you.”

Kiss us when no

one’s watching.

If you kiss us when you know somebody’s looking, we’ll be more impressed.

You don’t have to get dressed up for us.

If we’re going out with you in the first place, you don’t have to feel the need to
wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for who you are and not what you are.

honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her pj’s. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up

Don’t take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don’t get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don’t talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.

It’s boring, and we don’t care. You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word “handsome”/”beautiful”

I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me
with “Hey handsome!” instead of “Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy” or whatever else you can think of.

on the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; )

Also “getting some” is not the only thing EVERY guy cares about.
Girls, proof of this is if a guy will wait for you to be “ready” to “take your relationship to the next level”

Not all guys are the same. And we’re not all perfect either. We’re only human.

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren’t being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change. ditch his sorry, disgrace to the male population ass and find someone who will treat you with utter respect

Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you’re at your
lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what they’re doing just to look you in the eyes….and say “i love you” ..and actually mean it.

Give the nice guys a chance

Guys repost this if you agree

Girls repost this if you think it’s cute

Every Guy who isn’t a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read this will repost this

*Holdin Hands
Girls :If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of
times.
Guys : Grab it if it happens more than once.

*Cuddling
Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you’re cold
Guys : Automatically move closer to her.

*Movies
Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder
Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.

*Loving each other
Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her
too… And mean it.

*Laying below the stars
Girls : When you’re both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat
Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers.