Make it Happen! Discover More Love and Passion in Your Relationship

“Make it Happen! Discover More Love and Passion”

Are you ready to find out how to “Make it Happen? It is time to Discover More Love and Passion in your relationship.

Offering a free 25 minute introductory coaching session:

“Make it Happen! Discover More Love and Passion”

In this powerful free session, you will leave with:

• Information about positive outcomes and changes for your relationship
• A new and improved awareness of what is causing many of the challenges in your relationship (it is probably not what you think)
• A renewed sense of energy and enthusiasm about turning your relationship around
• Begin to develop your personalized action plan to move your relationship to the next phase of love, connection, intimacy and passion

Would you like to see how a coaching session could work for you? This is your chance to get a FREE 25 minute session or 75% off a one hour session – that I a one hour introductory consult for only $25. This offer is only during the month of January 2011. Don’t wait long, or the schedule will be full…

Contact Mitzi 4mitzirae@gmail.com for more details

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“Make it Happen! Discover More Love and Passion in Your Relationship.”

PS – If you receive this ebook after January 2011, contact me for details about an introductory session – 4mitzirae@gmail.com

For an introduction to love and relationship coaching – download your copy today.

Make it Happen! Discover More Love and Passion

Table of Contents

Love and Relationship Coach: Why Would You Need One?

Why Do You Need Love Coaching

Your Part in the Process When Working with a Love Coach

Benefits of Working with a Love Coach

How a Love Coach Works

Ethics of the Love Coach

The Importance of Loving Yourself

When You Look in the Mirror – Who Do You See?

Goals for a Love Coach/Relationship Coach

Are You Happy in Your Relationship

Love Coach Tips

Do You Feel and Think Like a Survivor or a Victim

Some Common Relationship Myths

Pursue Your Purpose – Before Pursuing a Relationship

Your Purpose Must Come Before Your Relationship

Getting in Touch With Your Sexuality

Reading Body Language – Interested or Not

Are You Ready to Start Dating After a Breakup

Is It Time To Take Your Life Into Your Own Hands

“Make it Happen! Discover More Love and Passion” – Special Offer

Kissing Classes on The Doctors

For a sneak peek into some of the information in the kissing course from Loveology University – watch Dr Ava on The Doctors in this video clip

http://www.thedoctorstv.com/main/home_page?init_type=Feature&init_id=3242

Here are some details from the Kissing Course – (in California you can earn CEUs with this course)

• What Kissing Is
• Kinds of Kisses
• History of Kissing
• Myths of Kissing
• Preparing for the Kiss
• The Art of Kissing
• Kissing Rules
• What Can be Kissed
• Kissing Targets
• G-Love
• Where to Sneak a Kiss
• Kissing – How To
• Tantra Kisses
• Kissing Positions
• Kissing All Five Senses
• Kissing Boundaries
• Healing Kisses
• Kissing Fears
• Kiss-ercise
• Kissing Games
• Kissing Concerns
• Orgasmic Kissing
• Kissing with Piercing
• The Hickey Kiss
• Kissing Crimes
• Kissing the Genitals

and more……

These are some of the things covered in the course — and the homework is wonderful

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Learn the Art of Tantric Kissing
• You want to Discover What Can and Should be Kissed
• You want to Become Skilled at Kissing Positions
• You want to Know the Secret to Orgasmic Kissing

Welcome to Loveology University’s Kissing Certification Course. Inside you will learn everything you ever wanted to know about the most intimate act of kissing. There’s a lot more to kissing than two lips meeting and by the end of this course, you’ll be an expert on the history of kissing, the latest scientific research, dozens of sexy kissing tips and techniques, games, positions, places to kiss and you’ll discover what your kissing style says about you. Now pucker up for the ultimate kissing experience.

More Details About Becoming a Certified Kisser -

https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=23

Inspirational Quote – Nurture Your Mind

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go any higher than you think.” Benjamin Disraili

 

 

Inspirational Quote – Accept You Could Fail

 

“You must accept that you might fail; then, if you do your best and still don’t win, at least you can be satisfied that you’ve tried. If you don’t accept failure as a possibility, you don’t set high goals, you don’t branch out, you don’t try – you don’t take the risk.“

~ Rosalynn Carter, former first lady and author

Love and Relationship Coach: How A Coach Can Help You

For many people, this is a time when they become dissatisfied with his or her life. He or she might think there is something more for him or her out there. The dissatisfaction could be about the job, love, children, sex life or about life in general. If you feel this way then you may be in need of a love coach.

Love Coach and Love Coaching

A love coach is a lot like a baseball coach, a basketball coach or a football coach. The coaches teach and train the players to identify and change faulty habits, then develop and improve so they can improve. A love coach works a lot like that. The coach helps people change faulty habits, develop and improve the different aspects of their lives for them to determine and achieve their goals in life.

Love coaching is the process of developing and improving your life. It is a partnership between you and a coach to work together for a certain period of time. The partners have sessions that focus on your needs and other issues.

With many types of therapy, you discuss and focus on the past. This can include what your mother or father did that lead you to this point in your life. With a love coach, we want to help you move forward, identify things that are holding you back and setting goals that will move you and your life forward.

Through these sessions, the love coach helps you client develop different strategies and solutions to improve your life and your love. This is an interaction between two persons and it is not only the coach who makes decisions. You need to be actively involved especially in the decision making process. The most successful coaching happens when you are ready to take positive action to improve your life and love.

Why Do You Need Love Coaching

The point in time when you want and are ready to make a change can quickly come and go. But this will happen from time to time and it begins to bother you.

• So what will you do about it?
• Is it okay to let this keep happening for the rest of your life?
• Is it okay not to do anything about it?
• Will you be happy if you leave this unresolved?
• Is it okay to feel dissatisfied?

With a love coach, you are given a helping hand to guide you to take that big leap and change for the better. He or she is there to aid in determining the right path for you to take to improve and feel satisfied with your life. The coach helps you learn the way to improve your life.

Benefits of Having A Love Coach

A love coach helps you determine what you want, why you want it, and how you can achieve it. He or she will help you take the steps to move from where you are now to where you want to be. A love coach gives encouragement, provides support and confidence as well as motivation for you to achieve your goals.

Will You Really Benefit From It

Anyone can benefit from love coaching. It does not matter where you are or who you are, for as long as you want changes and improvements in your life, you will benefit from having a love coach. Whether you are a man, a woman, married or single, there are many ways a love and relationship coach can help you make changes in your life.

Love coaches have been effective when it comes to the different aspects of life. This includes self-esteem, self-confidence, dating, choosing a partner, keeping romance and intimacy in your life, aspects of your sex life, putting more spice and variety you’re your relationship, learning to love yourself, and so much more. It all depends on you on what aspect of your life you need help with.

So do you really need a love coach? The only one who can answer this now is you. The basics of love coaching and love coaches have been laid out for you and it is up for you to decide whether you need a love coach or not.

Do you want to find what’s missing and learn how to improve your relationship?  Contact Mitzi at 4mitzirae@gmail.com for a free consultation to find out how this works.

It Starts with Loving Yourself

I definitely believe that we must love ourselves in order to be a truly happy, lasting and satisfying partner in a relationship. First and foremost, how can you honestly expect and ask someone to love you – if you don’t love yourself? I’m not talking about being conceited and thinking you are better than other people — this is about loving, caring and respecting yourself.

I just read a wonderful chapter in True Love: How to Make Your Relationship Sweeter, Deeper and More Passionate by Daphne Rose Kingma and I have to share it with you….

Love Yourself

All too many of us consider love to be the miracle by which, finally, we will become complete human beings. This is the fixer-upper notion of love, the idea that we’re not all right as we are, but if we can just get loved by somebody, then that will prove that we’re ok.

Ironically, however, in order to be well loved, you need first to love yourself. For in love, we get not necessarily what we deserve, but what we THINK we deserve. Just as Harry Homeowner who has a house that’s worth one million dollars might sell it for only $500,000 if that’s all he thinks it’s worth, so the person who underestimates his or her own value will be be shortchanged in love.

Love begets love. If you don’t think well of yourself, you can’t be positively affected by the person who is celebrating you for the specialness you don’t believe you have. If you don’t know, and love, what’s important, special, precious, and beautiful about yourself, you can be sure you will not be serenaded, sent roses, lauded, paraded or daily smothered in kisses by someone who does.

Loving yourself is knowing yourself, enjoying and valuing yourself, and understanding that self-knowledge i a lifelong personal enterprise. It means that you appreciate yourself at least as much as you value your honey, that you know he or she is lucky in love as you believe you are. It means you measure your strengths and weaknesses neither with the abuse of self deprecation not the insanity of ego mania, but with genuineness, with accuracy. Loving yourself is recognizing your gifts and talents, and putting them to good use, acknowledging your flaws, and forgiving yourself for them. Loving yourself is reaching for more, for the best, in yourself.

So often we put up with shabby treatment in love because we don’t believe we deerve better. But self love is always a model for the love you may reasonably expect, the true measure of the love you will give and get. Your heart can only hold as much love as you believe it can. So treat yourself better, believe you deserve to be treated well, and you will get treated ever more wonderfully in love.

True Love: How to Make Your Relationship Sweeter, Deeper and More Passionate by Daphne Rose Kingma – pages 30  – 31

Are You Happy With Yourself?

If you are unhappy with yourself – can you be a contributing partner in a happy and satisfying relationship?

When I say are you unhappy with yourself – I’m thinking of things like:

• Happy with your appearance
• Happy with your home
• Happy with your financial situation
• Happy with your partner

Now – I realize that many people aren’t totally happy with everything in their life and they may want better situation. But, I’m thinking about being happy in terms of accepting where you are, who you are and your situation in life.

Here is a personal example – I don’t have a lot, but I’m happy with the things I have. Sure, I could have a bigger house, I could eat steak instead of chicken and I could certainly travel more – but I’m happy with life the way it is. There are things that I would like to change about my appearance – but I accept and love myself the way I am, flaws and all I remember many times my mom would call to tell me about something on sale and she always said, “You need one of these.” But, I really almost never did “need” something else – although that doesn’t mean I don’t love the office chair she bought me

So – here’s the question — how does your happiness or unhappiness with your life affect your relationship? What simple things do you think would help you be happier?

 

 

 

 

 

Inspirational Quote – Curiosity is the Wick….

Slow Down Before You Commit (Guest Post)

It takes the average person a mere 1/5th of a second to fall in love, according to a recent international survey. But as many have argued in the past, love at first sight (or lust at first sight in most instances) doesn’t guarantee a long lasting relationship. And before you start to fantasize about the wedding and what your kids will look like, you need to make sure you get to know each other properly before you make any kind of commitment—including exclusivity or marriage—because if you don’t, it can lead to problems in the relationship later on. But how do you know when it’s the best time to move forward or pump the breaks? Below are some common signs to watch out before you decide to make a commitment.

No Mystery. Let it be known that in a healthy relationship, information is revealed gradually over time. The more you trust that person, the more likely you are to tell them your secrets and intimate details about your life. But if your date immediately pours his or her heart out on the first date (revealing everything that there is to know) and demands that you to do the same, this might suggest that he or she is attempting to speed the whole process up by creating a pseudo level of intimacy.

Instant Soulmates. While it is indeed possible to have a strong connection with someone very early on, you should be cautious if your date expresses that the two of you are destined to be together when you know very well you’ve hardly spent any time together.

Mixed Emotions. If you have any level of uncertainty, including feelings of suspicion, self-doubt or anxieties when around your date, then you should really consider evaluating the relationship a bit closer before pursuing it any further. Why do you feel suspicious? Does he or she seem untrustworthy or not the monogamous type?  Why do you feel anxious? Does your date verbally attack you or make you feel bad about yourself? Make sure that you take notice of the early signs—these small details might not seem like a huge issue in the beginning but they can be very damaging once in a committed relationship.

Self-fulfillment.  Some have a tendency to feel “incomplete” if they do not have an exclusive partner.  But if you are part of this group let it be said that while this feeling of “incompleteness” might be the reason you rush into a committed and exclusive relationship, the best relationships occur when both parties are happy with themselves first. So just make sure that if you do decide to commit, it’s not because you are trying to fill a void.

By-line:

This guest post is contributed by Vanessa Jones, who writes on the topics of dating sites.  She welcomes your comments at her email Id: vanessa.jones42@gmail.com

 

Pursue Your Purpose and Then Pursue a Relationship

I just started reading The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida – and will definitely look forward to sharing some excerpts and look forward to hearing your thoughts. Here is the first and its on his website

Your Purpose Must Come Before Your Relationship

Every man knows that his highest purpose in life cannot be reduced to any particular relationship. If a man prioritizes his relationship over his highest purpose, he weakens himself, disserves the universe, and cheats his woman of an authentic man who can offer her full, undivided presence.

Admit to yourself that if you had to choose one or the other, the perfect intimate relationship or achieving your highest purpose in life, you would choose to succeed at your purpose. Just this self-knowledge often relieves much pressure a man feels to prioritize his relationship when, in fact, it is not his highest priority.

Your mission is your priority. Unless you know your mission and have aligned your life to it, your core will feel empty. Your presence in the world will be weakened, as will your presence with your intimate partner. The next time you notice yourself “giving in” to your woman, postponing your mission and denying your true purpose in order to spend time with her, stop. Tell your woman that you love her, but you cannot deny your heart’s purpose. Tell her that you will spend 30 minutes (or some specific time) with her in absolute attention and total presence, but then you must return to carry on your mission.

Your woman will be more fulfilled with 30 minutes a day of undivided attention and ravishing love than she will with a few hours of your weak and divided presence when your heart really isn’t into it. Time you spend with your woman should be time you really want to be with her more than anything else. If you’d rather be doing something else, she’ll feel it. Both of you will be dissatisfied.

From The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida, Chapter 7

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For more information – http://www.deida.info/books/the-way-of-the-superior-man/your-purpose-must-come-your-relationship