Shut Up and Kiss Me

I’m fleshing out notes for an ebook on all aspects of kissing and a friend shared this on my Facebook profile — so had to share

Don’t mean to get a little forward with you, don’t mean to get ahead of where we are
Don’t mean to act a little nervous around you, I’m just a little nervous about my heart ’cause
It’s been awhile since I felt this feeling that everything that you do gives me
It’s been so long since somebody whispered
Shut up and kiss me

Didn’t expect to be in this position, didn’t expect to have to rise above
My reputation for cynicism, I’ve been a jaded lady when it comes to love but
Oh baby just to feel this feeling that everything that you do gives me
It’s been too long since somebody whispered
Shut up and kiss me

There’s something about the silent type attracting me to you
All business baby none of the hype
That no talker can live up to

Come closer baby I can’t hear you, just another whisper if you please
Don’t worry ’bout the details darlin’, you’ve got the kind of mind I love to read
Talk is cheap and baby time’s expensive, so why waste another minute more
Life’s too short to be so apprehensive, love’s as much the symptom darlin’ as the cure
Oh baby when I feel this feeling, it’s like genuine voodoo hits me
It’s been too long since somebody whispered…
Oh baby I can feel this feeling that everything that you do gives me
It’s been too long since somebody whispered
Shut up and kiss me
Shut up and kiss me

Kissing Classes on The Doctors

For a sneak peek into some of the information in the kissing course from Loveology University – watch Dr Ava on The Doctors in this video clip

http://www.thedoctorstv.com/main/home_page?init_type=Feature&init_id=3242

Here are some details from the Kissing Course – (in California you can earn CEUs with this course)

• What Kissing Is
• Kinds of Kisses
• History of Kissing
• Myths of Kissing
• Preparing for the Kiss
• The Art of Kissing
• Kissing Rules
• What Can be Kissed
• Kissing Targets
• G-Love
• Where to Sneak a Kiss
• Kissing – How To
• Tantra Kisses
• Kissing Positions
• Kissing All Five Senses
• Kissing Boundaries
• Healing Kisses
• Kissing Fears
• Kiss-ercise
• Kissing Games
• Kissing Concerns
• Orgasmic Kissing
• Kissing with Piercing
• The Hickey Kiss
• Kissing Crimes
• Kissing the Genitals

and more……

These are some of the things covered in the course — and the homework is wonderful

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Learn the Art of Tantric Kissing
• You want to Discover What Can and Should be Kissed
• You want to Become Skilled at Kissing Positions
• You want to Know the Secret to Orgasmic Kissing

Welcome to Loveology University’s Kissing Certification Course. Inside you will learn everything you ever wanted to know about the most intimate act of kissing. There’s a lot more to kissing than two lips meeting and by the end of this course, you’ll be an expert on the history of kissing, the latest scientific research, dozens of sexy kissing tips and techniques, games, positions, places to kiss and you’ll discover what your kissing style says about you. Now pucker up for the ultimate kissing experience.

More Details About Becoming a Certified Kisser -

https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=23

Please Your Partner’s Feet

Thrill Your Lover’s Feet

Previously, I shared some information to help you understand more about foot fetish.

Now, let’s cover the steps that explain how you can thrill your lover’s toes.

1 – Undress the feet — remove socks, nylons, stockings etc. If you are so inclined, draw out removal of the stockings and linger on her thighs, her legs and anywhere else your hands and fingers may roam as you remove these items. (If you enjoy stockings, you may want to replace them a little later.)

2 – Wipe lint and other things away from between the toes. You can do this with your hand or an item that will gently remove the lint and maybe tickle a little bit.

3 – Soak the feet in warm water and you may want to add lavender scented soap or essential oil. Lavendar is an aphrodisiac and the scent is relaxing.

4 – Use a pumis stone or a wash clothes to remove any dead skin.

5 – Use moisturizing soap to clean between the toes, all around the heal, caress the ankle – if you want to, you can work your way up the lower leg, over the knees, along the thighs…. But I digress….

6 – Pat the areas dry with a warm, soft, fluffy towel

7 – Carefully clean under your partner’s nail, then clip and file each toe nail individually giving full attention to each nail

8 — Clip any hang nails carefully

9 – Be sure that you have some flavored lubricant or some liquid food, maybe syrup of some kind. Squeeze the liquid into the palm of your hand

10 – Rub your hands together to heat theliquid

11 – Use your hands to caress and massage your partner’s feet, one at a time.

12 – You can use different strokes and different pressure to vary the touch. (You may want to look into an Erotic Massage Course) http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=39&a_aid=litekepr

13 – Once you have warmed up your partner’s feet and have them relaxed – breath slowly on the skin of their feet – exhale with warm breaths.

14 –Move your mouth or your partner’s feet to change the distance between your breath and their skin.

15 – Lick your lips – thoroughly so that your lips are wet and ready

16 – Breath close to your partner’s big toe and kiss their toe.

17 – Kiss the big toe and wrap your lips around the toe, sliding your mouth onto it.

18 – Take each toe individually – caress the toe with your lips and tongue, run your tongue around each toe, along the top the sides and underneath each toe, suck them into your mouth and kiss each toe. Take your time and give each toe plenty of attention.  Treat the toe just like you would treat a penis when giving your partner oral sex.

19 – As your suck each toe, push your pinky finger between the toes to give the feeling of being penetrated.

20 – Slide your hand under one heel and cup the heel carefully. Be sure to use more lubricant at any time if your hands start to get dry. Wet hands and fingers give a much smoother massage.

21 – Gently bite the soles of the feet or nibble the sole and if your partner enjoys this, you can nibble softly around the edge of the foot.

22 – You enjoy hearing your partner moan – they will enjoy hearing you moan too. Let them know how much you enjoy pleasuring their feet.

23 – Run the tip of your tongue along the vein lines on the top of each foot.

24 – Pull on the skin of the foot – this is easier and sexier with wet hands. Alternately pull on the skin and tap on the bottom and the edges of the feet.

25 – Stroke your partner’s feet, alternating the rhythm the same way you would vary the rhythm of thrusts and strokes during intercourse. Slowly stroke and you can stroke faster and harder – if your partner enjoys this – as you simulate intercourse

26 – It is always important to listen to your partner and watch their reactions to be sure they are enjoying what you are doing. This will also help you know what to do more and what to do less – to please your partner.

27 – Pick a toe – watching your partner’s reactions can help you decide which one to pick. Then treat this toe like you would treat a clitoris. Use your imagination, be creative and give that toe your undivided attention.

28 – Be sure to let your partner know when you are aroused. If you are getting aroused too fast, show this too.

29 – Enjoy the process, use plenty of lubrication on your hands and on your partner’s feet and toes. This will allow you to keep your movements, strokes and other touch smooth and arousing.

30 – Most important – have fun and stimulate your partner through their feet.

Would you like to learn more about Foot Fetish? Check out this course http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=58&a_aid=litekepr. This foot stimulation is my interpretation of a process described in this course, by Dr Ava Cadell.

Will You Suck My Toes

Are you one of the people who loves feet? Or, are you one of those people who just cannot understand what could possibly be sexual about your lover’s feet? Let’s talk about foot fetish and see if you may want to pay extra attention to your lover’s feet.

Why wouldn’t we think a lot of our feet and give them extra attention. Our feet serve very real purposes – like giving the body a foundation and carry and support our bodies. But we often forget or ignore our feet. However, most people love a foot massage and there any many foot creams on the market to make our tired, hot, weary feet feel better.

What is a fetish – Webster’s Dictionary says: “Fetish is an object of irrational reverence or obsessive devotion, an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression.” So, a true foot fetish means the person has an inability to be aroused without the presence or fantasy of a foot.

There are various degrees of fetish – they include:

Optional – The fetish is part of a person’s sexual repertoire and an alternative to more conventional fantasies and behaviors but is not necessary or favored for sexual gratification. (For example – The man massages his partner’s feet, eroticizes them with adoration and loving kisses then moves up her calves to her inner thighs and vulva with the same sensual caressing.)

Preferred – Being in active fetishism is better for the individual than not.  (For example – When presented with a sexy foot and a sexy woman, he wants the foot but will engage with both.)

Exclusive – In order for the individual to become aroused the object of desire must be incorporated through fantasy and or reality. (For example – To get hard, to come or experience any sexual arousal, he has to have access to feet be it tangible or fantastical.)

So, if you enjoy having your feet massaged and kissed – you may have an “optional fetish”.  

The common theory about how a foot fetish begins is that, when a child – usually a boy – crawls around and views his mother’s feet. He may even reach out to touch or play with her feet, maybe trying to suck her toes. It may be that we are predisposed to feeling erotically about feet because they have apocrine sweat glands. These are a type of pheromone producing sweat gland like the ones in our armpits and in our genital areas.

Feet are a part of our body that has sensitive areas – so its natural that we enjoy paying attention to our lover’s feet or having them lavish attention on our feet.

However – if you are more serious about foot play in your love making, then you will likely enjoy some specific actions. Foot fetishists enjoy kissing, sniffing, licking, and caressing their partner’s feet before, during or after sex. Some might like their partners to jerk them off or penetrate them with their feet.

Some other activities include:

• Rubbing
• Sniffing
• Touching
• Tickling
• Kissing
• Licking
• Torturing
• Caressing
• Massaging
• Pampering
• Pedicuring
• Worshipping
• Sucking
• Cleaning
• Soaking

Check back for step by step instructions on how to thrill your partner – through their feet.

For much more information and for an online course about foot fetish, visit – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=58&a_aid=litekepr

Pornography – What is It and Is It For You?

There is much that is said about pornography, both positive and negative – mainly depending on who you talk to and their perspective.

Where do many people get their perspective on porn? The most common places are:

• Classmates/peers or Friends
• Mother, Father or Siblings
• Mentors, Teachers, Coaches or Counselors
• Clergy or your religion
• Media or TV
• Uncles, Aunts or Other relatives

Anyone that you spend time with could be where you got your perspective about porn, whether it’s good or bad. That is especially true with most religious clergy. Family members and friends can have an interesting impact on our thoughts and people who have a supervisory relationship with us can definitely change or form our opinions – like teachers, coaches or mentors.

Where did you learn about porn?

• High school and/or college locker room
• A friend’s house
• Corner drug store that sells a wide variety of magazines
• A video store that carries adult movies
• Online – through porn sites, ads, emails, forums, etc
• You may have heard in a family discussion
• Your parents or another relative may have a collection
• Older sibling – usually an older brother
• Cable or pay TV options

I remember the first time I opened a Playboy magazine – it was at my aunt and uncle’s house and I was babysitting my cousin, so I had the run of the house while they were out. My uncle had a big collection in the attic bedroom and that was my room whenever I watched my cousin overnight for them. Of course I’d heard hushed tones of family members and religious family friends that Playboy was the “devils work”. I was a kid, what did I know J But that does support the fact that many of us got our first impressions from family and religion.

Centuries ago – fine art often included nude men and women. If you look really close, they are often doing a variety of things, of course, that depends on where you see the art. But its still interesting that in other countries, there is fine art, statues, and other respected pieces of art which feature nude bodies.

However, nude or nearly nude bodies in movies and pictures are viewed as being bad in the United States. That often depends on the type of people you are around. I’ll share more about my experiences in a video store that rented and sold porn in another post, but I can tell you that we had a wide variety of people who rented and bought our movies. There were men, women, single and married people, some were very religious and they usually wandered around the store until the other people left. But they still rented porn on a regular basis. So – porn can be viewed by both genders, various relationship statuses, various religious viewpoints and many other variables.

Pornography or Erotica

Here is an interesting definition of erotica – Erotica has an interactive definition in that its meaning directly relates with who makes the classification. To be delineated as erotic it must be by the viewer’s standards an acceptable depiction of the acts of love and sex. So, the distinction is subjective and depends on the viewer.

Erotica is very popular with many women – along with movies and books that could easily be called soft porn. This can include novels, short stories, movies with erotic content (often Unrated) and sometimes soap operas push the limits – although the sheets are placed strategically. On the other hand, if a man read or watched the same thing, would many people automatically classify it as porn? I’ve got news for you – women watch porn and they have been watching it for a long time.

In recent years, there have been porn movies that are geared to women – and these can be just as graphic as the movies that men enjoy. But you will often see some differences. If you would like details about that – you should read Porn by Erika Lust. It’s a great book about women and porn – it also gives a great history of porn that many men would enjoy. My review is posted here – http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2010/07/30/book-review-good-porn-by-erika-lust/

So – how do you personal draw the line between erotica and porn? How do you feel about these movies or the books and how did you develop that viewpoint?

We’ll discuss more about pornography in future posts. If you would like to check into an online course that delves into the history or porn, details about porn, ways to use porn to spice up your love life and much more, check http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=53&a_aid=litekepr

Reasons to Have a Threesomes – Some Things to Consider First

Seems to me that every man I’ve ever had an intimate conversation with – has mentioned or strongly suggested that he’d like to participate in a threesome. Actually, some men that I didn’t want to have an intimate conversation with have said the same thing – but that’s a topic for another time.

So – it seems that men are fascinated with group sex, in particular, sex with two or more women at a time.  I have noticed they aren’t as interested in sex with a man and a woman – although sometimes they are – just not as often and some men say emphatically, no to sex with another man in the room.

Technically group sex includes sex with 3, 4, 5, or more people. There are more mouths, more hands, more arms, more legs – but there is also more need to communicate, more need to for coordination, more feelings, more baggage….  Not to bring you down, but there are many things to consider about group sex.

Let’s start at the beginning, these are some of the reasons to add another person or more people:

• To get more attention
• The opportunity to show off your skills
• Experiment with bisexuality
• Simply for some variety
• As a way to get variety without the need to lie or cheat
• Because you’re curious
• Be a voyeur and watch someone please your partner
• The chance to learn new skills
• Get past the usual social programming
• Explore and learn more about yourself
• Experiment with new sexual activities
• Learn new ways to love and please your partner
• Live out a fantasy

Society, friends, family, religion and other outside forces may say group sex is wrong, but honestly, if you’re an adult, every one is a consenting adult and no one gets hurt, you can do what you want.

One of the biggest issues I’ve noticed when talking to people about group sex – is their fear. This can be jealousy, insecurity for a variety of reasons, feel that its wrong, uncomfortable because it pushes their personal sexual boundaries.

No matter how great the fantasy, you need to have an honest conversation with your partner before you approach someone about joining you. Neither person should ever agree just to please the other – any sexual act you participate in, should be done because you want to do it. Threesomes and group sex definitely fall into that category.

A relationship can be ruined for many reasons, but group sex can definitely be a contributing factor. Here is a scenario – a couple had talked since the time they dated about having another woman have sex with them. The man wanted to be with two women and to watch them together. The woman was bi-curious and wanted to be with a woman and it was less pressure to do it with her husband. They finally found a woman and asked her to spend the night with them. The husband and wife were both friends with the other woman and she didn’t know it, but the wife had a crush on her.

So, they felt they discussed all the important things before hand and they got together several times to test the physical boundaries and everything seemed fine.   Then the night came and the eventually went to the bedroom. They were a little awkward at first, but everyone loosened up and there was plenty of kissing, fondling, hands and mouths roaming from person to person, things seemed to be going fine.

The husband and wife had intercourse and the wife clearly wanted to leave the other woman out. So, she stayed to the side. The wife got up and left the room a little later. When she returned, the husband had his arm around the other woman, talking to her. Nothing sexual was going on, although they were nude, but the wife abruptly decided it was time for everyone to get out of bed.

The three of them were together one more time after that. Shortly, each of the relationships deteriorated, and the couple eventually divorced. This couple had talked about a threesome for years, but still weren’t ready for the emotional repercussions.

These are a few of the negative reasons to participate in a threesome – are any of these the reason why you would be in a threesome? If so, you really should reconsider.

• Win back a partner
• Please a partner
• Hurt a partner
• Fear of intimacy
• Fear of commitment
• Want the rush of being in a new relationship

So – if you are one of the men or women who fantasizes about being in a threesome, or foursome or any other configuration of group sex, why do you want to have sex with multiple people at once and what would you do to prepare yourself and your partner? Or, would you be the other man or other woman in the scenario? If you would be joining a couple, what should you do before agreeing to join in?

If you would like to learn much more about group sex, check back for more articles or you can simply enter your email in the top right corner to subscribe to my blog. You can also check out the Group Sex course at Loveology University – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=62&a_aid=litekepr

What Can You Do if You Aren’t Happy in Your Relationship

What would you discuss with a love coach or a relationship coach? This coach is a person that helps you with a variety of areas of your personal development. They help you set and reach goals in several areas of your life, including:

• Dating
• Love
• Romance
• Relationships
• Intimacy
• Sexuality

When someone asks you how your relationship is – what do you say? Do you smile when you say, “Its great”? Do you try not to grit your teeth when you say, “Its fine”? Or, do you hesitate because you aren’t sure how you feel about your relationship?

Think about those six important areas of your life. Take a piece of paper or print this out and beside each area, write how you feel about it. Are you very satisfied, satisfied, content, not satisfied, very dissatisfied? I know that sounds like a telemarketer questionnaire, but this is much more important than any telemarketing call.

Think of your dating life, even in a committed relationship, you should still take time to date. Do  you and your partner go on a date – just the two of you at least twice a month? Is this time to focus on one another or are the kids or friends and family always with you? Dating is a great way to focus on one another and to keep the romance alive.

What about love? Sure you love your partner, but are you still in love with them? Many long term relationships continue, but that spark that makes your heart skip a beat when he walks in the door or when she has great news, just isn’t there. Do you work to keep your love strong? Do you kiss your partner good bye when they leave and kiss hello when they get home? Kissing is often the first thing a long term couple stops, and that is an indication something is wrong. Make a commitment to kiss, a real kiss, not a peck on the cheek, at least twice a day.

Romance – is there still romance in your relationship? If you still go on dates with each other, that’s a great start. What about doing little romantic things for each other? Do you leave thoughtful loving notes for your partner to find? Occasionally do you turn down the lights and have a quiet dinner alone? During the work day, take a few minutes to send a sexy text to tell your partner what you’d like to do with them later that night. It will bring a smile to their face and could easily brighten a dull afternoon at work. Romance doesn’t have to be hard – especially in a long term relationship, you know what your partner likes – and you should never stop looking for ways to please each other and show you still love one another.

Are you happy with your relationship? This goes beyond having a roof over your head and food in the fridge. Do you feel complete in your relationship? Do you and your partner work together to make and maintain a home? There will always be issues to contend with, but do you know your partner is there to support you and to work through the hard times? Do you feel good about yourself in this relationship?

Finally – are you happy with the level and degree of intimacy in your relationship? Is your sex life fulfilling for you? That doesn’t mean that you have sex several times a month. That means do you have sex on a regular basis and is it truly satisfying. Is it like the kind of sex you had when you were first married? Do you are your partner make an effort to find new ways to please each other? And intimacy, do you have a real intimacy in your relationship? That isn’t just sex, but the deeper connection between you and your partner – the kind that touches the deepest parts of your being and that makes you completely satisfied – with or without sex.

These are just some details off the top of my head. So – take a few minutes, look over the questions above and think about how you would rate dating, romance, love, relationship, intimacy and sex – in your life. Are there any areas you’d like to talk to a love coach about – to find ways to make it even better? Do you feel like you are getting a better understanding of the areas where a love coach or a relationship coach can help you?

These are the kinds of things I’m learning to help people with as a love coach. I’m sure the learning will not end, but learning to find the core problems and help clients use a variety of tools and techniques to improve the quality of their relationships is very rewarding and very satisfying.

Ultimate Summer Sex Toy – Add Ice to Your Lovemaking

The Ultimate Summer Sex Toy

By Mitzi Rae (www.shedyourinhibitions.com)

Summer is officially here and the temperature at my house is creeping closer to 100 this afternoon – so my mind is thinking of ways to stay cool. But, we all know that really good sex is often hot and steamy, so how can you integrate the ideas of staying cool and still keeping the sex hot and steamy? My recommendation would be to incorporate ice cubes into your love making. If you haven’t tried it – you really should. Ice cubes are one of the simplest homemade sex toys you may ever use.

The first time a partner used ice cubes with me was after a company banquet and I’d had way too much to drink, so my senses were definitely dulled. But I still enjoyed it very much. When I tried using ice with a partner – without being drunk, I enjoyed it even more

There are many things you can do with ice with your partner to cool things up – while spicing them up. Here are some suggestions and I welcome your comments about other ideas. You know that I’m always looking for good ideas.

Master Sexpert Tips – Before we get started

• Go to the kitchen and get a bowl and fill it up with ice cubes – if you have fancy ice trays, that’s fine too, but they are going to melt quickly, so fancy shapes will only make a first impression.
• I would recommend getting comfortable in a place that can get wet – the ice is going to melt. Or, get a couple of fluffy beach towels or a blanket to lie on.
• A couple of smaller fluffy towels would be useful too – just put them off to the side until you need them.
• If you have air conditioning or fans, definitely turn them on and I enjoy a breeze blowing through an open window too – you know how good it feels to have air blow across your wet body

Master Sexpert Tips to Turn Your Lover On While You Cool Them Off

Okay – we’ve got your supplies together, now let’s get busy.

• Let’s start things a little subtle. When its hot – inside or outside, every inch of your body is hot and wants to cool down.  What spots on your lovers body would you touch with your fingers? Their face, neck, arm, chest, leg, thigh…. Put a piece of ice in your hand and touch all those places with the ice, to keep their interest – slide the ice over their skin from one point to the next. If you want – you slide the ice over their skin and come behind the ice and lick it off. Or, simply let the air hit the wet trail you left.
• Do you and your partner enjoy playing with feet? Then definitely incorporate ice in the time while you’re playing with your partner’s feet.  This can include running the ice over the sole of your feet, around the edges of your feet and around your toes if you want. Have fun with it.
• I don’t know about you – but my head and neck sweat very bad when I’m hot. So, you may want to cool your partner down by running the ice cube along the upper edge of their forehead, and especially on the back of their neck at the base of their hair. If you do this on the forehead, its likely the melted ice will run into their eyes – keep that spare towel handy or lick it off for them…
• Pick a piece of ice that will easily fit in your mouth and think of all the places on your lover’s body that you’d like to kiss. You guessed it – kiss them (sure it will take some imagination) on all of those places, with the ice in your mouth.  This is great in places like their ear lobe, their neck, their chest, their thighs… you can use your imagination. You may or may not want to have your partner close their eyes or maybe use a blindfold – the anticipation of what you will do next can heighten the sensations.
• Find another piece of ice that will fit in your mouth – and kiss your partner, if you’re really creative, pass the piece of ice back and forth to each other. As you do this, the ice cube will get smaller and smaller. Any sort of tongue play that you want to do with your partner with the ice cube, is encouraged. You can enjoy playing with each other with the ice and also the warm and cold areas of your mouth as you play.
• One or both of you can pick up a piece of ice and use it on each other’s breasts – circle the breast, run the ice under the woman’s breast, work your way to the nipple, tease the nipples and watch them getting harder and larger as your play and after a sufficient amount of anticipation, rub the ice cube over the nipples – then it’s wonderful to suck and lick the water off. This can work on either partner, depending on the sensitivity of your nipples, although women may enjoy it more. But don’t ignore his nipples – some men have very sensitive nipples, so never ignore them. If you decide to do this with each other, you can sit facing each other – this will let you tantalize each other while you are being turned on.
• Do you enjoy mammary sex? If so – that can be a great follow up to the last idea. Let your man play with your breasts with the ice and get them good and wet, then have him move closer so that he can slide his penis between your breasts. You can push your breasts together to heighten the sensation for both of you – or you may choose to lower your mouth to take his penis into your mouth while he slides between your breasts.
• Use ice cubes with oral sex. This works for men or women, but a quick warning for women – if you are really sensitive, you should have your partner go down on your while you keep your underpants on. If you can tolerate the cold, your partner can take them off – with their hands or teeth, we’ll leave that up to you J Whether your partner is a man or a woman – you can alternate your mouth and your hands, with or without the ice. You can use your mouth on your partner and use ice in your hands or put the ice in your mouth while giving your partner oral sex. Get creative and watch your partner’s reactions – or ask which they like better and do that again. Remember that a combination of cool mouth, warm mouth, warm hand and hand with ice – variety is stimulating and anticipating what you will do next.
• How could I forget – whether you use the ice during oral sex with your woman or not — consider sliding a piece or two inside her before you have sex with her – it will provide a cool sensation in contrast to her warm body. This will give her a cool sensation along with her man’s penis inside of her or if you want to play with a favorite sex toy with her.
• Bottom line – get creative. You can use a piece of ice in any number of ways and places with your lover — the most important thing to remember, have fun!

Those are my ideas – what do you recommend?

Take Your Relationship to a New Level of Intimacy through Couples Enrichment

I have taken a lot of courses through Loveology University – but one of my favorite was on Intimacy in your relationship. One reason is because having true intimacy in your relationship really does take you and your partner to a whole different level of closeness. Another reason is because so few couples seem to have real intimacy – I’m not talking about just having sex – intimacy is much more than that.

These are  a couple of the reasons why I really enjoyed the course on Couples Enrichment. It includes information about the foundation and cornerstones of a great and lasting relationship. These include:

Topics to Lay the Foundation For Your Relationship

• Communication
• Kissing
• Love

Topics As the Relationship Deepens

• Seduction
• Intimacy
• Erotic Massage
• Sexual Fantasies
• Erotic Talk
• Pleasing a Man
• Pleasing a Woman
• Oral Sex
• Sexual Positions
• Tantric Sex
• Orgasm

Each of these are topics that will deepen and strengthen your relationship and contribute to the level of true intimacy and satisfaction for you and your partner.

What Enrichment Means -

• An improvement in communication, intimacy and sexuality.
• It has all the ingredients of true love; friendship, respect, trust, communication and passion

The Key Ingredients to a Deeper and More Loving Relationship

• Friendship
• Respect
• Trust
• Communication
• Passion
• Foregiveness

One exercise in this course includes these 3 questions. How would you answer these questions?

1. List 3 strengths in your relationships
2. List 3 weaknesses in your relationships
3. What can you do to be more in love with one another?

There are many short exercises which give you and your partner the opportunity to look deeper into your relationship and find ways to be closer. Many couples will never have the kind of true intimacy that will elevate their relationship to a much higher and more satisfying level. It does take effort, but isn’t your most important relationship worth the effort? This is a very small sample of the information contained in this course. This course is great for new relationships and it is also great for long term relationships that need a boost. Would you like to get that initial passion and closeness back that you and your partner had in the beginning? This course is for you

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Loveology University also offers individual courses on each of the topics in this course – in much more detail. The complete list of courses, including the Certified Romantic course is located here – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/CourseCatalogue.aspx

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Re-ignite the Hot Passion in Your Relationship
• You want to Win the Undying Love and Devotion of Your Partner
• You want to Make Love Longer Than You Ever Believed Possible
• You want to Discover the Rewards of Intimacy with Sex

Welcome to Loveology University’s Couples Enrichment Certification Course. Inside are exercises guaranteed to improve your communication, enhance your love life and expand your sexual horizon. When a couple has been together for any length of time, they often take each other for granted so this course will help you to fall back in love again. Beginning with the forgiveness process if there is any resentment or animosity pending, followed by praising each other and giving compliments to restore the foundation your relationship was built on. Touching is a big part of this course so you’ll learn the various kinds of touches ranging from healing, romantic, seductive, sexual to erotic. As the course progresses, the exercises become more intense and exciting with mutual masturbation, erotic talk, sensual massage, oral sex, sexual positions all resulting in multiple orgasm for both of you.

Course Price: $69.95 (Includes Video)

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Kissing Her Hand is Only the Beginning

Over the last couple of weeks, I’ve share a couple of articles about the art of kissing. The first was kissing the head, neck and face area – http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2010/04/27/the-art-of-kissing-kissing-the-head-neck-and-face/ and the second was kissing the back and the chest – the torso area – http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2010/05/11/kiss-any-part-of-your-lovers-body/. Now lets move to the hands and arms. That may not sound exciting, but just wait

Let’s start with the forearm and work our  way to the fingertips. You can gently caress the forearm with your hands and your lips. Feather light kisses on this area are very stimulating. Hold your lovers hand and turn the arm to give you easy access to the forearm. You may choose to kiss or lightly suck on his or her elbow.

While you’re holding their hand, slowly and passionately kiss the wrist and maybe include some small nibbles on the sensitive skin on the inside of the wrist. Let your tongue slide down onto their palm, before you kiss and suck on the palm, making lazy circles with the tip of your tongue.  Do you remember in high school where your young love would tickle the palm of your hand to tell you what they wanted to do to you? Remember how good that felt? Doing the same thing with your tongue is even better…

Now – you’re to the fingers. Gently kiss the fingers and suck each one separately. Use your hand to spread the fingers wide – and the next thing you should do, is determined by whether your lover is a man or a woman. For a man, take his fingers into your mouth and suck each one as if it was his penis. Any technique you would use to give him oral sex – you can use on his hand and watch how turned on he becomes. Now, to kiss her hand. You want to spread her fingers apart and then kiss between her fingers – tickling this area with your tongue. Treat her hand just like you would kiss her during oral sex. Are you wondering if that will actually work? Give it a try and use as much enthusiasm as you would if it was oral sex – and you let me know if your partner enjoys it.  The handcuffs in the picture are optional

While we’re talking about the hands and arms, let’s move down to the feet. Do you like to have your toes sucked? If you haven’t tried it before – you should try it now. Clean your feet very well and have your lover massage your feet with their hands and then kiss your feet, your ankles, and your toes. I love to have someone play with my feet and then lick and suck my toes – but I will warn you to be careful and adjust your touch based on how ticklish they are. A breeze hits my feet and it tickles, so it may take a little practice to get the touch right for your partner.

Now move to your partner’s calves – again, it is wonderful to massage the calves and then follow your hands with your mouth, lips and tongue. Try different touches and watch your lover’s reactions. When you find things the enjoy, do those things again.  That applies to anything you do – anywhere on their body. Move up to the knee and you can kiss the kiss, maybe suck gently behind their knee and maybe some small nibbles around the knee.

This leads perfectly into moving your way up the thigh. You can kiss the front, the back and the side of your lovers thighs. Kiss, lick, suck and nibble your way around the thigh and higher – ever closer to their sweet spot. As you move to the inner thigh – remember the inner thigh is much more sensitive. You can kiss your lover’s thigh with them standing to give you full access, with them lying on their back to let you kiss the front and sides of their thighs or you can roll them over – so you can kiss the back and inside of their thighs. If you have them lie on their stomach – they won’t see you coming and this can add some great sensations as you work your way up their leg with your mouth.

Move carefully, use every trick with your mouth, your lips and your tongue that you’ve mastered and work your lover into a frenzy – before you move in to kiss their genital area – with a most intimate kiss.