Inspirational Quote – Nurture Your Mind

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go any higher than you think.” Benjamin Disraili

 

 

What are the Body Language Signs That You Are in Love

How can you tell if that special person is falling in love with you? Their body language can reveal his or her true feelings and intentions for you – even when they don’t say the words. I know it sounds corny, but a person in love has a “glow” every time he or she is with that special person. But you may be wondering about the other signs?

You will notice that a person who is falling for you can’t stand being far from you. They smile and laugh more. They will mirror things that you do and say. And one of the most obvious is that he or she cannot keep their eyes off you.

Personal Space

A person in love looks for ways to be closer to you. You know a person’s personal space has gotten smaller when he or she gets comfortable with you even in the slightest distance. Notice in a room full of people, he will always try to stay close to you.

That person will lean his body towards you, whether you are sitting down or standing up. The direction of his or her body will be turned towards you. If she isn’t in love with you, then the direction of her eyes show who is in her mind.

More Touch, Smiles, And Laughter

A person who is falling for you, listens to you more. You will notice more reactions to your words, than he or she had during your first dates. There is more laughter even for your worst jokes. While talking, he or she will smile more and this is especially true when they are being quiet. This is because he or she is really enjoying your time together.

He or she will make the effort to touch you from time to time. A tap on the shoulder, placing the hand on the small of the back, hugging, and holding the hands are some of the most common touching body language when falling in love.

The Mirroring Actions

This is a funny yet very sweet signal of attraction since it is done unconsciously most of the time. This is where a person would imitate the actions of their special person. For example, you may prop your chin on your hand, the person in love with you will copy that same action.

The Longer Stare

A person in love with you simply cannot take his eyes off you. This is especially true when their feelings have just started to develop, he or she finds it difficult to concentrate on other things. The stare is usually intimate or intense, and it is accompanied by a slight smile.

That Glow

It is hard to explain, but a person has a certain aura around him or her when he or she is in love and happy. It is due to the extreme happiness and joy they feel and this is reflected with a sparkle in the eyes and a smile that is hard to suppress or remove from the face.

When a person falls in love, it changes him or her completely and this is reflected in his or her body language. Some people fail to notice this, but these signs are definitely there. The person is often unaware that he is giving these hints and clues about his true feelings for that special someone. Most people find them hard to miss and they love these sign of attraction whether sent silently or through simple romantic actions and gestures.

What are some other body language signs that you are in love or are falling in love?

Inspirational Quote – Creativity is…

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LoveMagick – Baking Bread and Romance

All young girls and young women have heard that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. This put an interesting new spin on that idea.

The simple act of baking has been used as a sacred ritual since human being first learned to heat food over an open flame. Today this art is called Kitchen Witchery and it has a loyal following.

Breads and other grain products are the ones most often chosen for kitchen magick simply because of their ancient associations with unity and magickal timing. Grain products have been sacred to many deities all around the world, with harvest and threshing times often marking the dates of ancient holiday. The phrase “breaking bread together” ha been used to umbolize unity, friendship and familial bonds, and has also been the basis for many spells designed to attract romance.

An English spell that is alo popular in the southern Appalachian Mountains tells us to bake a loaf of bread where the name of our desired love  has either been carved onto the dough prior to or during the baking. As the loaf bakes, the baker should it near the stove, mentally pouring the energy of their desired outcomes into the bread. When this magickally charged loaf is shared between the baker and their desired mate, an engagement is almost a certainty.

Whether you believe in the magick or not — do you pour your love into all the things you bake for your loved one?

(From Bewitchments: Love Magick for Modern Romance by Edain McCoy)

Inspirational Quote – Accept You Could Fail

 

“You must accept that you might fail; then, if you do your best and still don’t win, at least you can be satisfied that you’ve tried. If you don’t accept failure as a possibility, you don’t set high goals, you don’t branch out, you don’t try – you don’t take the risk.“

~ Rosalynn Carter, former first lady and author

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Body Language: Is He or She Interested in You

How many times have you wondered if a person is interested in you? Many people keep their thoughts and feeling to themselves, so it is great to have another way to “read their mind”. How can a person show his affection to another person without telling him or her? How can one know he or she is indeed attracted to another person?

Body language is your way to break the secret code for romance. A person’s body language is an obvious way of telling someone how he feels and a subtle way to share what he wants to say. Your eyes, facial expressions, and body movements do express your desire to engage in a romantic or intimate relationship with another person.

Look Deep Into My Eyes

The eyes are strong indicators of romance and attraction. They can express, flirt, and even seduce much better than words. Eye contact may not mean anything if it only happens briefly. But when it lasts longer and includes an intense look, he or she is definitely into you. Winking will also work, but it requires right timing. Another strong evidence of attraction is when someone catches your eye, looks away, then looks back at you again. On the other hand, if he or she look away and never looks back again, it is a clear sign he or she is not interested.

Read My Face

The smile is one of the greatest sign he or she likes you. It means he is truly interested, comfortable, and enjoying your company. But it is important you know how to determine a forced smile from a sincere one. Raising the eyebrows, even when done subconsciously, has been done by people flirting with each other.

The Magic Of Touch

Sometimes, leaning towards another person just is not enough. In these instances, we find that closing the distance between us is much better. A light tap or stroking the arm can be a great way to send electric signals to another person. Most of people pretend there is a smudge on the face or lint on the clothes just to have a reason to touch. What sorts of excuses have you used to tough that special person?

Men and Women Use Body Language in Different Ways

Compared to men, women can send signals of attraction five times stronger. They have more flirting habits than men and most of them are done intentionally. They love to preen, play with their hair, tossing the hair over the shoulder, and using their hands to play with something such as a wine glass. Most women are quite good in seducing and teasing men, especially when they use their lips – without touching him. Biting and licking their lips, putting on lipstick, and eating or drinking slowly are the usual moves of an interested woman.

Meanwhile, men usually try to appear masculine to show their prowess to the women they like, by giving them a look at their full length. They try to stand taller, square their shoulders, and sometimes hook their thumbs into the belt for that macho aura. They also unconsciously touch their ties or collar – these are indications that they find you irresistible and he wants to make an impression on you.

Will You Accept the Invitation

You could determine that a person likes you if he or she gives the following signs: prolonged eye contact, raising of eyebrows, smiling back, laughing with you, leaning close, closing the distance, imitating your actions, touching, preening, and thing like that. If you get these signs, it means there is a big possibility that you could take your interaction to a higher level.

Signs Indicating “No!”

To round out your knowledge about body language, it would be necessary to explain the ways to determine if a person is not interested.

A person is most likely not interested when he or she never glances back at you. You can also determine that person is bored or uninterested in you when his or her eyes start to wander, sigh, yawn, have passive or neutral facial expressions, and other similar actions and looks.

The signals of body language in terms of romance and attraction are easy to detect if you know how to interpret a person’s actions. Understanding the gestures and body movements of another person can definitely help you know in advance if you may have the opportunity to be intimate together or be rejected.

What’s On Your Sexual Soundtrack

Music is a very powerful medium. Certain songs can make us feel mellow, make us mad, make us happy, make us horny and many other emotions. I know that for me, some songs spark very happy or very sad memories and of course, some very erotic and sexy memories.

One example is that each man I have dated seriously – have contributed to the musicians I enjoy. Some examples include: The Rolling Stones, Bruce Springsteen, Lyndard Skynard, ZZ Top and others. So – each time I hear any song (and some specific songs), I remember some special memories between the two of us.

Here are the questions…..

1. What’s your favorite song for slow, sweet and passionate love making?
2. What’s your favorite song for raw, wild and unihibited sex?
3. Are the songs different for different sexual partners?
4. Has a parner/lover prompted you to enjoy a new musician? If so – why?
5. Do you like soothing music that sweeps over your body and seems to wrap around your bodies?
6. Do you use music to set the mood for sex? Is it the same music with each person and each time or does it vary?
7. What songs make up your sexual soundtrack or is yours a more sensual soundtrack?

Mitzi

Love and Relationship Coach: How A Coach Can Help You

For many people, this is a time when they become dissatisfied with his or her life. He or she might think there is something more for him or her out there. The dissatisfaction could be about the job, love, children, sex life or about life in general. If you feel this way then you may be in need of a love coach.

Love Coach and Love Coaching

A love coach is a lot like a baseball coach, a basketball coach or a football coach. The coaches teach and train the players to identify and change faulty habits, then develop and improve so they can improve. A love coach works a lot like that. The coach helps people change faulty habits, develop and improve the different aspects of their lives for them to determine and achieve their goals in life.

Love coaching is the process of developing and improving your life. It is a partnership between you and a coach to work together for a certain period of time. The partners have sessions that focus on your needs and other issues.

With many types of therapy, you discuss and focus on the past. This can include what your mother or father did that lead you to this point in your life. With a love coach, we want to help you move forward, identify things that are holding you back and setting goals that will move you and your life forward.

Through these sessions, the love coach helps you client develop different strategies and solutions to improve your life and your love. This is an interaction between two persons and it is not only the coach who makes decisions. You need to be actively involved especially in the decision making process. The most successful coaching happens when you are ready to take positive action to improve your life and love.

Why Do You Need Love Coaching

The point in time when you want and are ready to make a change can quickly come and go. But this will happen from time to time and it begins to bother you.

• So what will you do about it?
• Is it okay to let this keep happening for the rest of your life?
• Is it okay not to do anything about it?
• Will you be happy if you leave this unresolved?
• Is it okay to feel dissatisfied?

With a love coach, you are given a helping hand to guide you to take that big leap and change for the better. He or she is there to aid in determining the right path for you to take to improve and feel satisfied with your life. The coach helps you learn the way to improve your life.

Benefits of Having A Love Coach

A love coach helps you determine what you want, why you want it, and how you can achieve it. He or she will help you take the steps to move from where you are now to where you want to be. A love coach gives encouragement, provides support and confidence as well as motivation for you to achieve your goals.

Will You Really Benefit From It

Anyone can benefit from love coaching. It does not matter where you are or who you are, for as long as you want changes and improvements in your life, you will benefit from having a love coach. Whether you are a man, a woman, married or single, there are many ways a love and relationship coach can help you make changes in your life.

Love coaches have been effective when it comes to the different aspects of life. This includes self-esteem, self-confidence, dating, choosing a partner, keeping romance and intimacy in your life, aspects of your sex life, putting more spice and variety you’re your relationship, learning to love yourself, and so much more. It all depends on you on what aspect of your life you need help with.

So do you really need a love coach? The only one who can answer this now is you. The basics of love coaching and love coaches have been laid out for you and it is up for you to decide whether you need a love coach or not.

Do you want to find what’s missing and learn how to improve your relationship?  Contact Mitzi at 4mitzirae@gmail.com for a free consultation to find out how this works.

Are You Up for Talking Dirty?

I just heard about a writing contest — here are the details….

Here’s a variation on “talk dirty to me.”  In the spirit of the holidays, my friend and sister Quiver author Dr. Sonia Borg and I are running two contests.  The winners can choose one of her books AND one of mine.

Contest #1: Holiday Erotica (suggested by our most excellent IT Babe, Lindsey Cardarelli)

Send us your original erotic story by midnight December 22.  Any length up to 2,000 words.  Sonia, Lindsey, Kimmie and I will select a male and female winner whose stories will be published on SexyPrime.  The book package will also include some little treats like individually wrapped packets of lube and official NYC condoms and at least one vibrating surprise courtesy of Babeland.

Attach your entry to this post as a comment or send it to me via email by hitting the email button on the left hand side of the blog or using this address:  sexyprimequiver@gmail.com

SexyPrime is read in almost every country on the planet–and by a lot of people in book and magazine publishing in the U.S. and the U.K.–making it a good place to showcase your creative work.

We can’t wait to read your stories……

Holiday kisses from Sonia, Lindsey, Kimmie, Mary (SexyPrime’s godmother)–and me.

And we also invite you to become fans of Quiver’s Facebook page.  Quiver Books creates the most elegantly erotic sex books on the market.  By joining the fan page, you will be the first to know about upcoming books and promotions.