Kissing Classes on The Doctors

For a sneak peek into some of the information in the kissing course from Loveology University – watch Dr Ava on The Doctors in this video clip

http://www.thedoctorstv.com/main/home_page?init_type=Feature&init_id=3242

Here are some details from the Kissing Course – (in California you can earn CEUs with this course)

• What Kissing Is
• Kinds of Kisses
• History of Kissing
• Myths of Kissing
• Preparing for the Kiss
• The Art of Kissing
• Kissing Rules
• What Can be Kissed
• Kissing Targets
• G-Love
• Where to Sneak a Kiss
• Kissing – How To
• Tantra Kisses
• Kissing Positions
• Kissing All Five Senses
• Kissing Boundaries
• Healing Kisses
• Kissing Fears
• Kiss-ercise
• Kissing Games
• Kissing Concerns
• Orgasmic Kissing
• Kissing with Piercing
• The Hickey Kiss
• Kissing Crimes
• Kissing the Genitals

and more……

These are some of the things covered in the course — and the homework is wonderful

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Learn the Art of Tantric Kissing
• You want to Discover What Can and Should be Kissed
• You want to Become Skilled at Kissing Positions
• You want to Know the Secret to Orgasmic Kissing

Welcome to Loveology University’s Kissing Certification Course. Inside you will learn everything you ever wanted to know about the most intimate act of kissing. There’s a lot more to kissing than two lips meeting and by the end of this course, you’ll be an expert on the history of kissing, the latest scientific research, dozens of sexy kissing tips and techniques, games, positions, places to kiss and you’ll discover what your kissing style says about you. Now pucker up for the ultimate kissing experience.

More Details About Becoming a Certified Kisser -

https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=23

The First Steps to Understand the Mystique of Female Sexuality

It is not really a secret that men do not understand women and let’s be honest, women don’t really understand men.  A total understanding of your partner may be too much to tackle all at once. So, let’s start with an attempt to shed a little light on that mysterious thing we call “female sexuality”.

If we’re being honest – how many women really understand their sexuality? I’ll be honest that for many years I avoided any deep consideration of my own sexuality or anyone else’s. For years I’d been told that “nice girls” don’t know that sort of thing. Well, I’m here to tell you that I got past that mentality and it is very liberating and empowering to understand your sexuality. Its also very satisfying to “feel comfortable in your own skin” and being comfortable with yourself – and that includes your sexuality – is a wonderful thing.

It is also very beneficial to understand your partner’s sexuality. That gives you a much better understanding of who they are on a deeper level and… a better understanding of how to please them.

There are five key elements to a woman’ sexuality

1. Accept your sexuality
2. Understand what arouses and stimulates you
3. Understand your body
4. Give yourself permission to “let go”
5. Take responsibility for your own orgasms

Let’s dig deeper into each of these elements of female sexuality.

First, you need to be able to accept your sexuality. It is a part of who you are and understanding that is acceptable and very beneficial for you and your partner. Society, family, friends and/or religion can have a very detrimental effect on how we view our sexuality. These factors can also cause us to suppress our sexual feelings, needs and desires. Go ahead, be human and enjoy the sensations.

Second, you need to know what arouses and stimulates you. This is important for you personally, but its also important for your partner. How can you help your partner please you — if you don’t know what pleases you? You will learn to understand what you like and what pleases you – in many different ways.  Once you understand what pleases you, you can share these things through communication with your partner. Then, encourage your partner to communicate what they want and need from you.

Third, learn about your body. Do you know the various parts of your genital anatomy? If not, you should get to know each part and to learn more about those parts of your body. Your partner would also benefit from learning more about your anatomy. For diagrams to learn the actual location of the various parts of the female and male anatomy, visit http://shedyourinhibitions.com/female-anatomy/

Fourth, give yourself permission – mentally, emotionally and physically – to give in to complete and total pleasure. There are too many women who have been “programmed” to feel guilty when they are aroused. That makes it difficult if not impossible to have a very satisfying sex life. Dr Ava Cadell, a mentor of mine says, that “love is a beautiful gift for someone who is deserving of you.” When you are with someone deserving of your love and your trust – surrendering to them completely sexually can be one of the most beautiful things you will experience.

Fifth, men may not like this, but women need to take responsibility for their own orgasms. We want our partner to learn how to stimulate us – but we need to take responsibility for reaching orgasms and allowing ourselves to “let go”. How often have we heard someone say they “gave” their partner an orgasm? Not to bust your bubble or puncture your ego, but orgasm begins in the mind and while a partner can do many wonderful things to facilitate orgasm – the individual needs to take personal responsibility for their own orgasms.

This is only the beginning of the details about female sexuality. We have much more to discuss in future posts.

These are things that a Love Coach can help you to develop in your own life. If you would like more details, contact me at 4mitzirae @ gmail.com

To check out the Loveology University Female Sexuality Course, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=40&a_aid=litekepr

Please Your Partner’s Feet

Thrill Your Lover’s Feet

Previously, I shared some information to help you understand more about foot fetish.

Now, let’s cover the steps that explain how you can thrill your lover’s toes.

1 – Undress the feet — remove socks, nylons, stockings etc. If you are so inclined, draw out removal of the stockings and linger on her thighs, her legs and anywhere else your hands and fingers may roam as you remove these items. (If you enjoy stockings, you may want to replace them a little later.)

2 – Wipe lint and other things away from between the toes. You can do this with your hand or an item that will gently remove the lint and maybe tickle a little bit.

3 – Soak the feet in warm water and you may want to add lavender scented soap or essential oil. Lavendar is an aphrodisiac and the scent is relaxing.

4 – Use a pumis stone or a wash clothes to remove any dead skin.

5 – Use moisturizing soap to clean between the toes, all around the heal, caress the ankle – if you want to, you can work your way up the lower leg, over the knees, along the thighs…. But I digress….

6 – Pat the areas dry with a warm, soft, fluffy towel

7 – Carefully clean under your partner’s nail, then clip and file each toe nail individually giving full attention to each nail

8 — Clip any hang nails carefully

9 – Be sure that you have some flavored lubricant or some liquid food, maybe syrup of some kind. Squeeze the liquid into the palm of your hand

10 – Rub your hands together to heat theliquid

11 – Use your hands to caress and massage your partner’s feet, one at a time.

12 – You can use different strokes and different pressure to vary the touch. (You may want to look into an Erotic Massage Course) http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=39&a_aid=litekepr

13 – Once you have warmed up your partner’s feet and have them relaxed – breath slowly on the skin of their feet – exhale with warm breaths.

14 –Move your mouth or your partner’s feet to change the distance between your breath and their skin.

15 – Lick your lips – thoroughly so that your lips are wet and ready

16 – Breath close to your partner’s big toe and kiss their toe.

17 – Kiss the big toe and wrap your lips around the toe, sliding your mouth onto it.

18 – Take each toe individually – caress the toe with your lips and tongue, run your tongue around each toe, along the top the sides and underneath each toe, suck them into your mouth and kiss each toe. Take your time and give each toe plenty of attention.  Treat the toe just like you would treat a penis when giving your partner oral sex.

19 – As your suck each toe, push your pinky finger between the toes to give the feeling of being penetrated.

20 – Slide your hand under one heel and cup the heel carefully. Be sure to use more lubricant at any time if your hands start to get dry. Wet hands and fingers give a much smoother massage.

21 – Gently bite the soles of the feet or nibble the sole and if your partner enjoys this, you can nibble softly around the edge of the foot.

22 – You enjoy hearing your partner moan – they will enjoy hearing you moan too. Let them know how much you enjoy pleasuring their feet.

23 – Run the tip of your tongue along the vein lines on the top of each foot.

24 – Pull on the skin of the foot – this is easier and sexier with wet hands. Alternately pull on the skin and tap on the bottom and the edges of the feet.

25 – Stroke your partner’s feet, alternating the rhythm the same way you would vary the rhythm of thrusts and strokes during intercourse. Slowly stroke and you can stroke faster and harder – if your partner enjoys this – as you simulate intercourse

26 – It is always important to listen to your partner and watch their reactions to be sure they are enjoying what you are doing. This will also help you know what to do more and what to do less – to please your partner.

27 – Pick a toe – watching your partner’s reactions can help you decide which one to pick. Then treat this toe like you would treat a clitoris. Use your imagination, be creative and give that toe your undivided attention.

28 – Be sure to let your partner know when you are aroused. If you are getting aroused too fast, show this too.

29 – Enjoy the process, use plenty of lubrication on your hands and on your partner’s feet and toes. This will allow you to keep your movements, strokes and other touch smooth and arousing.

30 – Most important – have fun and stimulate your partner through their feet.

Would you like to learn more about Foot Fetish? Check out this course http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=58&a_aid=litekepr. This foot stimulation is my interpretation of a process described in this course, by Dr Ava Cadell.

Pornography – What is It and Is It For You?

There is much that is said about pornography, both positive and negative – mainly depending on who you talk to and their perspective.

Where do many people get their perspective on porn? The most common places are:

• Classmates/peers or Friends
• Mother, Father or Siblings
• Mentors, Teachers, Coaches or Counselors
• Clergy or your religion
• Media or TV
• Uncles, Aunts or Other relatives

Anyone that you spend time with could be where you got your perspective about porn, whether it’s good or bad. That is especially true with most religious clergy. Family members and friends can have an interesting impact on our thoughts and people who have a supervisory relationship with us can definitely change or form our opinions – like teachers, coaches or mentors.

Where did you learn about porn?

• High school and/or college locker room
• A friend’s house
• Corner drug store that sells a wide variety of magazines
• A video store that carries adult movies
• Online – through porn sites, ads, emails, forums, etc
• You may have heard in a family discussion
• Your parents or another relative may have a collection
• Older sibling – usually an older brother
• Cable or pay TV options

I remember the first time I opened a Playboy magazine – it was at my aunt and uncle’s house and I was babysitting my cousin, so I had the run of the house while they were out. My uncle had a big collection in the attic bedroom and that was my room whenever I watched my cousin overnight for them. Of course I’d heard hushed tones of family members and religious family friends that Playboy was the “devils work”. I was a kid, what did I know J But that does support the fact that many of us got our first impressions from family and religion.

Centuries ago – fine art often included nude men and women. If you look really close, they are often doing a variety of things, of course, that depends on where you see the art. But its still interesting that in other countries, there is fine art, statues, and other respected pieces of art which feature nude bodies.

However, nude or nearly nude bodies in movies and pictures are viewed as being bad in the United States. That often depends on the type of people you are around. I’ll share more about my experiences in a video store that rented and sold porn in another post, but I can tell you that we had a wide variety of people who rented and bought our movies. There were men, women, single and married people, some were very religious and they usually wandered around the store until the other people left. But they still rented porn on a regular basis. So – porn can be viewed by both genders, various relationship statuses, various religious viewpoints and many other variables.

Pornography or Erotica

Here is an interesting definition of erotica – Erotica has an interactive definition in that its meaning directly relates with who makes the classification. To be delineated as erotic it must be by the viewer’s standards an acceptable depiction of the acts of love and sex. So, the distinction is subjective and depends on the viewer.

Erotica is very popular with many women – along with movies and books that could easily be called soft porn. This can include novels, short stories, movies with erotic content (often Unrated) and sometimes soap operas push the limits – although the sheets are placed strategically. On the other hand, if a man read or watched the same thing, would many people automatically classify it as porn? I’ve got news for you – women watch porn and they have been watching it for a long time.

In recent years, there have been porn movies that are geared to women – and these can be just as graphic as the movies that men enjoy. But you will often see some differences. If you would like details about that – you should read Porn by Erika Lust. It’s a great book about women and porn – it also gives a great history of porn that many men would enjoy. My review is posted here – http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2010/07/30/book-review-good-porn-by-erika-lust/

So – how do you personal draw the line between erotica and porn? How do you feel about these movies or the books and how did you develop that viewpoint?

We’ll discuss more about pornography in future posts. If you would like to check into an online course that delves into the history or porn, details about porn, ways to use porn to spice up your love life and much more, check http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=53&a_aid=litekepr

7 Signs She’s Good In Bed

7 Signs She’s Good In Bed
by Chris Connoll

It’s an enigma as enduring as Mona Lisa’s small, knowing smile: Sometimes meek women turn wild in bed; sometimes they just lie there, waiting to inherit the earth. Sometimes the chestnut filly with the riding crop turns out to be all packaging; sometimes she’s as thrilling as the signs indicated she’d be.

It made me wonder: Is it possible to reliably predict what a woman is like in bed? The love scientists say yes—sort of. “It’s very hard to gauge,” explains Helen Fisher, Ph.D., an anthropologist at Rutgers University and author of Why We Love, a new book about the nature and chemistry of romantic love. A woman’s high heels, short skirt, and follow-me walk mean little. “Those are signs of intention. But they are not signs that this person is actually good in bed and is compatible with you.”

So, besides that old cliché about how she dances, what signs can a man go by? Start with these.

SHE SUGGESTS THAI FOR DINNER
Beware the “I-don’t-know, what-do-you-want-to-do?” camp of passive babes. A woman who knows and says what she wants, even when answering a mundane question, is more likely to be assertive in bed. Good lovers take responsibility for their pleasure. They remove a lot of the guesswork.

. “Human tastes in bed are just as varied as tastes in food,” Fisher says. . “A person may like Japanese food but hate pizza. Some women what their nipples chewed on; others need you to be more delicate.” Today’s women aren’t shy. “In the past, women didn’t get to sleep with enough men to know what they liked,” Fisher says. “But now, women are becoming more experienced and more demanding.”

SHE EATS IT UP
Take note of how she handles her food. “Watch how she uses her fork. Does she enjoy things? Is she sensuous? Is she poky and grabby?” says Candida Royalle, a producer of femme-friendly adult films and a veteran adult-film star. “If someone eats slowly, it’s likely that they like to make love for a long time. I’m one of the slowest eaters I know.”

SHE SCREAMS…FOR COFFEE ICE CREAM
You may find the perfect lover by comparing tastes in ice cream, says Alan Hirsch, M.D., a neurologist and director of the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago. Researchers call this “ice-cream hedonics.” Dr. Hirsch conducted a study of 720 people, ages 24 to 29, in which her correlated personality tests, their favorite ice-cream flavors, their partners’ favorite ice creams, and relationship status. Coffee-ice-cream lovers—found to be dramatic, seductive, flirtatious—are most romantically compatible with strawberry fans. Vanilla gals (emotionally expressive and fond of PDA) melt best with rocky-road guys. And mint-chocolate-chip fans are meant for each other.

SHE TALKS LIKE YOU
There’s a scene in Broadcast News in which William Hurt tells Holly Hunter that listening to her talk in his earpiece while he was on the air was “like great sex!” See if you get a similar buzz from your potential bedmate. “The first thing to look for is mirroring of verbal behavior and pace,” explains Michael Cunningham, Ph.D., a professor of social psychology at the University of Louisville. . “That is, if her pace and her nonverbal behavior match yours, her sexual behavior, which is also nonverbal, will also likely match. If one person seems really slow moving and the other person seems fidgety, they’re going to have different sexual paces. “If somebody says something and the other person goes on to another subject,” he says, “they’re not tuning in very well. They probably won’t tune in during sex, either.”

SHE KNOWS WHO SID VICIOUS IS
“Young women often aren’t relaxed enough to have an orgasm,” Fisher says. Older women know what they like and will tell you. “They realize that if they have frequent orgasms, it’s better for the man in the long run.” At menopause, “levels of estrogen recede, unmasking the power of testosterone,” Fisher says. . “This allows women to be more assertive and demanding, and many of them become more interested in sex.” Sure, Ms. Keaton, we’d love to see your golden globes!

SHE GIVES GOOD LIP
“The way you kiss says a lot about how you make love,” says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., an L.A. based sexologist and author. . “I call kissing ‘facial intercourse.’ It’s not just using the lips; it’s using the entire body. If she uses her hands on you and presses her breasts into you and moans and groans, she’s going to be a great lover. The best female lovers also create sexual anticipation. They start with baby kisses, and then maybe lick your top lip and suck your bottom lip, and as they’re doing that, they play with your hair, or put your hands on them. It’s sort of like a dance.” Speaking of dance…

OKAY FINE: SHE’S A GOOD DANCER
As I was researching this article, every single friend I asked suggested looking for a good dancer. I was reluctant to include this. I’m married to a dancer, and I gate the implied nudge I get when a guy finds out what my wife does. Second, I dreaded asking a respected anthropologist, “So, if a chick is a good dancer, will she be, like, a dynamo in the sack?”

Fisher didn’t flinch. “There is a certain amount of dance to copulation. And dancing is energetic, which suggests someone who’s in good shape,” she said. “But I think what’s really going on is that dancing indicates someone who’s social and self-confident.”

I’m so relieved. All those guys fantasizing about my wife are really thinking, Wow. Check out the self-confidence on her!

http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/DrAvaPages/7SignsShesGoodInBed.html

Understand Cheating – with Dr Ava Friday Afternoon on the Radio – Listen Live From Your Computer

Friday June 11 – Dr Ava Cadell, founder of Loveology University (http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/), is interviewed by Dr Diana Wiley at 3 pm PST/6 pm EST.

The topic is cheating and you can listen LIVE, go to www.ProgressiveRadioNetwork.com on Friday the 11th at 3 pm PST. If you miss the live program, it will be archived by Monday the 14th. In that case, go to the Progressive Radio website, click on ARCHIVES, look for “Love, Lust and Laughter” – then click on the archived show..

If you want “no holds barred” information about cheating with no judgment – this is for you – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/DrAvaPages/luguide-cheating.html. With 130 pages of secrets on cheating men, cheating women, cheating defined and cheating preventions all backed up by LU’s original cheating survey report that over 1000 people participated in, The Loveologist Guide to Understanding Cheating is for anyone who wants to stop cheating, avoid cheating, become a great lover and enjoy a healthy relationship.

Take Your Relationship to a New Level of Intimacy through Couples Enrichment

I have taken a lot of courses through Loveology University – but one of my favorite was on Intimacy in your relationship. One reason is because having true intimacy in your relationship really does take you and your partner to a whole different level of closeness. Another reason is because so few couples seem to have real intimacy – I’m not talking about just having sex – intimacy is much more than that.

These are  a couple of the reasons why I really enjoyed the course on Couples Enrichment. It includes information about the foundation and cornerstones of a great and lasting relationship. These include:

Topics to Lay the Foundation For Your Relationship

• Communication
• Kissing
• Love

Topics As the Relationship Deepens

• Seduction
• Intimacy
• Erotic Massage
• Sexual Fantasies
• Erotic Talk
• Pleasing a Man
• Pleasing a Woman
• Oral Sex
• Sexual Positions
• Tantric Sex
• Orgasm

Each of these are topics that will deepen and strengthen your relationship and contribute to the level of true intimacy and satisfaction for you and your partner.

What Enrichment Means -

• An improvement in communication, intimacy and sexuality.
• It has all the ingredients of true love; friendship, respect, trust, communication and passion

The Key Ingredients to a Deeper and More Loving Relationship

• Friendship
• Respect
• Trust
• Communication
• Passion
• Foregiveness

One exercise in this course includes these 3 questions. How would you answer these questions?

1. List 3 strengths in your relationships
2. List 3 weaknesses in your relationships
3. What can you do to be more in love with one another?

There are many short exercises which give you and your partner the opportunity to look deeper into your relationship and find ways to be closer. Many couples will never have the kind of true intimacy that will elevate their relationship to a much higher and more satisfying level. It does take effort, but isn’t your most important relationship worth the effort? This is a very small sample of the information contained in this course. This course is great for new relationships and it is also great for long term relationships that need a boost. Would you like to get that initial passion and closeness back that you and your partner had in the beginning? This course is for you

For more information, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=37

Loveology University also offers individual courses on each of the topics in this course – in much more detail. The complete list of courses, including the Certified Romantic course is located here – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/CourseCatalogue.aspx

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Re-ignite the Hot Passion in Your Relationship
• You want to Win the Undying Love and Devotion of Your Partner
• You want to Make Love Longer Than You Ever Believed Possible
• You want to Discover the Rewards of Intimacy with Sex

Welcome to Loveology University’s Couples Enrichment Certification Course. Inside are exercises guaranteed to improve your communication, enhance your love life and expand your sexual horizon. When a couple has been together for any length of time, they often take each other for granted so this course will help you to fall back in love again. Beginning with the forgiveness process if there is any resentment or animosity pending, followed by praising each other and giving compliments to restore the foundation your relationship was built on. Touching is a big part of this course so you’ll learn the various kinds of touches ranging from healing, romantic, seductive, sexual to erotic. As the course progresses, the exercises become more intense and exciting with mutual masturbation, erotic talk, sensual massage, oral sex, sexual positions all resulting in multiple orgasm for both of you.

Course Price: $69.95 (Includes Video)

For more information, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=37

Learn to Give an Erotic Massage

There is an art to giving any good massage – the way you hold and move your hands, learning the right strokes and techniques, which part of the body needs each type of touch and so much more. That is even more applicable to an erotic massage. You may be wondering an easy way to determine if a massage is a therapeutic or an erotic massage. It depends on the intent.

Do you want to relax the person? That would be therapeutic.

Do you want to arouse and stimulate your partner? That’s an erotic massage.

These are some of the topics in the erotic massage certification course.

• Basics of Erotic Massage
• The Supplies You Need For a Massage
• Create a Sensual Atmosphere
• Heat Things Up
• Prepare the Massage Location
• Massage Oil
• Massage Guidelines
• Types of Touch
• Isolated Massage
• Massage Techniques to Cover Your Lover’s Body
• Massage “Down South” – Below the Waist
• Create a Happy Ending

Some of the reasons to give an erotic massage include:

• Relieve tension
• Improve blood circulation
• Move energy around the body
• Sexually arouse your lover and you
• Help couples exhibit intimacy for one another
• A safer sex alternative

You need to create the atmosphere with candles, aromatherapy, a pillow, a warm blanket, soft music and these are just the beginning. Its important to have a good surface for your massage – a mattress, a bed, a futon or possibly a massage table. Which ever surface you choose – be sure that it is well padded to make it comfortable. Cover the surface with a clean sheet and you will need one or two other sheets or light blankets to lay over your partner. A pillow for his or her head and another pillow or a rolled up towel for their back, knees, legs and/or feet are good items to have.

The room should be warm – but not hot. You can have some light, but no harsh lights or even natural light. The scents you use should be relaxing and soothing, just like the music you choose. You may want to try several different types of music to see which your partner enjoys the most. It can be good to have a variety of music. You also need to have a good massage oil – be sure to use sufficient oil during the massage.

These are the six keys to a great massage – read on for more detail.

1. Be present
2. Full contact
3. Continuous movement
4. Attend to both sides
5. Variety
6. Land/take-off rarely

These keys are discussed in full detail in the massage certification course along with plenty of pictures.

But – here is some detail….

1. Be present – be there with your partner, focus on them and be aware of where your hands are and what you’re doing with them
2. Full contact – keep your hands on your partner, it is great if you move from one part of the body to another and continue to touch them the whole time
3. Continuous movement – always move your hands, kneading, rubbing, stroking and much more, but keep your hands and body moving on your partner’s body
4. Attend to both sides – give sufficient attention to your partner’s back and front – when you’re finished massaging their back, have them roll over
5. Variety – you want to use a variety of strokes, different pressure depending on the part of the body and make some strokes long and others short, vary your touch to keep the massage interesting

These tips are just the beginning.

There are also detailed instructions for a very intimate massage – you will learn to massage your partner’s genital area completely and a variety of different strokes and techniques.

To learn more — http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=39&a_aid=litekepr

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Learn How to Give a Woman a Full Body Massage
• You want to Learn How to Give a Man a Full Body Massage
• You want to Discover a Secret Guaranteed to Lead to Nights of Passion
• You want to Increase the Frequency and Pleasure of Your Sex Life

Welcome to Loveology University’s Erotic Massage Certification Course. Inside you will learn all about the art of erotic massage, how to give it and how to receive it, even how to prepare and set the mood to create the right atmosphere. Then step-by-step techniques that anyone can do as long as they have the desire, so you don’t need to be a professional masseuse or masseur to give a memorable erotic massage. Unlike a therapeutic massage, you’ll use every part of your body including your lips, tongue, hair, nails, breasts, chest, buttocks and of course your sexual organs all over your lover’s body. You’ll slide and rub, stroke and lick, pinch and suck every inch of their body. You’ll teach them what you want them to do to you and in doing so add sizzle and spice to your relationship. You’ll learn what to say when giving an erotic massage and what feedback to give when receiving one. So sit back, relax and let this course work its magic.

To Learn More – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=39&a_aid=litekepr

Male and Female Masturbation

It only seemed appropriate to post details about this course now – because May is Masturbation Month.

I recently completed the Masturbation certification course in my Love Coach training from Loveology University. Masturbation is a topic that gets a bad rap with many people and much of society. So – it is very likely that some people will not agree with many of the content of this course.

These are the topics in this course:

• What Masturbation Is
• Early Memories of Masturbation
• Freedom of Sexual Expression
• Myths about Masturbation
• Slang Masturbation for Girls and Guys
• Preparing for Masturbation & Lubrication
• What do I Touch?
• Male & Female Masturbation: How To
• Vagina & Penis Aerobics
• Therapeutic Masturbation
• The Squeeze Technique         & Tips to Make Men Last Longer
• Separate Orgasm from Ejaculation
• Masturbate for Penis Elongation
• Different Places to Masturbate & Different Positions
• Masturbation Related to Relationships
• How to Introduce Masturbation to Your Lover
• Visuals & Audio for Masturbation
• How to Use Common Objects & Sex Toys for Masturbation
• What is a Compulsive Masturbator
• Masturbation Concerns & Consequences of Masturbation

The meaning of masturbation is – Masturbation means touching your own body, including your genitals for sexual pleasure. This is an expression of our sexuality. Our second basic instinct is sexuality, while survival is our first basic instinct.

Masturbation is:

• A normal and healthy part of “maturing” as we explore our own bodies
• Pleasurable and erotic
• Promotes self confidence
• Safe sex activity
• Natural stress reliever
• Helps treat sexual dysfunctions
• Helps you connect with yourself; self-love

What are some of your earliest memories of masturbation? Whether you did masturbate or not, these are probably some of the first things you remember.

• Being told not to do it at all or in public & trying to hide it
• Feeling embarrassed
• Not knowing why it feels so good
• Asking peers about it or telling someone you do it
• Spying on your family members to see if they do it
• Getting caught by your mother, brother, father or neighbor
• Feeling that rush of pleasure for the 1^st time & feeling guilty you enjoyed it

Masturbation has been wrongly blamed for a host of human ills, including:

• Blindness
• Feeblemindedness & Neurotic disorders
• Sexual perversion
• Reduced sexual function
• Only people who “can’t get any” masturbate
• It’s bad to masturbate everyday
• Men need to do it and women don’t
• People in relationships don’t masturbate
• Makes you “lose” your virginity, or “ruin” it for intercourse

On the lighter side, these are some “fun facts” about masturbation:

• 80% of males and 59% of females have masturbated by age 18
• 98% of men have or do masturbate, 95% of women have masturbated or currently do
• American Medical Association declared masturbation a normal and healthy sexual activity
• Reduces stress by releasing endorphins
• Enhances self-esteem and confidence
• Female masturbation can relieve menstrual cramps
• Male masturbation can help to prevent the development of prostate cancer
• It keeps our sexual organs in good working order
• Effective natural cure for insomnia – release of tension that lead to a deeper, quicker sleep
• Relieves headaches and muscle aches

The course suggests that you “prepare” to masturbate and like with any sexual activity, involve all 5 of your senses. Here are some suggestions:

TASTE: Have some of your favorite finger foods and beverages available at arms length

SOUND: Play music or an erotic audio, moan

SIGHT: Position a mirror strategically so you can see yourself

SMELL: Light incense or scented candles

TOUCH: Cover your body in oil or wear touchable fabrics such as silk, lace, satin, velvet, latex, or leather

This is just a small sample of the information you can learn in the very comprehensive course on masturbation – which you can study in the privacy of your own home.

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Learn Dozens of Masturbation Techniques
• You want to Introduce Masturbation to Your Lover
• You want to Learn About Vagina Aerobics
• You want to Masturbate for Penis Elongation

Welcome to Loveology University’s Masturbation Certification Course. Inside you will learn all you need to know about pleasuring yourself. You may think you already know all about Masturbation, but this info course is guaranteed to teach you new knowledge to add to your arsenal. With over 40 how-to techniques for men and women and a host of unique masturbation positions, you will be sure to take self-pleasuring to a whole new level. Whether you would like to use this information for yourself or to help your clients, keep an open mind and enjoy your ride.

For many more details about this course or any other course on love, relationships and sex, visit – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=24&a_aid=litekepr

Sexual Positions Certification

We’ve all heard of the missionary position, many have heard of doggy style and cowgirl positions – but that is only the tip of the sexual iceberg. There are so many other positions – and that’s just the “official” positions. I’m sure most, if not all, people have found other positions that they enjoy in their sexual encounters and I love spontaneity – so positions wouldn’t normally be planned

I recently completed the Sexual Positions Certification course in my Love Coach training. These are some of the topics in this course:

• Finding the Right Position for You
• Masturbation Positions
• Outercourse Positions
• All Oral Sex Positions
• Intercourse Positions
• Anal Sex Positions
• Male/Male Positions
• Female/Female Positions
• Group Sex Positions

Do you agree that list covers all the possibilities? I couldn’t think of any more when I finished the course.

Let me start by saying that safety is a concern and should be considered when deciding what positions to try with your partner. If you see the pictures of some of these positions – you will understand why safety could be an issue. Strength endurance, balance and flexibility are other things that must be considered when deciding what to try.

Part of the content in this course is giving you activities to increase your strength, balance, flexibility and endurance – this will give you the chance to try new and different positions in your sex life. You also need to understand you and your partner’s limitations.

There were a number of tips in the masturbation section that can also be applied with a partner – here is one:

Varying the spread of your legs, arch of your back and angle of your palm help reveal surfaces that you may not have thought of, but can’t imagine living without now that they’ve been found.

Remember that masturbating can be a great way to learn what you like sexually and then you can share those discoveries with your partner — but that’s information for another post

Here is another interesting insight that I wanted to share – many people may not know about “outercourse” -

Outercourse reminds participants to attend to all the potential of their partner’s body rather than targeting the genitals for penetration.

These are some outercourse possibilties -

• Femoral Sex—rubbing between the thighs
• Gluteal Sex—rubbing between the butt cheeks
• Manual Sex—rubbing in the palm of the hand
• Popliteal Sex—rubbing behind the semi-bent knee
• Spinal Sex—rubbing between the neck and shoulder
• Digital Sex—rubbing between fingers and or toes
• Naval Sex—rubbing on or in the belly button

From there – the course moves on to position for male or female oral sex and there are so many possibilities. The same with intercourse and anal sex, there are plenty of options.

Many people are intrigued with threesomes, foursomes and other configurations of group sex – have you thought about all the possible combinations of positions when you add more people to your sexual activities? There are all kinds of options – and this course shows and explains many of them.

There is plenty of information in this course for adventurous people, but there is also great information for people who would just like to add some variety to their sex life. You have the opportunity to study this information in the privacy of your own home and then use only the positions and ideas that appeal to you. I think you and your partner will definitely enjoy the new ideas and options that you will learn here.

Here is more information about the Sexual Positions Course from Loveology University.

Sexual Positions

This Course Is For You If: You want to Learn New Positions for Oral Sex, Masturbation, Intercourse and Anal Sex You want to Add Excitement to Your Relationship with Karma Sutra Positions You want to Discover the Best Positions for Stimulating the G-spot You want to Find the Secret Position that will Enable You and Your Lover to Have Simultaneous Orgasms Welcome to LoveologyUniversity’s Sexual Positions Certification Course. Inside you will learn about a variety of different sexual masturbation, oral sex and intercourse positions, how to perform them, the pros and cons of each position and the best time to engage in them. This course includes some sacred Kama Sutra and Tantric positions you may not have seen before, so get ready to expand your sexual horizon. There are helpful techniques for those whose lovemaking requires special positions such as women who are pregnant or people who have physical disabilities or limitations. Spicing up your love life with sexual position games can create new memories and even better experiences. It’s time to learn something that your mother never taught you, so get into position! Course Price: $69.95 (Includes Video)

http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=44&a_aid=litekepr