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Kissing Classes on The Doctors

Posted by mitzirae on January 4, 2011

For a sneak peek into some of the information in the kissing course from Loveology University – watch Dr Ava on The Doctors in this video clip

http://www.thedoctorstv.com/main/home_page?init_type=Feature&init_id=3242

kisser

Here are some details from the Kissing Course – (in California you can earn CEUs with this course)

  • What Kissing Is
  • Kinds of Kisses
  • History of Kissing
  • Myths of Kissing
  • Preparing for the Kiss
  • The Art of Kissing
  • Kissing Rules
  • What Can be Kissed
  • Kissing Targets
  • G-Love
  • Where to Sneak a Kiss
  • Kissing – How To
  • Tantra Kisses
  • Kissing Positions
  • Kissing All Five Senses
  • Kissing Boundaries
  • Healing Kisses
  • Kissing Fears
  • Kiss-ercise
  • Kissing Games
  • Kissing Concerns
  • Orgasmic Kissing
  • Kissing with Piercing
  • The Hickey Kiss
  • Kissing Crimes
  • Kissing the Genitals

and more……

These are some of the things covered in the course — and the homework is wonderful :)

This Course Is For You If:

  • You want to Learn the Art of Tantric Kissing
  • You want to Discover What Can and Should be Kissed
  • You want to Become Skilled at Kissing Positions
  • You want to Know the Secret to Orgasmic Kissing

Welcome to Loveology University’s Kissing Certification Course. Inside you will learn everything you ever wanted to know about the most intimate act of kissing. There’s a lot more to kissing than two lips meeting and by the end of this course, you’ll be an expert on the history of kissing, the latest scientific research, dozens of sexy kissing tips and techniques, games, positions, places to kiss and you’ll discover what your kissing style says about you. Now pucker up for the ultimate kissing experience.

More Details About Becoming a Certified Kisser -

https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=23

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What It Means to Please Your Woman

Posted by mitzirae on November 11, 2010

Imagine for a minute – that your woman comes to you asking for sex. That’s right – you don’t have to ask, you don’t worry that she’ll claim to have a headache or to be too busy. That’s because you have proven to be the ideal partner and lover – and she wants you. She wants you to make love to her. Does that sound good? I’m going to give you the secret formula…

I once heard that “anyone can have sex, but making love is an art form.” That is very true, and pleasing your woman is an art. Here are the “secrets” you need to know to please your woman and to take your relationship to a deeper and more satisfying level.

First, you need to be aware and have thorough knowledge of what you woman wants, needs and desires. Sure you may have been together for a long time and you may feel that you know everything about her – but maybe you have started to take your relationship for granted. You know she takes care of the kids, she drives the car pool on Tuesdays and she almost always has dinner on the table by 7.

But do you know what drives her crazy? Do you know the spots where she wants to feel your lips on her body? Do you notice the subtle differences in her moans as she’s about to cum? What combinations of your hands, your mouth and intercourse does she prefer? What is her favorite type of foreplay? What’s her favorite after play?

Before we dig into those details, you should know that your woman needs three characters in her lover.

  • She wants a father figure to take care of her, support and protect her – when she needs it
  • A lover that respects, appreciates, and desire her and make passionate love to her
  • A mischievous little boy who is playful, spontaneous, fun and unpredictable

She also needs certain things from her partner and lover:

  • Sometimes (but not all the time) he wants you to take control
  • Other times she wants to initiate sex – and she wants you to be ready, willing and able
  • There are times when she wants to learn something new from you
  • She wants you to make her laugh – laugh with her, not at her
  • She wants and needs you to help her feel confident sexually – compliment her
  • Just like she wants you to be a little boy at time, sometimes she wants to be a mischievous little girl

So down to the nitty gritty – these are the things that are included in pleasing your woman –

  • You need to stimulate her mind and body – not just one, but both and its good to start with her mind
  • Boost her confidence in bed – be honest and positive
  • You need to put her needs first – don’t rush to cum yourself and you may want to learn ways to last longer in bed to please her longer
  • Consider her feelings when you talk and deal with her – if she’s had a long day don’t rush her to have sex. Give her a massage and see what she wants it to go
  • Let her know how you feel about her – sure we know men don’t want to talk about their feelings, but do you tell her that you love her? You need to.
  • Maybe the most difficult is to help her accept her sexuality. It doesn’t make sense to men, but often family, friends, religion and society have “taught” a woman not to embrace her sexuality. You will both be much happier if you help her accept and surrender to her sexuality.

A short review of the results and benefits of pleasing your woman

  • It builds her confidence and yours
  • It encourages her to be more sexual
  • You both will likely improve your sexual skills
  • The better your sex life is – the less likely infidelity will be a concern
  • It builds feelings of desirability in both of you
  • You derive pleasure from seeing her pleasure and satisfaction
  • The intimacy between you will increase
  • The commitment between you will likely increase and/or improve
  • And – you will likely have better sex

So, do you think it’s a good idea to focus on pleasing your woman?

If you would like personal advise and direction about pleasing your partner, contact me about a love coaching session at 4mitzirae@gmail.com

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How to Please a Woman – Start at the Beginning

Posted by mitzirae on October 2, 2010

please a woman - relationship coachMen need to understand that knowing the techniques to please a woman can be a very rewarding experience. Understanding the ways to truly and deeply please a woman – will give you a sense of power. It makes you the ideal partner. It makes you the only man she will want. It makes her ask you for sex – would you enjoy that? Then, read on.

Truly pleasing intimacy and sex involve being aware and being able to know what a woman wants and desires. This is not a tip sheet just to get a woman into bed – it goes deeper than that. This is instruction to enable you to please a woman on a deeper level and to build a lasting bond between you.

There are three characteristics a man needs to please a woman:

  • She needs a father figure – he will care, protect and support her when she needs his support
  • She needs a lover – he will appreciate, desire and respect her, and make passionate love to her
  • She needs a mischievous little boy – be fun, playful and unpredictable, keep things interesting

There are times when your woman wants you to take control. She knows you want sex – but show that you want and desire her. Show that you want to please her. She wants you to help her feel confident sexually – it is always great to encourage her to take the lead in your sexual activities. When she shows initiative and instigates sex – encourage her, but let her maintain control. Otherwise, you can discourage her from taking the lead in the future.  When she shows the initiative, let her know that you are ready, willing and able to participate and to please her.

Keep your lovemaking, fun, unpredictable and enjoyable. There are times when you both need to have fun and to laugh. You never want to laugh at a lover, but have fun and laugh with your lover. This is one area where that mischievous little boy is needed. Let the fun loving little girl in your woman come through.  Laughter is a key to a lasting and satisfying relationship.

This can be very beneficial for parents who are preoccupied with home, work and children. When your children are asleep or out of the house, close the door and be totally submerged in time for you and your woman – not the dutiful mother, but the fun, sensual woman you want to please.

There are many more tips to pleasing a woman – including the ways to please a woman, the benefits of pleasing a woman and individual techniques to please her emotionally, mentally, physically and sexually. For more detail, check the How to Please a Woman home study course from Loveology University – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=35&a_aid=litekepr

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Please Your Partner’s Feet

Posted by mitzirae on August 22, 2010

Thrill Your Lover’s Feet

Previously, I shared some information to help you understand more about foot fetish.

Now, let’s cover the steps that explain how you can thrill your lover’s toes.

1 – Undress the feet — remove socks, nylons, stockings etc. If you are so inclined, draw out removal of the stockings and linger on her thighs, her legs and anywhere else your hands and fingers may roam as you remove these items. (If you enjoy stockings, you may want to replace them a little later.)

2 – Wipe lint and other things away from between the toes. You can do this with your hand or an item that will gently remove the lint and maybe tickle a little bit.

3 – Soak the feet in warm water and you may want to add lavender scented soap or essential oil. Lavendar is an aphrodisiac and the scent is relaxing.

4 – Use a pumis stone or a wash clothes to remove any dead skin.

5 – Use moisturizing soap to clean between the toes, all around the heal, caress the ankle – if you want to, you can work your way up the lower leg, over the knees, along the thighs…. But I digress….

6 – Pat the areas dry with a warm, soft, fluffy towel

7 – Carefully clean under your partner’s nail, then clip and file each toe nail individually giving full attention to each nail

8 — Clip any hang nails carefully

9 – Be sure that you have some flavored lubricant or some liquid food, maybe syrup of some kind. Squeeze the liquid into the palm of your hand

10 – Rub your hands together to heat theliquid

11 – Use your hands to caress and massage your partner’s feet, one at a time.

12 – You can use different strokes and different pressure to vary the touch. (You may want to look into an Erotic Massage Course) http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=39&a_aid=litekepr

13 – Once you have warmed up your partner’s feet and have them relaxed – breath slowly on the skin of their feet – exhale with warm breaths.

14 –Move your mouth or your partner’s feet to change the distance between your breath and their skin.

15 – Lick your lips – thoroughly so that your lips are wet and ready

16 – Breath close to your partner’s big toe and kiss their toe.

17 – Kiss the big toe and wrap your lips around the toe, sliding your mouth onto it.

18 – Take each toe individually – caress the toe with your lips and tongue, run your tongue around each toe, along the top the sides and underneath each toe, suck them into your mouth and kiss each toe. Take your time and give each toe plenty of attention.  Treat the toe just like you would treat a penis when giving your partner oral sex.

19 – As your suck each toe, push your pinky finger between the toes to give the feeling of being penetrated.

20 – Slide your hand under one heel and cup the heel carefully. Be sure to use more lubricant at any time if your hands start to get dry. Wet hands and fingers give a much smoother massage.

21 – Gently bite the soles of the feet or nibble the sole and if your partner enjoys this, you can nibble softly around the edge of the foot.

22 – You enjoy hearing your partner moan – they will enjoy hearing you moan too. Let them know how much you enjoy pleasuring their feet.

23 – Run the tip of your tongue along the vein lines on the top of each foot.

24 – Pull on the skin of the foot – this is easier and sexier with wet hands. Alternately pull on the skin and tap on the bottom and the edges of the feet.

25 – Stroke your partner’s feet, alternating the rhythm the same way you would vary the rhythm of thrusts and strokes during intercourse. Slowly stroke and you can stroke faster and harder – if your partner enjoys this – as you simulate intercourse

26 – It is always important to listen to your partner and watch their reactions to be sure they are enjoying what you are doing. This will also help you know what to do more and what to do less – to please your partner.

27 – Pick a toe – watching your partner’s reactions can help you decide which one to pick. Then treat this toe like you would treat a clitoris. Use your imagination, be creative and give that toe your undivided attention.

28 – Be sure to let your partner know when you are aroused. If you are getting aroused too fast, show this too.

29 – Enjoy the process, use plenty of lubrication on your hands and on your partner’s feet and toes. This will allow you to keep your movements, strokes and other touch smooth and arousing.

30 – Most important – have fun and stimulate your partner through their feet.

Would you like to learn more about Foot Fetish? Check out this course http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=58&a_aid=litekepr. This foot stimulation is my interpretation of a process described in this course, by Dr Ava Cadell.

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Will You Suck My Toes

Posted by mitzirae on August 21, 2010

Are you one of the people who loves feet? Or, are you one of those people who just cannot understand what could possibly be sexual about your lover’s feet? Let’s talk about foot fetish and see if you may want to pay extra attention to your lover’s feet.

Why wouldn’t we think a lot of our feet and give them extra attention. Our feet serve very real purposes – like giving the body a foundation and carry and support our bodies. But we often forget or ignore our feet. However, most people love a foot massage and there any many foot creams on the market to make our tired, hot, weary feet feel better.

What is a fetish – Webster’s Dictionary says: “Fetish is an object of irrational reverence or obsessive devotion, an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression.” So, a true foot fetish means the person has an inability to be aroused without the presence or fantasy of a foot.

There are various degrees of fetish – they include:

Optional – The fetish is part of a person’s sexual repertoire and an alternative to more conventional fantasies and behaviors but is not necessary or favored for sexual gratification. (For example – The man massages his partner’s feet, eroticizes them with adoration and loving kisses then moves up her calves to her inner thighs and vulva with the same sensual caressing.)

Preferred – Being in active fetishism is better for the individual than not.  (For example – When presented with a sexy foot and a sexy woman, he wants the foot but will engage with both.)

Exclusive – In order for the individual to become aroused the object of desire must be incorporated through fantasy and or reality. (For example – To get hard, to come or experience any sexual arousal, he has to have access to feet be it tangible or fantastical.)

So, if you enjoy having your feet massaged and kissed – you may have an “optional fetish”.  

The common theory about how a foot fetish begins is that, when a child – usually a boy – crawls around and views his mother’s feet. He may even reach out to touch or play with her feet, maybe trying to suck her toes. It may be that we are predisposed to feeling erotically about feet because they have apocrine sweat glands. These are a type of pheromone producing sweat gland like the ones in our armpits and in our genital areas.

Feet are a part of our body that has sensitive areas – so its natural that we enjoy paying attention to our lover’s feet or having them lavish attention on our feet.

However – if you are more serious about foot play in your love making, then you will likely enjoy some specific actions. Foot fetishists enjoy kissing, sniffing, licking, and caressing their partner’s feet before, during or after sex. Some might like their partners to jerk them off or penetrate them with their feet.

Some other activities include:

  • Rubbing
  • Sniffing
  • Touching
  • Tickling
  • Kissing
  • Licking
  • Torturing
  • Caressing
  • Massaging
  • Pampering
  • Pedicuring
  • Worshipping
  • Sucking
  • Cleaning
  • Soaking

Check back for step by step instructions on how to thrill your partner – through their feet.

For much more information and for an online course about foot fetish, visit – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=58&a_aid=litekepr

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Take Your Relationship to a New Level of Intimacy through Couples Enrichment

Posted by mitzirae on June 2, 2010

I have taken a lot of courses through Loveology University – but one of my favorite was on Intimacy in your relationship. One reason is because having true intimacy in your relationship really does take you and your partner to a whole different level of closeness. Another reason is because so few couples seem to have real intimacy – I’m not talking about just having sex – intimacy is much more than that.

These are  a couple of the reasons why I really enjoyed the course on Couples Enrichment. It includes information about the foundation and cornerstones of a great and lasting relationship. These include:

Topics to Lay the Foundation For Your Relationship

  • Communication
  • Kissing
  • Love

Topics As the Relationship Deepens

  • Seduction
  • Intimacy
  • Erotic Massage
  • Sexual Fantasies
  • Erotic Talk
  • Pleasing a Man
  • Pleasing a Woman
  • Oral Sex
  • Sexual Positions
  • Tantric Sex
  • Orgasm

Each of these are topics that will deepen and strengthen your relationship and contribute to the level of true intimacy and satisfaction for you and your partner.

What Enrichment Means -

  • An improvement in communication, intimacy and sexuality.
  • It has all the ingredients of true love; friendship, respect, trust, communication and passion

The Key Ingredients to a Deeper and More Loving Relationship

  • Friendship
  • Respect
  • Trust
  • Communication
  • Passion
  • Foregiveness

One exercise in this course includes these 3 questions. How would you answer these questions?

  1. List 3 strengths in your relationships
  2. List 3 weaknesses in your relationships
  3. What can you do to be more in love with one another?

There are many short exercises which give you and your partner the opportunity to look deeper into your relationship and find ways to be closer. Many couples will never have the kind of true intimacy that will elevate their relationship to a much higher and more satisfying level. It does take effort, but isn’t your most important relationship worth the effort? This is a very small sample of the information contained in this course. This course is great for new relationships and it is also great for long term relationships that need a boost. Would you like to get that initial passion and closeness back that you and your partner had in the beginning? This course is for you :)

For more information, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=37

Loveology University also offers individual courses on each of the topics in this course – in much more detail. The complete list of courses, including the Certified Romantic course is located here – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/CourseCatalogue.aspx

This Course Is For You If:

  • You want to Re-ignite the Hot Passion in Your Relationship
  • You want to Win the Undying Love and Devotion of Your Partner
  • You want to Make Love Longer Than You Ever Believed Possible
  • You want to Discover the Rewards of Intimacy with Sex

Welcome to Loveology University’s Couples Enrichment Certification Course. Inside are exercises guaranteed to improve your communication, enhance your love life and expand your sexual horizon. When a couple has been together for any length of time, they often take each other for granted so this course will help you to fall back in love again. Beginning with the forgiveness process if there is any resentment or animosity pending, followed by praising each other and giving compliments to restore the foundation your relationship was built on. Touching is a big part of this course so you’ll learn the various kinds of touches ranging from healing, romantic, seductive, sexual to erotic. As the course progresses, the exercises become more intense and exciting with mutual masturbation, erotic talk, sensual massage, oral sex, sexual positions all resulting in multiple orgasm for both of you.

Course Price: $69.95 (Includes Video)

For more information, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=37

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Learn to Give an Erotic Massage

Posted by mitzirae on May 30, 2010

There is an art to giving any good massage – the way you hold and move your hands, learning the right strokes and techniques, which part of the body needs each type of touch and so much more. That is even more applicable to an erotic massage. You may be wondering an easy way to determine if a massage is a therapeutic or an erotic massage. It depends on the intent.

Do you want to relax the person? That would be therapeutic.

Do you want to arouse and stimulate your partner? That’s an erotic massage.

These are some of the topics in the erotic massage certification course.

  • Basics of Erotic Massage
  • The Supplies You Need For a Massage
  • Create a Sensual Atmosphere
  • Heat Things Up
  • Prepare the Massage Location
  • Massage Oil
  • Massage Guidelines
  • Types of Touch
  • Isolated Massage
  • Massage Techniques to Cover Your Lover’s Body
  • Massage “Down South” – Below the Waist
  • Create a Happy Ending

Some of the reasons to give an erotic massage include:

  • Relieve tension
  • Improve blood circulation
  • Move energy around the body
  • Sexually arouse your lover and you
  • Help couples exhibit intimacy for one another
  • A safer sex alternative

You need to create the atmosphere with candles, aromatherapy, a pillow, a warm blanket, soft music and these are just the beginning. Its important to have a good surface for your massage – a mattress, a bed, a futon or possibly a massage table. Which ever surface you choose – be sure that it is well padded to make it comfortable. Cover the surface with a clean sheet and you will need one or two other sheets or light blankets to lay over your partner. A pillow for his or her head and another pillow or a rolled up towel for their back, knees, legs and/or feet are good items to have.

The room should be warm – but not hot. You can have some light, but no harsh lights or even natural light. The scents you use should be relaxing and soothing, just like the music you choose. You may want to try several different types of music to see which your partner enjoys the most. It can be good to have a variety of music. You also need to have a good massage oil – be sure to use sufficient oil during the massage.

These are the six keys to a great massage – read on for more detail.

  1. Be present
  2. Full contact
  3. Continuous movement
  4. Attend to both sides
  5. Variety
  6. Land/take-off rarely

These keys are discussed in full detail in the massage certification course along with plenty of pictures.

But – here is some detail….

  1. Be present – be there with your partner, focus on them and be aware of where your hands are and what you’re doing with them
  2. Full contact – keep your hands on your partner, it is great if you move from one part of the body to another and continue to touch them the whole time
  3. Continuous movement – always move your hands, kneading, rubbing, stroking and much more, but keep your hands and body moving on your partner’s body
  4. Attend to both sides – give sufficient attention to your partner’s back and front – when you’re finished massaging their back, have them roll over
  5. Variety – you want to use a variety of strokes, different pressure depending on the part of the body and make some strokes long and others short, vary your touch to keep the massage interesting

These tips are just the beginning.

There are also detailed instructions for a very intimate massage – you will learn to massage your partner’s genital area completely and a variety of different strokes and techniques.

To learn more — http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=39&a_aid=litekepr

This Course Is For You If:

  • You want to Learn How to Give a Woman a Full Body Massage
  • You want to Learn How to Give a Man a Full Body Massage
  • You want to Discover a Secret Guaranteed to Lead to Nights of Passion
  • You want to Increase the Frequency and Pleasure of Your Sex Life

Welcome to Loveology University’s Erotic Massage Certification Course. Inside you will learn all about the art of erotic massage, how to give it and how to receive it, even how to prepare and set the mood to create the right atmosphere. Then step-by-step techniques that anyone can do as long as they have the desire, so you don’t need to be a professional masseuse or masseur to give a memorable erotic massage. Unlike a therapeutic massage, you’ll use every part of your body including your lips, tongue, hair, nails, breasts, chest, buttocks and of course your sexual organs all over your lover’s body. You’ll slide and rub, stroke and lick, pinch and suck every inch of their body. You’ll teach them what you want them to do to you and in doing so add sizzle and spice to your relationship. You’ll learn what to say when giving an erotic massage and what feedback to give when receiving one. So sit back, relax and let this course work its magic.

To Learn More – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=39&a_aid=litekepr

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Male and Female Masturbation

Posted by mitzirae on May 9, 2010

It only seemed appropriate to post details about this course now – because May is Masturbation Month.

I recently completed the Masturbation certification course in my Love Coach training from Loveology University. Masturbation is a topic that gets a bad rap with many people and much of society. So – it is very likely that some people will not agree with many of the content of this course.

These are the topics in this course:

  • What Masturbation Is
  • Early Memories of Masturbation
  • Freedom of Sexual Expression
  • Myths about Masturbation
  • Slang Masturbation for Girls and Guys
  • Preparing for Masturbation & Lubrication
  • What do I Touch?
  • Male & Female Masturbation: How To
  • Vagina & Penis Aerobics
  • Therapeutic Masturbation
  • The Squeeze Technique         & Tips to Make Men Last Longer
  • Separate Orgasm from Ejaculation
  • Masturbate for Penis Elongation
  • Different Places to Masturbate & Different Positions
  • Masturbation Related to Relationships
  • How to Introduce Masturbation to Your Lover
  • Visuals & Audio for Masturbation
  • How to Use Common Objects & Sex Toys for Masturbation
  • What is a Compulsive Masturbator
  • Masturbation Concerns & Consequences of Masturbation

The meaning of masturbation is – Masturbation means touching your own body, including your genitals for sexual pleasure. This is an expression of our sexuality. Our second basic instinct is sexuality, while survival is our first basic instinct.

Masturbation is:

  • A normal and healthy part of “maturing” as we explore our own bodies
  • Pleasurable and erotic
  • Promotes self confidence
  • Safe sex activity
  • Natural stress reliever
  • Helps treat sexual dysfunctions
  • Helps you connect with yourself; self-love

What are some of your earliest memories of masturbation? Whether you did masturbate or not, these are probably some of the first things you remember.

  • Being told not to do it at all or in public & trying to hide it
  • Feeling embarrassed
  • Not knowing why it feels so good
  • Asking peers about it or telling someone you do it
  • Spying on your family members to see if they do it
  • Getting caught by your mother, brother, father or neighbor
  • Feeling that rush of pleasure for the 1st time & feeling guilty you enjoyed it

Masturbation has been wrongly blamed for a host of human ills, including:

  • Blindness
  • Feeblemindedness & Neurotic disorders
  • Sexual perversion
  • Reduced sexual function
  • Only people who “can’t get any” masturbate
  • It’s bad to masturbate everyday
  • Men need to do it and women don’t
  • People in relationships don’t masturbate
  • Makes you “lose” your virginity, or “ruin” it for intercourse

On the lighter side, these are some “fun facts” about masturbation:

  • 80% of males and 59% of females have masturbated by age 18
  • 98% of men have or do masturbate, 95% of women have masturbated or currently do
  • American Medical Association declared masturbation a normal and healthy sexual activity
  • Reduces stress by releasing endorphins
  • Enhances self-esteem and confidence
  • Female masturbation can relieve menstrual cramps
  • Male masturbation can help to prevent the development of prostate cancer
  • It keeps our sexual organs in good working order
  • Effective natural cure for insomnia – release of tension that lead to a deeper, quicker sleep
  • Relieves headaches and muscle aches

The course suggests that you “prepare” to masturbate and like with any sexual activity, involve all 5 of your senses. Here are some suggestions:

TASTE: Have some of your favorite finger foods and beverages available at arms length

SOUND: Play music or an erotic audio, moan

SIGHT: Position a mirror strategically so you can see yourself

SMELL: Light incense or scented candles

TOUCH: Cover your body in oil or wear touchable fabrics such as silk, lace, satin, velvet, latex, or leather

This is just a small sample of the information you can learn in the very comprehensive course on masturbation – which you can study in the privacy of your own home.

This Course Is For You If:

  • You want to Learn Dozens of Masturbation Techniques
  • You want to Introduce Masturbation to Your Lover
  • You want to Learn About Vagina Aerobics
  • You want to Masturbate for Penis Elongation

Welcome to Loveology University’s Masturbation Certification Course. Inside you will learn all you need to know about pleasuring yourself. You may think you already know all about Masturbation, but this info course is guaranteed to teach you new knowledge to add to your arsenal. With over 40 how-to techniques for men and women and a host of unique masturbation positions, you will be sure to take self-pleasuring to a whole new level. Whether you would like to use this information for yourself or to help your clients, keep an open mind and enjoy your ride.

For many more details about this course or any other course on love, relationships and sex, visit – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=24&a_aid=litekepr

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Sexual Positions Certification

Posted by litekepr on April 21, 2010

We’ve all heard of the missionary position, many have heard of doggy style and cowgirl positions – but that is only the tip of the sexual iceberg. There are so many other positions – and that’s just the “official” positions. I’m sure most, if not all, people have found other positions that they enjoy in their sexual encounters and I love spontaneity – so positions wouldn’t normally be planned :)

I recently completed the Sexual Positions Certification course in my Love Coach training. These are some of the topics in this course:

  • Finding the Right Position for You
  • Masturbation Positions
  • Outercourse Positions
  • All Oral Sex Positions
  • Intercourse Positions
  • Anal Sex Positions
  • Male/Male Positions
  • Female/Female Positions
  • Group Sex Positions

Do you agree that list covers all the possibilities? I couldn’t think of any more when I finished the course.

Let me start by saying that safety is a concern and should be considered when deciding what positions to try with your partner. If you see the pictures of some of these positions – you will understand why safety could be an issue. Strength endurance, balance and flexibility are other things that must be considered when deciding what to try.

Part of the content in this course is giving you activities to increase your strength, balance, flexibility and endurance – this will give you the chance to try new and different positions in your sex life. You also need to understand you and your partner’s limitations.

There were a number of tips in the masturbation section that can also be applied with a partner – here is one:

Varying the spread of your legs, arch of your back and angle of your palm help reveal surfaces that you may not have thought of, but can’t imagine living without now that they’ve been found.

Remember that masturbating can be a great way to learn what you like sexually and then you can share those discoveries with your partner — but that’s information for another post :)

Here is another interesting insight that I wanted to share – many people may not know about “outercourse” -

Outercourse reminds participants to attend to all the potential of their partner’s body rather than targeting the genitals for penetration.

These are some outercourse possibilties -

  • Femoral Sex—rubbing between the thighs
  • Gluteal Sex—rubbing between the butt cheeks
  • Manual Sex—rubbing in the palm of the hand
  • Popliteal Sex—rubbing behind the semi-bent knee
  • Spinal Sex—rubbing between the neck and shoulder
  • Digital Sex—rubbing between fingers and or toes
  • Naval Sex—rubbing on or in the belly button

From there – the course moves on to position for male or female oral sex and there are so many possibilities. The same with intercourse and anal sex, there are plenty of options.

Many people are intrigued with threesomes, foursomes and other configurations of group sex – have you thought about all the possible combinations of positions when you add more people to your sexual activities? There are all kinds of options – and this course shows and explains many of them.

There is plenty of information in this course for adventurous people, but there is also great information for people who would just like to add some variety to their sex life. You have the opportunity to study this information in the privacy of your own home and then use only the positions and ideas that appeal to you. I think you and your partner will definitely enjoy the new ideas and options that you will learn here.

Here is more information about the Sexual Positions Course from Loveology University.

Sexual Positions
This Course Is For You If:

  • You want to Learn New Positions for Oral Sex, Masturbation, Intercourse and Anal Sex
  • You want to Add Excitement to Your Relationship with Karma Sutra Positions
  • You want to Discover the Best Positions for Stimulating the G-spot
  • You want to Find the Secret Position that will Enable You and Your Lover to Have Simultaneous Orgasms

Welcome to LoveologyUniversity’s Sexual Positions Certification Course. Inside you will learn about a variety of different sexual masturbation, oral sex and intercourse positions, how to perform them, the pros and cons of each position and the best time to engage in them. This course includes some sacred Kama Sutra and Tantric positions you may not have seen before, so get ready to expand your sexual horizon. There are helpful techniques for those whose lovemaking requires special positions such as women who are pregnant or people who have physical disabilities or limitations. Spicing up your love life with sexual position games can create new memories and even better experiences. It’s time to learn something that your mother never taught you, so get into position!

Course Price: $69.95 (Includes Video)

http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=44&a_aid=litekepr

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Orgasm Certification

Posted by mitzirae on March 28, 2010

This course digs into more than just having an orgasm. There is so much more involved. Let’s start with what an orgasm is –

Orgasm means a sudden burst of energy which allows your body to release tension. At the point of orgasm, or climax, energy is literally released throughout the body and causes a strong tightening of most muscles in the body, especially the vaginal muscles.

The course explains what an orgasm is, but also what it is not. There are many glimpses into why some people are unable to reach orgasm. Some are evident in the earliest memories of orgasms -

• Confusion
• Anticipation
• Guilty pleasure
• Frustration of whether it will happen
• Wondering if you have had one or not
• What it means exactly
There are many myths about orgasms – here are some:
• Women can’t have orgasms after menopause
• Sex isn’t good unless an orgasm occurs
• Ejaculation and orgasm are the same thing
• Vaginal orgasms are better than clitoral orgasms
• Condoms can prevent a man or woman from reaching orgasm
• There is no such thing as a G-spot
• Female ejaculation is when a women urinates
• “Normal” women reach orgasm through intercourse
• A woman who cannot reach orgasm has an unskillful lover
• If a man or woman cannot orgasm together, there must be something wrong with their relationship
The stages of orgasm –

An orgasm is reached at the fourth stage of the following five Dr. Ava Stages:

  • Foreplay
  • Excitement
  • Plateau
  • Orgasmic
  • Resolution

There are many details about each of these stages of orgasm to help us understand what leads up to an orgasm, what happens during an orgasm and how the body “comes down” from this climax.

  • Have you ever wanted to understand the physiological responses of men and women when they orgasm?
  • Can you identify things that hamper you from reaching orgasm?
  • Do you realize that YOU are responsible for your own orgasms? Sure your partner can facilitate your orgasm, but we can mentally and physically cause our body not to reach orgasm – and this is not necessarily a reflection on your partner.
  • Understand the orgasmic “pleasure scale”"
  • Understand the various female orgasms, clitoral, g-spot, vaginal etc
  • Understand unigasms, bigasms, and trigasms – for women and men

Believe it or not – these details only scratch the surface of the details in this course. If you think you know all there is to know about orgasms, I still suggest that you take a look at this course. Imagine the satisfaction that you could enjoy and share by fully understand the orgasmic process…. and how to make it better…

Course Highlights

  • Orgasms and Women
  • Orgasms and Men
  • Orgasm Obstacles
  • Select Your Orgasm from a UniGasm
  • BiGasm
  • TriGasm
  • Blended Orgasm
  • Mind Over Body Orgasm
  • Separating Orgasm from Ejaculation
  • Orgasms and your Health
  • Print out your own personalized certification after passing the quiz
  • Place your e-trophy on your website to prove you are certified

This is an article I shared some time ago about unigasms, bigasms and trigasms that you may enjoy – http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2009/11/16/in-search-of-the-ultimate-orgasm-by-dr-ava-cadell/

More Details About This Course -

This Course Is For You If:

  • You want to Learn About the Different Female Orgasms and How to Achieve Them
  • You want to Learn About the Different Male Orgasms and How to Achieve Them
  • You want to Avoid Orgasm Obstacles
  • You want to Find Out About Orgasm Enhancers and How They Work

Welcome to LoveologyUniversity’s Orgasm Certification Course. Inside you will see interesting research, myths and fun facts, as well as the best ways to get the orgasm you deserve. By taking this course you will learn how incorporating all five senses can heighten your orgasm experience and how you have the ability to choose just what kind of orgasm you would like to have. You’ll understand how to overcome orgasm barriers, find out where to locate the illusive G-spot and how to stimulate it to orgasm, discover the Blended orgasm, the TriGasm and even the Hands Free orgasm for men and women. All responses are different in reference to the orgasm, but this course is sure to have you screaming yes yes yes!

http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=9&a_aid=litekepr

“Before this course, I couldn’t even tell if my partner had orgasms or not. Then I read the incredible wealth of advice and information in this course. Now, not only can I tell when she has an orgasm, I give her more than one! But the benefits don’t stop there; I’ve increased the enjoyment from my own orgasms as well!” — Vijay

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