Body Language: Is He or She Interested in You

How many times have you wondered if a person is interested in you? Many people keep their thoughts and feeling to themselves, so it is great to have another way to “read their mind”. How can a person show his affection to another person without telling him or her? How can one know he or she is indeed attracted to another person?

Body language is your way to break the secret code for romance. A person’s body language is an obvious way of telling someone how he feels and a subtle way to share what he wants to say. Your eyes, facial expressions, and body movements do express your desire to engage in a romantic or intimate relationship with another person.

Look Deep Into My Eyes

The eyes are strong indicators of romance and attraction. They can express, flirt, and even seduce much better than words. Eye contact may not mean anything if it only happens briefly. But when it lasts longer and includes an intense look, he or she is definitely into you. Winking will also work, but it requires right timing. Another strong evidence of attraction is when someone catches your eye, looks away, then looks back at you again. On the other hand, if he or she look away and never looks back again, it is a clear sign he or she is not interested.

Read My Face

The smile is one of the greatest sign he or she likes you. It means he is truly interested, comfortable, and enjoying your company. But it is important you know how to determine a forced smile from a sincere one. Raising the eyebrows, even when done subconsciously, has been done by people flirting with each other.

The Magic Of Touch

Sometimes, leaning towards another person just is not enough. In these instances, we find that closing the distance between us is much better. A light tap or stroking the arm can be a great way to send electric signals to another person. Most of people pretend there is a smudge on the face or lint on the clothes just to have a reason to touch. What sorts of excuses have you used to tough that special person?

Men and Women Use Body Language in Different Ways

Compared to men, women can send signals of attraction five times stronger. They have more flirting habits than men and most of them are done intentionally. They love to preen, play with their hair, tossing the hair over the shoulder, and using their hands to play with something such as a wine glass. Most women are quite good in seducing and teasing men, especially when they use their lips – without touching him. Biting and licking their lips, putting on lipstick, and eating or drinking slowly are the usual moves of an interested woman.

Meanwhile, men usually try to appear masculine to show their prowess to the women they like, by giving them a look at their full length. They try to stand taller, square their shoulders, and sometimes hook their thumbs into the belt for that macho aura. They also unconsciously touch their ties or collar – these are indications that they find you irresistible and he wants to make an impression on you.

Will You Accept the Invitation

You could determine that a person likes you if he or she gives the following signs: prolonged eye contact, raising of eyebrows, smiling back, laughing with you, leaning close, closing the distance, imitating your actions, touching, preening, and thing like that. If you get these signs, it means there is a big possibility that you could take your interaction to a higher level.

Signs Indicating “No!”

To round out your knowledge about body language, it would be necessary to explain the ways to determine if a person is not interested.

A person is most likely not interested when he or she never glances back at you. You can also determine that person is bored or uninterested in you when his or her eyes start to wander, sigh, yawn, have passive or neutral facial expressions, and other similar actions and looks.

The signals of body language in terms of romance and attraction are easy to detect if you know how to interpret a person’s actions. Understanding the gestures and body movements of another person can definitely help you know in advance if you may have the opportunity to be intimate together or be rejected.

Online Dating Not for You – Here Are Some Alternatives

There are many ways to meet new people and the internet is certainly a great way – but meeting people for a possible relationship on the Internet is not for everyone. For many people looking for love, Internet dating is an acceptable medium to find that special someone in recent years. Personal experiences differ drastically, from falling in love and getting married to their Internet friend to absolute disaster dates and people misrepresenting who they are. Just like every form of dating, there are bound to be both mishaps and success stories. If Internet dating is not your style, one of these alternatives may be a better fit.

Speed Dating

Speed dating occurs at singles events in which an even number of people sign up to participate. Each pair of singles is given roughly five minutes to get to know each other, usually until everyone has met. The benefits of this method of dating is that it’s easy to meet a lot of eligible singles in a short period of time who are all more or less looking for the same thing – a relationship. The drawback is that five minutes really isn’t enough time to get to know someone, and you may end up going on several dates as a result of the event that all end up going nowhere.

Professional Matchmaking

If you choose to go the matchmaking route, you will go through an interview process with a professional who will ask you a variety of questions about your interests, values, goals, pet peeves, turn-ons, and what you’re looking for in a partner. Then, based on your answers, your matchmaker will analyze his or her existing database of singles to find a few possible matches for you. Matchmaking is a great route for those who want to remain more anonymous, or those who prefer individualized attention. However, matchmaking is more expensive than other methods, and it can take weeks before even going on a first date, let alone find the right person.

Blind Dates

In movies and TV shows, blind dates are always depicted as being embarrassing, horrible, or just plain weird. However, blind dating is like having a matchmaking amateur, i.e. someone that knows you and loves you, set you up on a date with someone that they think would be a good fit. The plus with blind dating is that you know you won’t be set up with a creep, and someone close to you will be able to vouch for them. A potential downfall is that the date could go badly, possibly jeopardizing the relationship with your date and your friend or family member.

Bars and Night Clubs

Probably the most typical situation to meet someone is in a bar or nightclub. Everyone is looking their best, and many are hopeful that they’ll come home with a phone number or two. Though easy to meet people in this type of setting, some are adamantly against dating a man or woman they met at a bar. The benefit of this online dating alternative is that it is organic and relatively easy. A potential pitfall is that many times, people go out just to find a one-night stand or short-term fling.

Singles Cruises

Though not a viable option for everyone, a singles cruise is an interesting way to meet a number of eligible men or women. Everyone is in vacation mode, making them more relaxed, fun to talk to, and open to meeting others. A potential danger with meeting a special someone on a singles cruise is that they might live in another part of the country or world, making a relationship difficult. You may also end up meeting the same type of people that you’ll find in a bar or club that just want to hook up….

Jasmine is a freelance writer and full-time traveler. She is a guest blogger for My Dog Ate My Blog and a writer on accredited online colleges for Guide to Online Schools.

Are Online Dating Sites An Option For You

Adult online dating sites are based on a simple concept – create a site for adults to connect.  Online dating services are available for people who are looking for intimate encounters, and give people the opportunity to meet people with similar interests and needs.  Whether you are looking for a friend, lover, sex partner, intimate encounter, one night stand, group activities or just someone to chat with, adult online dating sites offer a place to meet all types of people from anywhere in the world.

If you’re anything like me – you’re tired of the traditional ways to meet people and online dating sites offer an alternative to meet people in your town or on the other side of the world. In the past, you might meet someone through work, the local bars or clubs are often a place to meet someone new or you can let friends and family set you up on blind dates. I don’t know about you, but I’m not real excited about the usual options. So, online dating offers a chance to enter the criteria you want to look for in a date. Some of this criteria includes: age, weight, hair color, height, children, marital status, job, location and much more. This is much easier than meeting a bunch of random strangers in a bar.

Most of the well-known online dating services allow you to join for free, but then you have limited use of their site. You can usually create a free profile, upload some pictures, browse other member profiles, and sometimes view the details of your favorite members.  But unless you give them your credit card to upgrade your membership, your options are limited. With a free account, you can receive messages but cannot respond or have limited options to reply. Since the purpose of joining an online dating site is to initiate contact, this forces most people to upgrade.  However you can sort of get around this by creating a fantastic profile which allows you to attract paying members to contact you!

An attention-grabbing headline encourages people to take a closer look at your profile. Try to come up with a unique title or tagline to get attention from other members.  A question is often a good way to entice people to click through and view your full profile.  Appeal to their curiosity and don’t be afraid to be interesting!  Be sure to include a lot of information about yourself to give the full picture of who you are and what you want. There are usually many sections where you need to enter information about yourself: your bio, interests, favorite books, preferred movies, and so on. The more effort you put into your profile, the more opportunity you give people to meet you.

In order to use many paid adult online dating services without spending a cent, you need to create an attention-getting profile that encourages people to respond. The success of this plan also depends on the rules of the website. Since you cannot usually respond to people without a paid account on some sites, your interaction will be limited. But on the sites that give you full access to respond, you should be able to meet a lot of people. Some people using this technique at popular online dating sites may have several hundred responses a week without upgrading to a paid account.  I’m sure you can find something else to spend your hard earned money on.

If you would like to find out how to prepare yourself for successful dating, you should check out this post http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2009/12/21/dating-certification-loveology-university/. You can also contact me about how a love coach can help you prepare for successful dating. I can be reached at 4mitzirae@gmail.com and I shared a post about meeting face to face – it’s a good follow up to this article. You can read it here http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2010/10/23/meet-face-to-face-after-chatting-online/

Meet Face to Face After Chatting Online

Technology is a great tool to make our lives easier. In recent years technology has helped us conquer or at least compete in the world of dating. Don’t try to think dirty – that is this post and this post. What I’m talking about is the love connection that can happen through online dating sites and chatting rooms or software such as MSN or Yahoo, Facebook and many others. Many social media platforms have made it much easier to connect with a wide variety of people all over the world.

Thanks to these websites and chat software people have been given a better chance to find their partner. This is because people are given the chance to be connected wherever they might be. All different cultures and walks of life are able to meet with a simple click of the keyboard. In short a person has got a better chance to meet his or her partner because of the greater number of daters. It is also easier to meet people online thanks to online date sites and chat rooms.

So many people are tired of or simply not interested in the bar scene and other traditional ways to meet people. The internet as a whole offers many great ways to meet new people – either based on location, gender, sexual preference, sexual activity, age, and so many other dynamics – depending on where you connect with them. But, at some point, you will likely want to meet some of these online chat buddies in person.

After chatting for a while and getting to know one another, it would be natural to meet. It would be a pretty limited relationship if both of you are happy to just chat but never have the opportunity to meet in person. If you are satisfied with chatting, then both people may just be looking for someone to talk to and not a relationship.

Finding love through the internet offers both people the chance to get intimate right away. This is because it is easier to be yourself when chatting online. Just imagine that you can say anything stupid and you won’t see the other person thinking that it’s corny. Instead most chatters, even though you are pretty corny just type LOL (laugh out loud).

Chatting and exchanging emails etc – offer the chance to develop a perception of that person and meeting them becomes very hard. This is because of the perception you have may be very different than the reality. Both of you will then have higher expectations of who the real person really is. Once you make the move to meet in person – reality sets in and your preconceived ideas and perceptions are gone.

When meeting for the first time after long periods of chatting that could last in the wee hours of the morning, is the need to make adjustments. Both of you have to figure out that it would be harder to talk on real life because there are many factors involved. You can see the person’s mannerisms and reactions and that is an interesting new dynamic to your relationship/friendship.

It is recommended that you meet sooner rather than later. When you meet earlier in the chatting stages, this can prevent both of you from having higher expectations. This also helps you both decide right away whether if you are better as friends or if you should develop the relationship. This can help both parties prevent more disappointment and heartaches.

To tap into a very thorough “Guide to Dating” online, in person and much more, check out my review for a great online dating course. You also have the option of working with a love coach/relationship coach to prepare yourself mentally, emotionally and physically for a satisfying long term relationship. Feel free to contact me for more details – 4mitzirae@gmail.com. You can also read my goals as a love coach to get an idea of how a love coach can help you.

PinPoint Passion with PinPointsX – Passion at Your Fingertips

How many times have you been in the mood for a erotic, passionate encounter, but you didn’t have anyone to call or couldn’t find anyone that fit your desires at a local bar? Maybe you were out of town and didn’t know anyone, so your only option was to try to find a bar – but you didn’t know the local pick up spots?

Have you ever thought that it would be enjoyable to have a map that showed other people in the area who were looking for a hook up? Well – now, you can have that map at your fingertips and it will help you find a passionate partner – no matter where you are. It’s like having your very own personalized passion rolodex anywhere you go.

When you register for an account on PinPointsX, you enter information about yourself and about what kind of person you are looking for – age, gender, location, sexual preference, your choice of activities and much more. When you want to find an erotic, passionate partner, check your map to check your options. This works whether you are on your home turf or are out of town and on the prowl.

PinPointsX takes social media to a very adult and passionate level.  You can use your iPhone, your Android or you can access your personal passion map on your computer. Have full access to bars, clubs, strip clubs, hotels, motels and erotic partners right in the palm of your hand….

I wanted to get the inside track on this exciting new service, so I’d to share an interview.

Mitzi – Rudy, it is very nice to talk with you today. Thank you for taking time out of your super busy schedule to talk with me about your product, PinPointsX. Tell us briefly, what is this product and what does it do?

Rudy –  PinPointsX provides users with a “Passion Map”, a map of their location or any other location,   that displays the erotic scene around the user; people looking for hookups,  swingers, parties,  adult shops, BDSM clubs, bars, motels, and everyone else that is included in the erotic and nightlife scene.  The cool part about it is that everyone on the map can communicate with each other – even the businesses!  Whether you are using a computer or the mobile app – your gateway to passion is right at your fingertips – It is truly a revolutionary idea.

Mitzi – A passion map — I like the sound of that. The first time I saw one of your posts about this product, I thought of a GPS – that would be a Global Passion Search device. But, seriously, how does this work?

Rudy – I love it! Can we trademark that? The GPS capability is a cool feature that comes with the mobile app. When you start the application you have the option to use your GPS. The app will automatically present you with a Passion Map of your current location and the action around you.

Mitzi – Glad you like that Obviously there will be all kinds of people listed in an area like LA, but I live in a small town in Virginia. There are a couple of college towns within about 30 miles of me. So, since I’m in an area with far fewer people, is there a chance that there would be anyone close by?

Rudy –  Well, I believe that if you live in a very small town then you probably know everyone and what is going on but you’re right, the map is most densely populated with users and business in major urban areas like LA and New York City – although there are exceptions – for example, Long Island was covered with swingers’ parties in the summer.

Mitzi – You are right about small towns. I looked through the sign up page and there are all kinds of options in the “looking for” section – one on one, discreet hookups, group sex, straight, gay, bi, bi-curious and so much more. Does the service really have something for “everyone”?

Rudy – we covered all of the sexual orientation out there, but I’m sure you can always find a new one. We tried to cover as much as possible the major spectrum of sexual preferences, but this is a never-ending list as you know.  That’s why we are providing more tools to our members, such as forums, galleries, and blogs, people that are into “Dogging” can open up their own forum and communicate with each other and invite other curious members to join their sexual scene.

Mitzi – Those features will be great to help people get more information and also to have additional ways to find the best or most appropriate erotic partners. So, tell me, what is some of the feedback that you all are getting on this service?

Rudy – So far everyone just loves it! We had people approaching us at conventions praising the app and giving us tips and ideas for the next versions.  Some of the users find our platform  odd since it is not a “traditional” 90’s look dating site, I believe. We can’t satisfy everyone but we do offer the next innovating progression in the dating world.

Mitzi – I think not looking like a 90′s dating site is a good thing As a promoter – it seems to me that PinPointsX offers great targeted promotion opportunities for businesses of all kinds who want to reach the adult audience. Hmmm, including love coaches and sexperts….  What kind of options do you offer to businesses who would like to promote their services? And, what kind of businesses currently advertise on the site?

Rudy – That’s a good insight Mitzi. The businesses are an important and inseparable part of the platform. Businesses are members and they can do everything a member can do and more.  Businesses can communicate directly with targeted clientele.  Businesses can market themselves on the Passion Map, directly to people in real time (!), or through the forums and galleries. Imagine, for instance, that I’m a bar owner on the upper west side and have a slow Wed night.  I can go on my Passion Map and send a message to other members saying: “Bring five friends tonight and have FREE beer all night!!!” or upload flyers to the gallery. This is what businesses always wanted: direct interaction with potential customers.

Mitzi – That is awesome flexibility for your business members. I’ll have to look at that option more closely. Okay, let’s get to the nitty gritty – how does a person get onto the site and how do they get started?

Rudy – We are constantly improving the user experience; we started with six stages of registration process and in the new version, Oct 25^th, we will have only two stages. So all you need to do is click on the Join Now button, fill out the form, select a package and voilà – you are in the Passion Map! You can choose to stay only with the website or you can download the app as well and enjoy the full experience.

Mitzi – Are there additions coming – that you’d like to share with us?

Rudy –  I wonder if you can keep a secret…

Mitzi — Of course…. who would I tell

Rudy - On the short term, I mean next week, we are adding a points system. So like with Foursquare, you will collect points for things that you do on the platform and each month we are going to have prizes for the high scorers. Scorers of points I mean We are also developing an app for our BlackBerry users!

As for the long term, we are creating sub communities so people with similar sexual preferences will be able to find each other easily.  On January 2011, we are going international, which is very exciting. This means you can have an easy unplanned fling in Paris (not Texas), a passionate night in Milano, or get into an underground BDSM party in Berlin!

Mitzi – It sounds like you all have covered the options for now, have great plans for the future, a great expansion plan and its great when a business is in tune with their users to find ways to serve them better. It will be very interesting to see how the service expands and grows. Thank you very much for taking your time to share this information with us. Did I forget to ask anything? If so – feel free to share anything else we need to know.

Rudy – PinPointsX is an advanced concept and the next step in the dating social network industry. It is important for us that people will bring other members to join as well – we want to enlarge our community. Bigger is better, right? Thank you Mitzi it was a pleasure chatting with you.

Mitzi – Thank you Rudy, it was great to get the additional details from you. Best of luck with your endeavors.

Information From The PinPointsX Website

Who We Are

PinpointsX® Ltd. is an innovative software company, that focuses on providing adults and adult establishments with advanced technologies and services for matchmaking and dating.

PinPointsX® is a patent pending cellular (mobile) application and a correlative adult-social-networking website, enabling its members to ‘locate & interact’ with erotic partners and facilitators in their immediate, changing and real-time location.

It provides the members with direct access to all imaginable erotic resources near them, and thus with a complete integrative, personalized and interactive “Passion Map” of their current location.

PinPointsX®’s personal interactive “Passion Map” allows the user to filter, prioritize, schedule and directly interact with those sensual resources, leading towards the ultimate fantasy and potential hook-up.

What Do We Provide

PinPointsX® Ltd‘s unique business-model and technology extends and out-reaches all members of the romantic, sensual or erotic scene.

PinPointsX® was conceptualized in order to overcome the challenges of having a fling:

• Opportunity – finding a person or a party that is looking for sensual experience and are available for a fling
• Compatibility – having the relevant people who match a user’s preferences and whose desires are compatible with the user’s
• Facilitation – finding the right place to meet and interact

Using location aware, mobile, and innovative propriety technologies, we overcome these challenges.

So, what are you waiting for? Isn’t it time for you to access your personal passion map?

Love Magick Looking for Signs of Love

Most little girls and older girls have played the “he loves me, he loves me not” game with a flower. For the guys reading this — you pick a flower and as you pull one petal at a time, you say “He loves me” and as you pick the next petal, you say “He loves me not”. This torture continues until all the petals are gone or you throw the flower down in disgust Yes – it is one of those silly things we do to ask the “love gods” if a guy loves us. Some people think it is full of frustration, while others think it is full of intrigue.

However, today let’s talk about how to combine this with a little white love magick….

I’ll share various “love spells” from time to time. They are all simple and I hope you have a little fun with them – whether you think you can actually cast a spell or not. So – whether you cast a spell or not, you can learn some helpful tidbits from this post. I want you to keep your eyes and ears open when you are around the object of your desire. Look for subtle signs that they are interested in you — or not.

There are four areas to watch:

• The Eyes
• What is Said
• What isn’t Said
• What is Done

The Eyes

We’re always told not to stare, but when the person you are interested in, is caught watching you, this is a good thing. If they look at you and you can “hold their eyes” this is good – even better if its for more than a moment or two. Return the look and hold their gaze for a couple of moments, to let them know you’re interested too.

What is Said

If you have a trusted and subtle friend, see what kind of information they can find. Subtle is my recommendation, otherwise this can sound like something from middle school and that’s not the goal. For people who don’t have a friend who can do this, just keep your ears open and see what you can find out yourself. Also pay attention to what the person says to you personally and when they know you are listening. Don’t try to read between the lines and make up crazy interpretations. Just listen to the words and take things at face value.

What isn’t Said

We all know how hard it can be to seak up to a new love interest. This can be a fear of failure or rejection. When a person is very tongue tied around you or very shy, this can mean they are interested in you. But keep in mind it could also mean they don’t want to talk to you

What is Done

You’ve heard the saying “Actions speak louder than words”. That is especially true here. Watch their body language – do they lean close to you? Do they turn toward you? Is there stance “open” to you? Do they touch your arm or hand softly? Did they shake your hand and hold it a little longer than everyone else? All of these things can be indications that they like you.

In conclusion, whether you use a white magick love spell or not – use your common sense and look for signs that the person does or doesn’t like you.

Some details from Bewitchments: Love Magick fo Modern Romance by Edain McCoy (pages51-53)

What Can You Do if You Aren’t Happy in Your Relationship

What would you discuss with a love coach or a relationship coach? This coach is a person that helps you with a variety of areas of your personal development. They help you set and reach goals in several areas of your life, including:

• Dating
• Love
• Romance
• Relationships
• Intimacy
• Sexuality

When someone asks you how your relationship is – what do you say? Do you smile when you say, “Its great”? Do you try not to grit your teeth when you say, “Its fine”? Or, do you hesitate because you aren’t sure how you feel about your relationship?

Think about those six important areas of your life. Take a piece of paper or print this out and beside each area, write how you feel about it. Are you very satisfied, satisfied, content, not satisfied, very dissatisfied? I know that sounds like a telemarketer questionnaire, but this is much more important than any telemarketing call.

Think of your dating life, even in a committed relationship, you should still take time to date. Do  you and your partner go on a date – just the two of you at least twice a month? Is this time to focus on one another or are the kids or friends and family always with you? Dating is a great way to focus on one another and to keep the romance alive.

What about love? Sure you love your partner, but are you still in love with them? Many long term relationships continue, but that spark that makes your heart skip a beat when he walks in the door or when she has great news, just isn’t there. Do you work to keep your love strong? Do you kiss your partner good bye when they leave and kiss hello when they get home? Kissing is often the first thing a long term couple stops, and that is an indication something is wrong. Make a commitment to kiss, a real kiss, not a peck on the cheek, at least twice a day.

Romance – is there still romance in your relationship? If you still go on dates with each other, that’s a great start. What about doing little romantic things for each other? Do you leave thoughtful loving notes for your partner to find? Occasionally do you turn down the lights and have a quiet dinner alone? During the work day, take a few minutes to send a sexy text to tell your partner what you’d like to do with them later that night. It will bring a smile to their face and could easily brighten a dull afternoon at work. Romance doesn’t have to be hard – especially in a long term relationship, you know what your partner likes – and you should never stop looking for ways to please each other and show you still love one another.

Are you happy with your relationship? This goes beyond having a roof over your head and food in the fridge. Do you feel complete in your relationship? Do you and your partner work together to make and maintain a home? There will always be issues to contend with, but do you know your partner is there to support you and to work through the hard times? Do you feel good about yourself in this relationship?

Finally – are you happy with the level and degree of intimacy in your relationship? Is your sex life fulfilling for you? That doesn’t mean that you have sex several times a month. That means do you have sex on a regular basis and is it truly satisfying. Is it like the kind of sex you had when you were first married? Do you are your partner make an effort to find new ways to please each other? And intimacy, do you have a real intimacy in your relationship? That isn’t just sex, but the deeper connection between you and your partner – the kind that touches the deepest parts of your being and that makes you completely satisfied – with or without sex.

These are just some details off the top of my head. So – take a few minutes, look over the questions above and think about how you would rate dating, romance, love, relationship, intimacy and sex – in your life. Are there any areas you’d like to talk to a love coach about – to find ways to make it even better? Do you feel like you are getting a better understanding of the areas where a love coach or a relationship coach can help you?

These are the kinds of things I’m learning to help people with as a love coach. I’m sure the learning will not end, but learning to find the core problems and help clients use a variety of tools and techniques to improve the quality of their relationships is very rewarding and very satisfying.

Cougars and Cubs – How Do You Define It

I did a post some time ago that showed the common definitions of Cougars. These are the ways many people define a Cougar -

Definition #1

An older woman who frequents clubs in order to score with a much younger man. The cougar can be anyone from an overly surgically altered wind tunnel victim, to an absolute sad and bloated old horn-meister, to a real hottie or milf. Cougars are gaining in popularity — particularly the true hotties — as young men find not only a sexual high, but many times a chick with her shit together.

That cougar I met last night, showed me shit I didn’t know existed, I’m goin back for more.

Definition #2

A 35+ year old female who is on the “hunt” for a much younger, energetic, willing-to-do-anything male. The cougar can frequently be seen in a padded bra, cleavage exposed, propped up against a swanky bar in San Francisco (or other cities)waiting, watching, calculating; gearing up to sink her claws into an innocent young and strapping buck who happens to cross her path. “Man is cougar’s number one prey”

Millions of them. More famously, Demi and Ashton, Naomi Watts and Heath Ledger, Joan Collins and her hubby, Cameron and Justin, Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins

Definition #3

An attractive woman in her 30’s or 40’s who is on the hunt once again. She may be found in the usual hunting grounds: nightclubs, bars, beaches, etc. She will not play the usual B.S. games that women in their early twenties participate in. End state, she will be going for the kill, just like you. Associated with milfs

I bagged a cougar last night at the club.

Definition #4

A woman in her sexual prime who prefers to hunt rather than be hunted. A cougar’s victims are usually under 25, as cougars prefer to mate with men who still have hair. Cougars generally feed and then continue hunting, as they enjoy role reversal.

Definition #5

A Cougar is a female, usually between thirty and fifty years-old, who enjoys the sexual company of younger men.

Cougars are only usually interested in men under the age of twenty-five. Also, Cougars are non-committal, choosing to move from mate to mate without ever settling down. It is not uncommon for the same Cougar to attack (sleep with) many different men in the same group of friends. Furthermore, Cougars are older and more practiced in the ways of snaring a mate so they will rarely broadcast their intentions to sleep with you until you are already in her Jetta, headed for the condo she just bought. It is this elusive behavior that earns her the name “Cougar.”

“Hey Jerry, I’m about to go buy this girl a drink, want to come along? I think she has a friend next to her”

“Naw, theres a cougar in the corner that seems to be stalking me, I’m going to hold out for her”

Definition #6

Coo-gher. An older woman who’s primary interest lies in bedding younger men. Often, but not necessarily, with money; cougars are the more aggressive variety of the commonly used term: milf.

I think that cougar just grabbed my ass!

Definition #7

Hot and sexy older woman, usually in her 40s or 50s, single or married, who is sick of her same-age counterparts which are usually hairless, have big guts, who only talk about their insurance premiums and have the TV remote control attached to their hands. Cougars are attractive, in their sexual prime, who know what they want and aren’t afraid to go after it. BIG misconception is that they dress cheap, wear hot pink nail polish, animal skin prints and are not-so-attractive old-looking hags with bleached hair (Yeah those women exist, but they are NOT cougars). True cougars are classy, beautiful creatures who have made their successes on their own, have real brains, usually with expensive cars/homes, and are real head turners. Cougars seek younger men, and don’t have to sneak up and attack…they know their younger mates are eager to get an experienced woman who won’t ask if they’ll call them the next day. Being a cougar is a positive thing.

20-something girl: “oh no, that cougar just left with Jeff and I’ve been trying to get him to ask me out for the past three months”.

Okay – so here’s my thoughts —–

I have dated my share of younger men over the years, and have a number of good friends who are younger men and we get along great.  Guys my age often have at least one ex wife, several kids which means they are tied to the ex wife and many have very negative viewpoints of women because of the exs. Where as younger men don’t have all that baggage and are eager to please their woman and definitely willing to try new things. All fine qualities

But to be a Cougar – does a woman have to be “on the prowl” for sex and not be interested in a serious and/or long term relationship? I hadn’t really thought about that in depth until I met a new guy a couple of weeks ago. Yes, I met him on a Cougar website.

We’ve talked extensively and he says that he’s looking for a Cougar – but he wants a long term relationship. So – is he simply looking for an older woman or a Cougar? I think he’s simply looking for an older woman. You may say that depends on why he wants an older woman. That would be because of the drama and the immaturity that he’s found in the younger women and women his age that he’s dated in the past — his words, not mine

So — if an “older woman” and a “younger man” are both looking for a mature long term relationship – are they a cougar and a cub?

Any cougar/cub or older woman/younger man stories you would like to share?

Certified Romantic Program Completed

Last weekend with the completion of the course on Love – I officially completed the Certified Romantic Curriculum.

These are some of the reasons to take the Certified Romantic Courses – in addition, I took them to start working through the courses for the Certified Love Coach and Certified Love Coach training. Just the first step

• You want to Know How and Where to Meet a Romantic Partner
• You want to Learn Great Tips on How to Be More Romantic
• You want to Boost Your Desirability and Experience More Love
• You want Deeper and More Intense Feelings of Romance

These are some of the course benefits -

• Better Communication
• Confident Flirting
• Successful Dating
• Sensual Foreplay

This course includes :

This course includes -

eCourses:

• Love
• Flirting
• Dating
• Kissing
• Intimacy (Includes Video!)
• Foreplay (Includes Video!)
• Couples Enrichment

Ebooks

• 12 Steps to Everlasting Love
• Love Around the House
• Household Items for Love
• Aphrodisiacs
• Passion Power for Couples

Bonus:

• Fine Art of Setting the Mood & Sexual Positions
• Teleseminars
• Link to Sex Drive Radio Shows

Not bad for the shorter curriculum If yo u would like details about this program, feel free to post a message for me or drop me an email at 4mitzirae@gmail.com

This is just the first step in my training – but I learned a lot in each of the courses. If you have ever wanted to learn more about – communication, dating, love, intimacy, foreplay, flirting and much more – you should take a look at this program. If you’re in a long term relationship and you’d like to get back some of that initial passion and excitement that may be gone — you really should look into these courses. For people who need Continuing Education Credits in California – you should definitely take a look.

For all the details, visit – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/CourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=65&a_aid=litekepr

In upcoming weeks I’ll be sharing articles that I am writing based on just a small bit of the awesome information in these courses — come back to visit or simply click the subscription button in the top right hand corner to have each and every post delivered to your email

Flirting Certificate from Loveology University

Flirting — that’s a topic I know well so I started studying for this quiz and was surprised by the interesting things I learned. Flirting can be harmless fun and is definitely fun — but do you know how to flirt, the different ways to flirt, the dos and don’ts and tips for men and women. These are some of the topics that are discussed in this course.

• What Flirting Is

• History of Flirting

• Forms of Flirting

• Common Flirting Gestures

• How to Flirt With Body Language

• Flirting Techniques

• Flirting in Long Term Relationships

• Flirtatious Conversation Starters

• Flirting or Hurting

• Sexual Harassment vs. Flirting

• Flirting, Seduction, Teasing

• Flirting with all Five Senses

• Flirting Do’s and Don’ts

• Flirting Tips for Women & Men

Some of the great things about these courses is that there is so much that everyone can learn – even if they already know a lot about the various topics. I also like that I can study at home – on a schedule that suits me and in the privacy of my own home. The flirting course is one of the topics in the Certified Romantic Course. Its a great course and covers all the main topics that people need to understand for success dating and to build a solid foundation for a relationship. The Certified Romantic course includes: dating, flirting, communication, love, intimacy,  foreplay and kissing. For more details about becoming a certified romantic – click here – https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/CourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=65.

Flirting

This Course Is For You If: You want to Learn How to Use Your Body Language for Flirting You want to Have the Right Flirting Props to Get Attention You want to Have a List of Great Conversation Starters You want to the Confidence to Flirt Spontaneously Welcome to Loveology University’s Flirting Certification Course. Inside you will find all the secrets behind the art of flirting. This course reveals the hottest tips on how to improve your game with unique approaches including questions, compliments and pick up lines. Even if you have your own skills, you are sure to learn something new about the power of body language, flirting props and conversation that will help to get you noticed. There are techniques for couples on how to keep a long term relationship new and exciting by flirting. This course provides you with guidelines of the do’s and don’ts of flirting, the best way and place to find your ideal person to flirt with. From the historical perspective of how and why flirting evolved to its extensive forms that exist today, this course is anything but a tease!

https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=26