Make it Happen! Discover More Love and Passion in Your Relationship

“Make it Happen! Discover More Love and Passion”

Are you ready to find out how to “Make it Happen? It is time to Discover More Love and Passion in your relationship.

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• A renewed sense of energy and enthusiasm about turning your relationship around
• Begin to develop your personalized action plan to move your relationship to the next phase of love, connection, intimacy and passion

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Make it Happen! Discover More Love and Passion

Table of Contents

Love and Relationship Coach: Why Would You Need One?

Why Do You Need Love Coaching

Your Part in the Process When Working with a Love Coach

Benefits of Working with a Love Coach

How a Love Coach Works

Ethics of the Love Coach

The Importance of Loving Yourself

When You Look in the Mirror – Who Do You See?

Goals for a Love Coach/Relationship Coach

Are You Happy in Your Relationship

Love Coach Tips

Do You Feel and Think Like a Survivor or a Victim

Some Common Relationship Myths

Pursue Your Purpose – Before Pursuing a Relationship

Your Purpose Must Come Before Your Relationship

Getting in Touch With Your Sexuality

Reading Body Language – Interested or Not

Are You Ready to Start Dating After a Breakup

Is It Time To Take Your Life Into Your Own Hands

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• What Kissing Is
• Kinds of Kisses
• History of Kissing
• Myths of Kissing
• Preparing for the Kiss
• The Art of Kissing
• Kissing Rules
• What Can be Kissed
• Kissing Targets
• G-Love
• Where to Sneak a Kiss
• Kissing – How To
• Tantra Kisses
• Kissing Positions
• Kissing All Five Senses
• Kissing Boundaries
• Healing Kisses
• Kissing Fears
• Kiss-ercise
• Kissing Games
• Kissing Concerns
• Orgasmic Kissing
• Kissing with Piercing
• The Hickey Kiss
• Kissing Crimes
• Kissing the Genitals

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These are some of the things covered in the course — and the homework is wonderful

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What are the Body Language Signs That You Are in Love

How can you tell if that special person is falling in love with you? Their body language can reveal his or her true feelings and intentions for you – even when they don’t say the words. I know it sounds corny, but a person in love has a “glow” every time he or she is with that special person. But you may be wondering about the other signs?

You will notice that a person who is falling for you can’t stand being far from you. They smile and laugh more. They will mirror things that you do and say. And one of the most obvious is that he or she cannot keep their eyes off you.

Personal Space

A person in love looks for ways to be closer to you. You know a person’s personal space has gotten smaller when he or she gets comfortable with you even in the slightest distance. Notice in a room full of people, he will always try to stay close to you.

That person will lean his body towards you, whether you are sitting down or standing up. The direction of his or her body will be turned towards you. If she isn’t in love with you, then the direction of her eyes show who is in her mind.

More Touch, Smiles, And Laughter

A person who is falling for you, listens to you more. You will notice more reactions to your words, than he or she had during your first dates. There is more laughter even for your worst jokes. While talking, he or she will smile more and this is especially true when they are being quiet. This is because he or she is really enjoying your time together.

He or she will make the effort to touch you from time to time. A tap on the shoulder, placing the hand on the small of the back, hugging, and holding the hands are some of the most common touching body language when falling in love.

The Mirroring Actions

This is a funny yet very sweet signal of attraction since it is done unconsciously most of the time. This is where a person would imitate the actions of their special person. For example, you may prop your chin on your hand, the person in love with you will copy that same action.

The Longer Stare

A person in love with you simply cannot take his eyes off you. This is especially true when their feelings have just started to develop, he or she finds it difficult to concentrate on other things. The stare is usually intimate or intense, and it is accompanied by a slight smile.

That Glow

It is hard to explain, but a person has a certain aura around him or her when he or she is in love and happy. It is due to the extreme happiness and joy they feel and this is reflected with a sparkle in the eyes and a smile that is hard to suppress or remove from the face.

When a person falls in love, it changes him or her completely and this is reflected in his or her body language. Some people fail to notice this, but these signs are definitely there. The person is often unaware that he is giving these hints and clues about his true feelings for that special someone. Most people find them hard to miss and they love these sign of attraction whether sent silently or through simple romantic actions and gestures.

What are some other body language signs that you are in love or are falling in love?

Body Language: Is He or She Interested in You

How many times have you wondered if a person is interested in you? Many people keep their thoughts and feeling to themselves, so it is great to have another way to “read their mind”. How can a person show his affection to another person without telling him or her? How can one know he or she is indeed attracted to another person?

Body language is your way to break the secret code for romance. A person’s body language is an obvious way of telling someone how he feels and a subtle way to share what he wants to say. Your eyes, facial expressions, and body movements do express your desire to engage in a romantic or intimate relationship with another person.

Look Deep Into My Eyes

The eyes are strong indicators of romance and attraction. They can express, flirt, and even seduce much better than words. Eye contact may not mean anything if it only happens briefly. But when it lasts longer and includes an intense look, he or she is definitely into you. Winking will also work, but it requires right timing. Another strong evidence of attraction is when someone catches your eye, looks away, then looks back at you again. On the other hand, if he or she look away and never looks back again, it is a clear sign he or she is not interested.

Read My Face

The smile is one of the greatest sign he or she likes you. It means he is truly interested, comfortable, and enjoying your company. But it is important you know how to determine a forced smile from a sincere one. Raising the eyebrows, even when done subconsciously, has been done by people flirting with each other.

The Magic Of Touch

Sometimes, leaning towards another person just is not enough. In these instances, we find that closing the distance between us is much better. A light tap or stroking the arm can be a great way to send electric signals to another person. Most of people pretend there is a smudge on the face or lint on the clothes just to have a reason to touch. What sorts of excuses have you used to tough that special person?

Men and Women Use Body Language in Different Ways

Compared to men, women can send signals of attraction five times stronger. They have more flirting habits than men and most of them are done intentionally. They love to preen, play with their hair, tossing the hair over the shoulder, and using their hands to play with something such as a wine glass. Most women are quite good in seducing and teasing men, especially when they use their lips – without touching him. Biting and licking their lips, putting on lipstick, and eating or drinking slowly are the usual moves of an interested woman.

Meanwhile, men usually try to appear masculine to show their prowess to the women they like, by giving them a look at their full length. They try to stand taller, square their shoulders, and sometimes hook their thumbs into the belt for that macho aura. They also unconsciously touch their ties or collar – these are indications that they find you irresistible and he wants to make an impression on you.

Will You Accept the Invitation

You could determine that a person likes you if he or she gives the following signs: prolonged eye contact, raising of eyebrows, smiling back, laughing with you, leaning close, closing the distance, imitating your actions, touching, preening, and thing like that. If you get these signs, it means there is a big possibility that you could take your interaction to a higher level.

Signs Indicating “No!”

To round out your knowledge about body language, it would be necessary to explain the ways to determine if a person is not interested.

A person is most likely not interested when he or she never glances back at you. You can also determine that person is bored or uninterested in you when his or her eyes start to wander, sigh, yawn, have passive or neutral facial expressions, and other similar actions and looks.

The signals of body language in terms of romance and attraction are easy to detect if you know how to interpret a person’s actions. Understanding the gestures and body movements of another person can definitely help you know in advance if you may have the opportunity to be intimate together or be rejected.

Are You Happy With Yourself?

If you are unhappy with yourself – can you be a contributing partner in a happy and satisfying relationship?

When I say are you unhappy with yourself – I’m thinking of things like:

• Happy with your appearance
• Happy with your home
• Happy with your financial situation
• Happy with your partner

Now – I realize that many people aren’t totally happy with everything in their life and they may want better situation. But, I’m thinking about being happy in terms of accepting where you are, who you are and your situation in life.

Here is a personal example – I don’t have a lot, but I’m happy with the things I have. Sure, I could have a bigger house, I could eat steak instead of chicken and I could certainly travel more – but I’m happy with life the way it is. There are things that I would like to change about my appearance – but I accept and love myself the way I am, flaws and all I remember many times my mom would call to tell me about something on sale and she always said, “You need one of these.” But, I really almost never did “need” something else – although that doesn’t mean I don’t love the office chair she bought me

So – here’s the question — how does your happiness or unhappiness with your life affect your relationship? What simple things do you think would help you be happier?

 

 

 

 

 

Online Dating Not for You – Here Are Some Alternatives

There are many ways to meet new people and the internet is certainly a great way – but meeting people for a possible relationship on the Internet is not for everyone. For many people looking for love, Internet dating is an acceptable medium to find that special someone in recent years. Personal experiences differ drastically, from falling in love and getting married to their Internet friend to absolute disaster dates and people misrepresenting who they are. Just like every form of dating, there are bound to be both mishaps and success stories. If Internet dating is not your style, one of these alternatives may be a better fit.

Speed Dating

Speed dating occurs at singles events in which an even number of people sign up to participate. Each pair of singles is given roughly five minutes to get to know each other, usually until everyone has met. The benefits of this method of dating is that it’s easy to meet a lot of eligible singles in a short period of time who are all more or less looking for the same thing – a relationship. The drawback is that five minutes really isn’t enough time to get to know someone, and you may end up going on several dates as a result of the event that all end up going nowhere.

Professional Matchmaking

If you choose to go the matchmaking route, you will go through an interview process with a professional who will ask you a variety of questions about your interests, values, goals, pet peeves, turn-ons, and what you’re looking for in a partner. Then, based on your answers, your matchmaker will analyze his or her existing database of singles to find a few possible matches for you. Matchmaking is a great route for those who want to remain more anonymous, or those who prefer individualized attention. However, matchmaking is more expensive than other methods, and it can take weeks before even going on a first date, let alone find the right person.

Blind Dates

In movies and TV shows, blind dates are always depicted as being embarrassing, horrible, or just plain weird. However, blind dating is like having a matchmaking amateur, i.e. someone that knows you and loves you, set you up on a date with someone that they think would be a good fit. The plus with blind dating is that you know you won’t be set up with a creep, and someone close to you will be able to vouch for them. A potential downfall is that the date could go badly, possibly jeopardizing the relationship with your date and your friend or family member.

Bars and Night Clubs

Probably the most typical situation to meet someone is in a bar or nightclub. Everyone is looking their best, and many are hopeful that they’ll come home with a phone number or two. Though easy to meet people in this type of setting, some are adamantly against dating a man or woman they met at a bar. The benefit of this online dating alternative is that it is organic and relatively easy. A potential pitfall is that many times, people go out just to find a one-night stand or short-term fling.

Singles Cruises

Though not a viable option for everyone, a singles cruise is an interesting way to meet a number of eligible men or women. Everyone is in vacation mode, making them more relaxed, fun to talk to, and open to meeting others. A potential danger with meeting a special someone on a singles cruise is that they might live in another part of the country or world, making a relationship difficult. You may also end up meeting the same type of people that you’ll find in a bar or club that just want to hook up….

Jasmine is a freelance writer and full-time traveler. She is a guest blogger for My Dog Ate My Blog and a writer on accredited online colleges for Guide to Online Schools.

Slow Down Before You Commit (Guest Post)

It takes the average person a mere 1/5th of a second to fall in love, according to a recent international survey. But as many have argued in the past, love at first sight (or lust at first sight in most instances) doesn’t guarantee a long lasting relationship. And before you start to fantasize about the wedding and what your kids will look like, you need to make sure you get to know each other properly before you make any kind of commitment—including exclusivity or marriage—because if you don’t, it can lead to problems in the relationship later on. But how do you know when it’s the best time to move forward or pump the breaks? Below are some common signs to watch out before you decide to make a commitment.

No Mystery. Let it be known that in a healthy relationship, information is revealed gradually over time. The more you trust that person, the more likely you are to tell them your secrets and intimate details about your life. But if your date immediately pours his or her heart out on the first date (revealing everything that there is to know) and demands that you to do the same, this might suggest that he or she is attempting to speed the whole process up by creating a pseudo level of intimacy.

Instant Soulmates. While it is indeed possible to have a strong connection with someone very early on, you should be cautious if your date expresses that the two of you are destined to be together when you know very well you’ve hardly spent any time together.

Mixed Emotions. If you have any level of uncertainty, including feelings of suspicion, self-doubt or anxieties when around your date, then you should really consider evaluating the relationship a bit closer before pursuing it any further. Why do you feel suspicious? Does he or she seem untrustworthy or not the monogamous type?  Why do you feel anxious? Does your date verbally attack you or make you feel bad about yourself? Make sure that you take notice of the early signs—these small details might not seem like a huge issue in the beginning but they can be very damaging once in a committed relationship.

Self-fulfillment.  Some have a tendency to feel “incomplete” if they do not have an exclusive partner.  But if you are part of this group let it be said that while this feeling of “incompleteness” might be the reason you rush into a committed and exclusive relationship, the best relationships occur when both parties are happy with themselves first. So just make sure that if you do decide to commit, it’s not because you are trying to fill a void.

By-line:

This guest post is contributed by Vanessa Jones, who writes on the topics of dating sites.  She welcomes your comments at her email Id: vanessa.jones42@gmail.com

 

Are You Ready to Start Dating Again

Are you getting over a break up or just finalizing a divorce? Did you recently lose your partner through a break up or death? Each of these situations takes a toll on us mentally and emotionally. It can be tough to know when you’re ready to get back out there.

Physically we may want to start dating quickly, maybe you miss the companionship or the intimacy you had with your partner. Maybe you don’t like to be alone and want to connect with someone. There are so many reasons why you may want to start dating again, but you’re doing yourself and any potential date a disservice if you rush into dating before you’re really ready.

Here are some questions you should consider before starting to date again. Can you answer yes to each of these? In order for these questions to help you, you have to be completely honest with yourself. If you feel the need to stretch the truth about any of these questions – then the answer is NO.

• Can you truthfully say that you are totally “over” your last relationship?
• Are you able and will you avoid talking about your past relationship?
• Do you have the confidence to approach someone that you are interested in?
• What qualities do you have to offer in a relationship?
• What do you bring to the relationship? This is not about material possessions, what else do you bring, good and bad to a relationship?
• What qualities do you want in the person you are looking for?
• What do you want and need that person to bring to a relationship? Again, this is not about material possessions and money.
• Will you compromise if the person doesn’t fit your ideal of “perfection”?
• How far are you willing to compromise?
• Do you enjoy and want to date and meet new people?
• Are you comfortable or can you function in social settings?

Okay – let’s move on to the real nitty gritty topics.

• If you have children, are they ready for you to start dating again?
• If you have children, have you talked to them about a new person being in your life?
• Are you in a position and ready to make a commitment to someone, if you find someone that you are interested in and they are interested in you?
• Are you willing and able to fulfill their needs; mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually and sexually?

Last – and this is the most important question. If your answer to this is no, then you are not ready to be in a relationship. Do you love yourself unconditionally?

One of my main focuses with clients is helping them to overcome the things that are keeping them from loving themselves. If you have this issue – I can relate, there were many reasons why I didn’t like myself and certainly didn’t love myself. But while I was studying to be a love coach, I saw myself and others in a different way and I love to help other people learn to love themselves – just the way they are, even with the imperfections we all have. Think about this – how can you ask someone else to love you, when you don’t love yourself?

To find out more, contact me at 4mitzirae@gmail.com

How to Give a Soothing Massage

Early in a relationship or when you just want to relax and de-stress your partner, it’s wonderful to know how to give them a relaxing and soothing massage. It can also renew their energy level – and it’s always great to have more energy. If you want to do this, you have to know how to do it.

1. The first thing to do is create the right atmosphere or ambiance. This means finding a cozy, quiet and warm room. You can use aromatherapy oil or light a scented candle to make the place smell good. It is best to close the curtains so nobody will see that you are giving a massage.

2. Next, prepare the massage oil. The best one to use is Jojoba oil but since this is too expensive, you can try almond oil or lavender instead. I highly recommend System JO Massage Glide (read my review here http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2010/10/13/review-system-jo-massage-glide-lavender/)

3. The best place to give a massage if you don’t have the massaging bed is on the floor. But you need to cushion the area for the massage, so spread linen and then cover it with a blanket.

4. When the room is ready, you tell the person to take off their clothes and lie in between the blanket. If the person is shy, it is okay and let them just lie down in their underwear. Make sure to cover them up to keep them warm. If the relationship is very new – they may want to wear their underwear or maybe a bathing suit.

5. The proper way of giving a massage is by working from right to left. So, you should sit on the right side of your partner on the thigh or between the legs.

6. Use your flat hands to smoothly slide from the foot to the top of the back of the right leg and slide again down. Knead the right leg from the bottom to the top in 3 parts by working inwards then outward and then start over. When you are done, the same thing will be done to the opposite leg.

7. Once you are done with the legs, work on the back by placing yourself at their head facing the legs. Again, use your flat hands to smoothly slide from head to the bottom with each hand close to the spine. Slide over the edge, at the bottom, to the side and then slide up the sides just underneath the scapulas, slide back and move up to the beginning of the shoulders. This should be done 3 times.

8. Move to one side and then use your left hand to do a full circle on their back. With your right hand, do a half circle starting from your left going clockwise. This should be done very slowly, smoothly and sensitively starting at the bottom and then moving all the way up to the shoulders and the back again.

9. Now that you have finished working on the back, it is time to work on the front by letting the person lie down on their back. But before you do that, the steps taken to massage the legs should also be done on the left and right arms.

10. Rub your hands and place them slowly over your partner’s eyes. Place your hands inches away from the face for about 1 to 2 minutes before you slide your thumbs from the part between the eyebrows to the point where the hair starts.

11. Place the thumbs a bit higher then move them apart. This should be repeated until you reach the ear then move to the nose, cheeks, upper and lower lip. 

The secret of how to give a soothing massage should come from your hands and not your eyes. If the person wants less or more pressure, be ready to respond so they get the best out of what you are giving them.

When you’re ready to take a massage to a more intimate level, read my post on erotic massage, visit http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2010/05/30/learn-to-give-an-erotic-massage/

4 Ways to Improve Intimacy with Your Woman

Are you in a committed relationship?  If so, you likely love your woman, right?  Despite a deep and intense love for her, you may want to see an improvement in your intimacy.  After all, what man doesn’t want good sex? 

If you want to improve your intimacy with your woman, it is important to know that you have a number of different options.  Unfortunately, when many men think of intimacy, they automatically start thinking of the bedroom. Sure you want to “wow,” her in the bedroom, but that is not all there is to sex and intimacy.  In fact, that is where many relationships go wrong.  Too much focus is placed on the sex or the lack of it. 

To help you properly improve your intimacy with your woman, I’ll share some tips to improve the intimacy in your relationship. These are easy tips to implement and they have been successful for other couple.

1 – Take Her on a Date

How long have you been together?  If you have been together for a number of years, do you honestly remember when you had your last “real” date.  Unfortunately, many men underestimate the power of a date. You do not want to make this mistake.  If you opt just for the sex, your wife/girlfriend may start to feel like it is her responsibility to please you and this is not how a relationship should work.

To not only improve your satisfaction in the bed, but to improve her satisfaction, take her out on a date.  Many times, getting out of the house is enough to bring new excitement into a relationship.  For the best level of success, choose a romantic date theme, such as a fancy dinner, a romantic movie, or a night at a nice hotel.

2 – Compliment Her

When is the last time that you have paid your woman a truly nice, sincere and unique compliment?  If it has been a while, it is time for you to start again.  Is she wearing a new outfit?  Has she recently started a weight loss plan?  Did she get her hair cut?  If so, be sure to compliment her.  Complimenting her appearance will increase her self-confidence.  This, in turn, can improve your experiences in the bedroom. Never underestimate the passionate power of a self confidence woman who loves you.

As important as it is to compliment her appearance, it is also important to remember to compliment her on other areas of your relationship.  Do you notice that the house is clean?  Has she prepared a nice dinner?  If so, thank her for the job well done.  This will not only help to improve your relationship in general, but it can have an impact on your experiences in the bedroom.

3 – Seduce Her

What is sex like in your home?  Does it occur like clockwork?  Do you actually take the time to ask if she wants to have sex?  Definitely ask her, but make it a seduction, don’t make it seem like you just expect her to want to have sex. Make it appealing and arousing for her – seduce her like you did when you started dating. You may be rejected, due to a headache or being tired, but why not take the chance?  Be spontaneous.  Seduce her and make her want to have sex with you.

4 – Fulfill Her Fantasies

In keeping with seducing your woman, let her know that you want to fulfill her fantasies.  It may take a few times before she opens up about what she likes or fantasizes about sexually, but the information will likely come out soon.  Give it your all to fulfill her fantasies and it is crucial that you never laugh at her fantasies.  It is also important to note that afterwards is the perfect time to share your fantasies and sexual desires with your partner.  In end, you may all end up being pleased much more.

As you can see, there are a number of different ways you can improve the intimacy in your relationship.  Please remember, however, that you want to get started in someplace other than the bedroom.  Sex in a long term relationship is about more and should be more than just the act itself.  Taking the time to date and compliment your partner will more than pay off in the end.

Do you need help planning how to improve your relationship? Contact me about an initial love coaching consultation to see how I can help you take your relationship to a more passionate, intimate and satisfying level. You can contact me at 4mitzirae@gmail.com