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I’m fleshing out notes for an ebook on all aspects of kissing and a friend shared this on my Facebook profile — so had to share
Don’t mean to get a little forward with you, don’t mean to get ahead of where we are
Don’t mean to act a little nervous around you, I’m just a little nervous about my heart ’cause
It’s been awhile since I felt this feeling that everything that you do gives me
It’s been so long since somebody whispered
Shut up and kiss me
Didn’t expect to be in this position, didn’t expect to have to rise above
My reputation for cynicism, I’ve been a jaded lady when it comes to love but
Oh baby just to feel this feeling that everything that you do gives me
It’s been too long since somebody whispered
Shut up and kiss me
There’s something about the silent type attracting me to you
All business baby none of the hype
That no talker can live up to
Come closer baby I can’t hear you, just another whisper if you please
Don’t worry ’bout the details darlin’, you’ve got the kind of mind I love to read
Talk is cheap and baby time’s expensive, so why waste another minute more
Life’s too short to be so apprehensive, love’s as much the symptom darlin’ as the cure
Oh baby when I feel this feeling, it’s like genuine voodoo hits me
It’s been too long since somebody whispered…
Oh baby I can feel this feeling that everything that you do gives me
It’s been too long since somebody whispered
Shut up and kiss me
Shut up and kiss me
Here are some details from the Kissing Course – (in California you can earn CEUs with this course)
What Kissing Is
Kinds of Kisses
History of Kissing
Myths of Kissing
Preparing for the Kiss
The Art of Kissing
Kissing Rules
What Can be Kissed
Kissing Targets
G-Love
Where to Sneak a Kiss
Kissing – How To
Tantra Kisses
Kissing Positions
Kissing All Five Senses
Kissing Boundaries
Healing Kisses
Kissing Fears
Kiss-ercise
Kissing Games
Kissing Concerns
Orgasmic Kissing
Kissing with Piercing
The Hickey Kiss
Kissing Crimes
Kissing the Genitals
and more……
These are some of the things covered in the course — and the homework is wonderful
This Course Is For You If:
You want to Learn the Art of Tantric Kissing
You want to Discover What Can and Should be Kissed
You want to Become Skilled at Kissing Positions
You want to Know the Secret to Orgasmic Kissing
Welcome to Loveology University’s Kissing Certification Course. Inside you will learn everything you ever wanted to know about the most intimate act of kissing. There’s a lot more to kissing than two lips meeting and by the end of this course, you’ll be an expert on the history of kissing, the latest scientific research, dozens of sexy kissing tips and techniques, games, positions, places to kiss and you’ll discover what your kissing style says about you. Now pucker up for the ultimate kissing experience.
Its a new year and time for celebration and fun. Its a time for rebirth and starting over. Have you started or tried anything new with your partner? Its time for some lovin’ and smooth sensual lovin’ is the best. That’s a reason why I wanted to share my review for Moist Gel. For everyone who wants a smooth, sensual and sexy start to the New Year — its time to show a little self love (masturbate) and to show your partner how much you want to please them. That also means it would be a great time to try Moist Gel – Personal Lubricant.
Some time ago I shared my review for Moist Lubricant – http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2010/05/27/sex-toy-review-moist-personal-lubricant/
The regular Moist Lubricant is very good – but some people may have a concern about it being a thin liquid. The gel form is for people who are looking for a thicker lubricant. This is still very easy to use and spreads great on your hands or other body parts but it is a thicker consistency. You could try both – to see which consistency you prefer. It will likely remind you of a hair gel product when you first feel it.
If you haven’t used a lube before or if you’re looking for suggestions, here are some Master Sexpert Tips
Lube is beneficial for many forms of sexual activity – masturbation, vaginal intercourse, anal sex and flavored lubes are great for oral sex – pick your flavor or choice or try different flavors. Some lubes are especially made for use in the tub, shower or hot tub.
Never use a silicone lube with silicone toys.
Always use a water based lube inside a woman’s body
Always use a water based lube with condoms – oil and petroleum based lubes should not be used with condoms because it can cause the condom to deteriorate
Warming lubes are great for nipple and breast stimulation and can be used on the genitals – however all lubes will help your hands slide over your partner’s body easier and more sensually
If you prefer more vigorous sex – definitely use lube to cut down on the friction and to let your partner thrust harder and longer. The lube provides the option to have more rigorous sex without the chafing etc that can happen after rough and/or long lovemaking sessions.
Water based lubes are a great choice, they are compatible with all toys and with condoms, it is easy to clean, and it doesn’t stain.
You may want to test several types of lubes on your own to see which type and what feel you like better. Then keep it close to your bed, in your glove compartment or purse — depending on where you plan to have sex
Moist Gel is thick enough to be used for anal sex
The tube is easy to open, easy to get the desired amount of lube out and easy to close.
How can you tell if that special person is falling in love with you? Their body language can reveal his or her true feelings and intentions for you – even when they don’t say the words. I know it sounds corny, but a person in love has a “glow” every time he or she is with that special person. But you may be wondering about the other signs?
You will notice that a person who is falling for you can’t stand being far from you. They smile and laugh more. They will mirror things that you do and say. And one of the most obvious is that he or she cannot keep their eyes off you.
Personal Space
A person in love looks for ways to be closer to you. You know a person’s personal space has gotten smaller when he or she gets comfortable with you even in the slightest distance. Notice in a room full of people, he will always try to stay close to you.
That person will lean his body towards you, whether you are sitting down or standing up. The direction of his or her body will be turned towards you. If she isn’t in love with you, then the direction of her eyes show who is in her mind.
More Touch, Smiles, And Laughter
A person who is falling for you, listens to you more. You will notice more reactions to your words, than he or she had during your first dates. There is more laughter even for your worst jokes. While talking, he or she will smile more and this is especially true when they are being quiet. This is because he or she is really enjoying your time together.
He or she will make the effort to touch you from time to time. A tap on the shoulder, placing the hand on the small of the back, hugging, and holding the hands are some of the most common touching body language when falling in love.
The Mirroring Actions
This is a funny yet very sweet signal of attraction since it is done unconsciously most of the time. This is where a person would imitate the actions of their special person. For example, you may prop your chin on your hand, the person in love with you will copy that same action.
The Longer Stare
A person in love with you simply cannot take his eyes off you. This is especially true when their feelings have just started to develop, he or she finds it difficult to concentrate on other things. The stare is usually intimate or intense, and it is accompanied by a slight smile.
That Glow
It is hard to explain, but a person has a certain aura around him or her when he or she is in love and happy. It is due to the extreme happiness and joy they feel and this is reflected with a sparkle in the eyes and a smile that is hard to suppress or remove from the face.
When a person falls in love, it changes him or her completely and this is reflected in his or her body language. Some people fail to notice this, but these signs are definitely there. The person is often unaware that he is giving these hints and clues about his true feelings for that special someone. Most people find them hard to miss and they love these sign of attraction whether sent silently or through simple romantic actions and gestures.
What are some other body language signs that you are in love or are falling in love?
How many times have you wondered if a person is interested in you? Many people keep their thoughts and feeling to themselves, so it is great to have another way to “read their mind”. How can a person show his affection to another person without telling him or her? How can one know he or she is indeed attracted to another person?
Body language is your way to break the secret code for romance. A person’s body language is an obvious way of telling someone how he feels and a subtle way to share what he wants to say. Your eyes, facial expressions, and body movements do express your desire to engage in a romantic or intimate relationship with another person.
Look Deep Into My Eyes
The eyes are strong indicators of romance and attraction. They can express, flirt, and even seduce much better than words. Eye contact may not mean anything if it only happens briefly. But when it lasts longer and includes an intense look, he or she is definitely into you. Winking will also work, but it requires right timing. Another strong evidence of attraction is when someone catches your eye, looks away, then looks back at you again. On the other hand, if he or she look away and never looks back again, it is a clear sign he or she is not interested.
Read My Face
The smile is one of the greatest sign he or she likes you. It means he is truly interested, comfortable, and enjoying your company. But it is important you know how to determine a forced smile from a sincere one. Raising the eyebrows, even when done subconsciously, has been done by people flirting with each other.
The Magic Of Touch
Sometimes, leaning towards another person just is not enough. In these instances, we find that closing the distance between us is much better. A light tap or stroking the arm can be a great way to send electric signals to another person. Most of people pretend there is a smudge on the face or lint on the clothes just to have a reason to touch. What sorts of excuses have you used to tough that special person?
Men and Women Use Body Language in Different Ways
Compared to men, women can send signals of attraction five times stronger. They have more flirting habits than men and most of them are done intentionally. They love to preen, play with their hair, tossing the hair over the shoulder, and using their hands to play with something such as a wine glass. Most women are quite good in seducing and teasing men, especially when they use their lips – without touching him. Biting and licking their lips, putting on lipstick, and eating or drinking slowly are the usual moves of an interested woman.
Meanwhile, men usually try to appear masculine to show their prowess to the women they like, by giving them a look at their full length. They try to stand taller, square their shoulders, and sometimes hook their thumbs into the belt for that macho aura. They also unconsciously touch their ties or collar – these are indications that they find you irresistible and he wants to make an impression on you.
Will You Accept the Invitation
You could determine that a person likes you if he or she gives the following signs: prolonged eye contact, raising of eyebrows, smiling back, laughing with you, leaning close, closing the distance, imitating your actions, touching, preening, and thing like that. If you get these signs, it means there is a big possibility that you could take your interaction to a higher level.
Signs Indicating “No!”
To round out your knowledge about body language, it would be necessary to explain the ways to determine if a person is not interested.
A person is most likely not interested when he or she never glances back at you. You can also determine that person is bored or uninterested in you when his or her eyes start to wander, sigh, yawn, have passive or neutral facial expressions, and other similar actions and looks.
The signals of body language in terms of romance and attraction are easy to detect if you know how to interpret a person’s actions. Understanding the gestures and body movements of another person can definitely help you know in advance if you may have the opportunity to be intimate together or be rejected.
For many people, this is a time when they become dissatisfied with his or her life. He or she might think there is something more for him or her out there. The dissatisfaction could be about the job, love, children, sex life or about life in general. If you feel this way then you may be in need of a love coach.
Love Coach and Love Coaching
A love coach is a lot like a baseball coach, a basketball coach or a football coach. The coaches teach and train the players to identify and change faulty habits, then develop and improve so they can improve. A love coach works a lot like that. The coach helps people change faulty habits, develop and improve the different aspects of their lives for them to determine and achieve their goals in life.
Love coaching is the process of developing and improving your life. It is a partnership between you and a coach to work together for a certain period of time. The partners have sessions that focus on your needs and other issues.
With many types of therapy, you discuss and focus on the past. This can include what your mother or father did that lead you to this point in your life. With a love coach, we want to help you move forward, identify things that are holding you back and setting goals that will move you and your life forward.
Through these sessions, the love coach helps you client develop different strategies and solutions to improve your life and your love. This is an interaction between two persons and it is not only the coach who makes decisions. You need to be actively involved especially in the decision making process. The most successful coaching happens when you are ready to take positive action to improve your life and love.
Why Do You Need Love Coaching
The point in time when you want and are ready to make a change can quickly come and go. But this will happen from time to time and it begins to bother you.
So what will you do about it?
Is it okay to let this keep happening for the rest of your life?
Is it okay not to do anything about it?
Will you be happy if you leave this unresolved?
Is it okay to feel dissatisfied?
With a love coach, you are given a helping hand to guide you to take that big leap and change for the better. He or she is there to aid in determining the right path for you to take to improve and feel satisfied with your life. The coach helps you learn the way to improve your life.
Benefits of Having A Love Coach
A love coach helps you determine what you want, why you want it, and how you can achieve it. He or she will help you take the steps to move from where you are now to where you want to be. A love coach gives encouragement, provides support and confidence as well as motivation for you to achieve your goals.
Will You Really Benefit From It
Anyone can benefit from love coaching. It does not matter where you are or who you are, for as long as you want changes and improvements in your life, you will benefit from having a love coach. Whether you are a man, a woman, married or single, there are many ways a love and relationship coach can help you make changes in your life.
Love coaches have been effective when it comes to the different aspects of life. This includes self-esteem, self-confidence, dating, choosing a partner, keeping romance and intimacy in your life, aspects of your sex life, putting more spice and variety you’re your relationship, learning to love yourself, and so much more. It all depends on you on what aspect of your life you need help with.
So do you really need a love coach? The only one who can answer this now is you. The basics of love coaching and love coaches have been laid out for you and it is up for you to decide whether you need a love coach or not.
Do you want to find what’s missing and learn how to improve your relationship? Contact Mitzi at 4mitzirae@gmail.com for a free consultation to find out how this works.
I definitely believe that we must love ourselves in order to be a truly happy, lasting and satisfying partner in a relationship. First and foremost, how can you honestly expect and ask someone to love you – if you don’t love yourself? I’m not talking about being conceited and thinking you are better than other people — this is about loving, caring and respecting yourself.
I just read a wonderful chapter in True Love: How to Make Your Relationship Sweeter, Deeper and More Passionate by Daphne Rose Kingma and I have to share it with you….
Love Yourself
All too many of us consider love to be the miracle by which, finally, we will become complete human beings. This is the fixer-upper notion of love, the idea that we’re not all right as we are, but if we can just get loved by somebody, then that will prove that we’re ok.
Ironically, however, in order to be well loved, you need first to love yourself. For in love, we get not necessarily what we deserve, but what we THINK we deserve. Just as Harry Homeowner who has a house that’s worth one million dollars might sell it for only $500,000 if that’s all he thinks it’s worth, so the person who underestimates his or her own value will be be shortchanged in love.
Love begets love. If you don’t think well of yourself, you can’t be positively affected by the person who is celebrating you for the specialness you don’t believe you have. If you don’t know, and love, what’s important, special, precious, and beautiful about yourself, you can be sure you will not be serenaded, sent roses, lauded, paraded or daily smothered in kisses by someone who does.
Loving yourself is knowing yourself, enjoying and valuing yourself, and understanding that self-knowledge i a lifelong personal enterprise. It means that you appreciate yourself at least as much as you value your honey, that you know he or she is lucky in love as you believe you are. It means you measure your strengths and weaknesses neither with the abuse of self deprecation not the insanity of ego mania, but with genuineness, with accuracy. Loving yourself is recognizing your gifts and talents, and putting them to good use, acknowledging your flaws, and forgiving yourself for them. Loving yourself is reaching for more, for the best, in yourself.
So often we put up with shabby treatment in love because we don’t believe we deerve better. But self love is always a model for the love you may reasonably expect, the true measure of the love you will give and get. Your heart can only hold as much love as you believe it can. So treat yourself better, believe you deserve to be treated well, and you will get treated ever more wonderfully in love.
True Love: How to Make Your Relationship Sweeter, Deeper and More Passionate by Daphne Rose Kingma – pages 30 – 31
A happy sex life is one of the joys of human life, and it’s a always a good idea to explore new possibilities. Happiness is good for people, and sex also provides a lot of positive hormonal effects which reduce stress and improve quality of life. Things like sex toys can add dimensions and be a lot of fun.
Shopping for sex toys
This can be a bewildering experience for those not used to it. It’s worth taking a structured approach to your shopping, because in-store shopping can be distracting. It’s much better to start your shopping online, so you can get oriented to the range of products and develop your ideas without the “impulse buying” effect getting in the way.
Shopping for toys is actually pretty simple, but you need to be able to navigate the products so you can really explore. The best approach is to shop by category. That means you can concentrate on specific things and keep the “kid in candy store” element under some sort of control:
The first thing you’ll notice is that there are a lot of things you haven’t seen before. Even if you’re an experienced shopper, it’s always a good idea to check out the New Products links, because there’s always a lot of new things coming on the market.
Some of these things are mind blowing. The new American “companion” robot dolls, for example, are so new that they’re getting a lot of media attention. Japanese sex toys are equally extraordinary, and talk about exploring, these are effectively whole new sexual concepts in several ways.
The adult games are also something else. They’re usually developed by people having a particular kind of creative streak, and a famous game like Monogamy is worth a look. Novelties, on the other hand, can include things like Kama Sutra pasta, and if you weren’t aware that pasta can make its own fun, this is a true eye opener.
Note: These things are sometimes only distributed through certain outlets, so if you find something really unique, you can also buy online. Shopping online is useful when you see something interesting that’s obviously not available elsewhere.
Real fun- Exploring your own tastes
Shopping as a couple, particularly online, is often a great idea. Two sets of eyes tend to be a lot more efficient in this sort of shopping, because two sets of personal tastes are involved, and the different areas of interest can find a lot more of interest, much faster.
Don’t be too surprised if even this type of shopping gets a lot more interesting where you live, too. Just shopping can lead to a lot of fun. Variety and novelty are always good, because they create new situations, and new perspectives. Sex toy shopping tends to lead to a lot of new ideas and more fun.
Shop, explore, and enjoy!
Would you like some sex toy suggestions, tips and recommendations? Check out my review page for a wide variety of toys – http://shedyourinhibitions.com/reviews-by-mitzi/
As we getting closer to the biggest gift giving time of the year – I’m catching up a bunch of product reviews. Hope you will bear with me and I hope that you get some fun and sexy gift ideas. Over the last year, I’ve tried to share a wide variety of product reviews and if you’d like to see them all, visit my main review page where I post links to all reviews. (http://shedyourinhibitions.com/reviews-by-mitzi)
The latest item I got from CalExotics is the Calypso 7 Speed Massager. The shape and appearance of this item is very unique and how can you go wrong with 7 speeds. We’re all familiar with the usual vibrators – but there are so many other stimulating options for individuals and couples.
The Calypso has a unique shape which is great to use yourself or with a partner to stimulate just about any erogenous zone for both of you. Remember that you can use toys on any part of the body — don’t just focus on the genital areas. You have erogenous zones all over your body and so does your partner.
One of the first things I noticed about the Calypso is the “soft silicone pleasure nubs” – well I call it the scrubby surface That feels good and stimulating to any part of the body and with the 7 different settings, you can definitely find a setting that feels good for all locations on the body and also easily change it to fit your changing mood and as you become more aroused…..
I did have a little trouble figuring out how to work the controls — but you see the small button on the right side, just push that to change the setting and this was the complicated part – hold down on the button to turn it off. The part shown on the right comes off so you can put the batteries in — it is a very snug fit, but it does slide apart.
Let’s Get Down to the Nitty Gritty with the Master Sexpert Tips -
Always clean your toys thoroughly before and after you play and especially on the “pleasure nubs” – but this one doesn’t appear to be waterproof
If you use the Calypso anywhere near the anus, clean it before playing near the vagina.
Use your imagination and be very creative with this toy. The shape is great for using on your own body or your partner’s – and you can use the side with the nubs, the end or the other side. However you choose to use it – the goal is to stimulate yourself and/or your partner.
You can use lube with this to help it slide across the body easier – but keep it away from the opening for the batteries.
You might want to add this to a massage for your partner
It can also be a great addition to your self love time
Remember to try the different speeds/pulses to see what feels best to your partner
When using this on someone else, remember that the “pleasure nubs” will intensify your touch, so pay attention to your partner’s reactions.
Keep in mind – you and your partner have erogenous zones all over your body — so try them all or simply start moving the Calypso along the skin, across the shoulders and shoulder blades, slide down to run it around and across the breasts, maybe use it to enhance a foot or leg massage, use it to tease her or his perineum — you get the idea….
Laura Berman, LCSW, PhD has been working as a sex educator and therapist for 20 years, and is considered a leader in her field. Her latest book, “Real Sex for Real Women” is an international Best Seller.
7-Function Curved Massager with Silicone Foreplay Arousers
“Put sexual satisfaction right at your fingertips”
Velvety smooth and seamless massager angled for the perfect reach
7 powerful functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation
Soft Silicone pleasure nubs
Easy grip handle
Easy off button
2 AA batteries
ABS with PU Cote (massager) Silicone (pleasure nubs)
