Sex Toy Review – System JO Offers a Variety of Lube Options for Sexual Pleasure

I have done several reviews for various lubricants, stimulants and System JO Massage Glide, which can also be used as a lube. Today, I want to share details about the great options from System JO. We’re going to cover plenty of options — get your wish list ready.

Are you one of the people who doesn’t use or has never used a lubricant? Many people feel they don’t need to use any additional lubrication or have some confusion about lubes, but I would highly recommend that you give it a try. Maybe you’ve tried KY or water, or saliva – these are okay, but none are really effective. Some lube can also be great for foreplay when you’re both getting in the mood. There are also some times when women won’t be a wet, even with the usual stimulation — so add some lube to make it more pleasurable for both of you. If you’re embarrassed about buying lubricant at the store, you can order it online and its shipped to you discreetly. The items I share in this post can all be found here – http://www.systemjo.com/public/products/jo-personal-lubricants

The need or desire to use lube when you’re having sex, enjoying some foreplay or even masturbating — don’t feel like using lube shows anything lacking in your body or your technique. Its a totally natural thing to add extra lubrication. For fast sex, you may not need any lubrication, for a pre-lubed condom, you may not need anything extra. But for long lasting sexual intercourse, for sex in a hot tub or pool, for anal sex or simply for wetter sex with less friction – lube is the answer. You may have heard of people using a lot of lube, you should experiment with the amount and type of lube that’s best for you and your partner.

One of the great things about lube is that you can decide how wet you want your play to be — you can add a little lube to limit the amount of friction or you can use more during times and activities when you need more lubrication. You can also use a lot of lube if you prefer a “sloppy wet” experience. Lube is another way to make the sexual experience the best it can be for you and your partner. Flavored lubes are great for oral sex – they provide additional moisture and many people enjoy choosing a flavor. Some of the options include: raspberry sorbet, chocolate delight, lemon splash, peachy lips, cherry burst, banana lick, juicy pineapple, sweet pomegranate, strawberry kiss, tangerine dream, tropical passion and flavored watermelon. Think of the options and combinations — yummmm Anyone who reads my posts know how much I like to recommend creativity and spontaneity….

Here are some of your options with SystemJO – to get your imagination working.

You can start with a simple water based lube – it is compatible with all materials, safe to use in or on the body, is very easy to clean up and comes in warming, cooling, flavored and regular varieties. It is safe for use with condoms and with any kind of toys – including any silicone toys.

A Premium Silicone Lube which is very long lasting, can be used in water, but should not be used inside the body or with silicone toys.

The flavored lubes are scented and flavored to add several additional sensory benefits for you and your partner. These are also very good for people who are leery or uncomfortable giving oral sex. With a wide variety of flavors, there is something for everyone.

Do you like the warming or cooling sensations – System JO offers lubes that are warming or cooling to the touch. You can use one or the other, or a combination of the two. It all depends on what you and your lover like – or how creative you want to get. Maybe you want a cooling touch on your nipples and a warming touch between your legs – that is very easy to accomplish with warming and cooling lubes.

Seriously – the sky is the limit and you are only limited by your imagination — take a look at the options and buy a variety pack and see which sensations you like the best.  You can experiment with how much lube is best for you. Pour some warming lube or massage glide on your hands and then start by massaging your partner’s breasts. Maybe your partner would like you to start with their feet and work your way up their legs – your lube slicked hands are going to feel very erotic and your hands slide over their skin.

Your partner probably doesn’t want to feel like you are “groping” them, but some lube gives you the advantage of having a stimulating and erotic touch as you slide your hands over parts of your partner’s body. Again — you should experiment with how much lube is best for you. System JO lubes are thicker than many, they are long last (silicone being the most long lasting) and they are very moisturizing. I have found that their products really are not sticky or tacky — they feel natural. I have not tried them all, but I have tried 5 or 6 different products and they feel great.

Master Sexpert Tips

Let’s get down to my Master Sexpert Tips for you —

1. Lube is beneficial for many forms of sexual activity – masturbation, vaginal intercourse, anal sex and flavored lubes are great for oral sex – pick your flavor or choice or try different flavors.
2. Silicone lubes are especially made for use in the tub, shower or hot tub.
3. Never use a silicone lube with silicone toys.
4. Always use a water based lube inside a woman’s body
5. Warming lubes are great for nipple and breast stimulation and can be used on the genitals
6. For more vigorous sex – use lube to cut down on the friction and to let your partner thrust harder – for longer — and often, that’s what we want — isn’t it?
7. Oil and petroleum based lubes should not be used with condoms because it can cause the condom to deteriorate – KY Jelly should NOT be used with condoms
8. Water based lubes are a great choice, they are compatible with all toys and with condoms, it is easy to clean, and it doesn’t stain.
9. You may want to test several types of lubes on your own to see which type and what feel you like better. Then keep it close to your bed, in your glove compartment or purse — depending on where you may have sex
10. Silicone lubes are very long lasting during sex, and they are more difficult to clean up.
11. The wide variety of lubes offer you and your partner many possibilities – so give it a try and see what feels best for you and your lover.
12. While lube makes sex with your lover more fun – it is also great for self love. You may want to try the lube out on your own and then introduce it with your partner once you have experimented with the types to see what you like the best

Pornography – What is It and Is It For You?

There is much that is said about pornography, both positive and negative – mainly depending on who you talk to and their perspective.

Where do many people get their perspective on porn? The most common places are:

• Classmates/peers or Friends
• Mother, Father or Siblings
• Mentors, Teachers, Coaches or Counselors
• Clergy or your religion
• Media or TV
• Uncles, Aunts or Other relatives

Anyone that you spend time with could be where you got your perspective about porn, whether it’s good or bad. That is especially true with most religious clergy. Family members and friends can have an interesting impact on our thoughts and people who have a supervisory relationship with us can definitely change or form our opinions – like teachers, coaches or mentors.

Where did you learn about porn?

• High school and/or college locker room
• A friend’s house
• Corner drug store that sells a wide variety of magazines
• A video store that carries adult movies
• Online – through porn sites, ads, emails, forums, etc
• You may have heard in a family discussion
• Your parents or another relative may have a collection
• Older sibling – usually an older brother
• Cable or pay TV options

I remember the first time I opened a Playboy magazine – it was at my aunt and uncle’s house and I was babysitting my cousin, so I had the run of the house while they were out. My uncle had a big collection in the attic bedroom and that was my room whenever I watched my cousin overnight for them. Of course I’d heard hushed tones of family members and religious family friends that Playboy was the “devils work”. I was a kid, what did I know J But that does support the fact that many of us got our first impressions from family and religion.

Centuries ago – fine art often included nude men and women. If you look really close, they are often doing a variety of things, of course, that depends on where you see the art. But its still interesting that in other countries, there is fine art, statues, and other respected pieces of art which feature nude bodies.

However, nude or nearly nude bodies in movies and pictures are viewed as being bad in the United States. That often depends on the type of people you are around. I’ll share more about my experiences in a video store that rented and sold porn in another post, but I can tell you that we had a wide variety of people who rented and bought our movies. There were men, women, single and married people, some were very religious and they usually wandered around the store until the other people left. But they still rented porn on a regular basis. So – porn can be viewed by both genders, various relationship statuses, various religious viewpoints and many other variables.

Pornography or Erotica

Here is an interesting definition of erotica – Erotica has an interactive definition in that its meaning directly relates with who makes the classification. To be delineated as erotic it must be by the viewer’s standards an acceptable depiction of the acts of love and sex. So, the distinction is subjective and depends on the viewer.

Erotica is very popular with many women – along with movies and books that could easily be called soft porn. This can include novels, short stories, movies with erotic content (often Unrated) and sometimes soap operas push the limits – although the sheets are placed strategically. On the other hand, if a man read or watched the same thing, would many people automatically classify it as porn? I’ve got news for you – women watch porn and they have been watching it for a long time.

In recent years, there have been porn movies that are geared to women – and these can be just as graphic as the movies that men enjoy. But you will often see some differences. If you would like details about that – you should read Porn by Erika Lust. It’s a great book about women and porn – it also gives a great history of porn that many men would enjoy. My review is posted here – http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2010/07/30/book-review-good-porn-by-erika-lust/

So – how do you personal draw the line between erotica and porn? How do you feel about these movies or the books and how did you develop that viewpoint?

We’ll discuss more about pornography in future posts. If you would like to check into an online course that delves into the history or porn, details about porn, ways to use porn to spice up your love life and much more, check http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=53&a_aid=litekepr

Sex Toy Review – Lia Dual Stimulator Tickle Tip

Recently I reviewed the Lia Wand (CalExotics) and the Pearl G Spot Massager (Pipedream) – both are shaped quite a bit like the Lia Dual Stimulator. However, there are a couple of distinct differences.  All three of these have features that will stimulate your G-spot. The tip of the first two are tilted toward the G-Spot, the Lia Wand has a flexible tip, while the Pearl has a firm tip for G-Spot massage. I liked both of these toys – they both have interesting features – depending on the type of stimulation and massage that each person likes.

There are some distinct variations in the Lia Dual Stimulator. Let’s start with the clitoral stimulator tip. Its the usual “rabbit” shape, but the tip has two tips that vibrate and stimulate your clitoris with a tantalizing touch. It feels very good on the clitoris, but this will also tickle and stimulate almost any errogenous zone. If you can angle this toy in a way that lets these tips touch your skin, it will massage you in a very nice way. There are some toys, like this toy from the Couture Collection (one of my favorite toys – so far . One of the really stimulating features about the Couture toy is that the tip of the clitoris stimulator gives a steady firm vibration and stimulation to the clitoris. Your choice could depend on the type of clit stimulation you want.

Now let’s move on the the G-spot stimulation with the Lia Dual Stimulator. The tip is unique – and it looks kind of funny when you first look at it. It almost looks like s scrubby brush you would use to clean – but you will have very different feelings about that shape Check my Master Sexpert tips for details about the stimulator tip — you have to try this

Master Sexpert Tips –

• Use plenty of lube for clitoral, vaginal, G-spot or especially anal massage
• Never use a toy in the anus and move to the vagina without cleaning it thoroughly first – with toy cleaner or soap and water. This is really important any time, but the character of the tip makes it even more important.
• Be creative – this toy has the usual “rabbit” shape, but you can still turn it and use at slightly different angles to see which feel better for you.  Let your partner try many variations (you have 10 vibrations, pulses etc to use) and let him/her know what you like better. Then use it on them
• Be sure to thoroughly clean all toys before and after you use them. This is really easy with toy cleaner or soap and hot water. The “stimulator” tip needs additional attention when cleaning.
• Last tip – if you’d like to experience a bigasm, use this sweet toy on your G-spot and use another toy, your fingers or your partners fingers or mouth on your clitoris at the same time. You will thank me if you try this. If you and your partner are coordinated, combine this idea with a finger or vibrator in your anus and enjoy the sensations of a trigasm
• The “scrubby” or “stimulator” tip feels very good on an erogenous zone too. Think about turning on the vibrator tip on nipples (his and hers), inside the thigh, sensitive spots on the  neck or ear, on the clitoris (depending on the type of stimulation is desired.
• What about using this type on your man – on his perineum (test his sensitivity), on his scrotum and on his shaft — use your imagination and watch his reactions to see if he likes it.
• Depending on the size of an anal vibrator that you or your man or woman enjoy – you could use plenty of lube and use this for anal stimulation – and wouldn’t he love that rabbit tickler on his perineum while his G-spot i being stimulated. Since you have the toy to use, you could also give him oral sex at the same time…
• If you are a woman and you have enjoyed G-spot massage before, or if you want to try it — this is a nice toy for an intense G-spot orgasm ladies. (Don’t forget to go to the bathroom before you start.) I was very pleasantly surprised by how well the stimulator tip worked – and if you’ve never had a G-spot orgasm, you should give it a try I’ve found that often you have to really focus to have a G-spot orgasm, but this toy made it very easy — that is a very nice thing
• G-spot tip – even though this made it easy (for me), you still need to know where the G-spot is located If your partner is using their finger to massage your G-spot, they need to lay their hand with the palm up, insert their finger(s) in your vagina and reach inside a couple of inches. They need to move their forefinger in a “come hither” way and they will be very close to the G-spot. When stimulated, it feels like a small patch of corduroy – that is the area to stimulate.  With this toy, you need to move it so that the “stimulator” tip reaches that spot. Even if you have to “play” to reach the right spot, you will be stimulated If you feel like you have to go to the bathroom – you’re in the right area — don’t stop now… go for it

Ultimate Summer Sex Toy – Add Ice to Your Lovemaking

The Ultimate Summer Sex Toy

By Mitzi Rae (www.shedyourinhibitions.com)

Summer is officially here and the temperature at my house is creeping closer to 100 this afternoon – so my mind is thinking of ways to stay cool. But, we all know that really good sex is often hot and steamy, so how can you integrate the ideas of staying cool and still keeping the sex hot and steamy? My recommendation would be to incorporate ice cubes into your love making. If you haven’t tried it – you really should. Ice cubes are one of the simplest homemade sex toys you may ever use.

The first time a partner used ice cubes with me was after a company banquet and I’d had way too much to drink, so my senses were definitely dulled. But I still enjoyed it very much. When I tried using ice with a partner – without being drunk, I enjoyed it even more

There are many things you can do with ice with your partner to cool things up – while spicing them up. Here are some suggestions and I welcome your comments about other ideas. You know that I’m always looking for good ideas.

Master Sexpert Tips – Before we get started

• Go to the kitchen and get a bowl and fill it up with ice cubes – if you have fancy ice trays, that’s fine too, but they are going to melt quickly, so fancy shapes will only make a first impression.
• I would recommend getting comfortable in a place that can get wet – the ice is going to melt. Or, get a couple of fluffy beach towels or a blanket to lie on.
• A couple of smaller fluffy towels would be useful too – just put them off to the side until you need them.
• If you have air conditioning or fans, definitely turn them on and I enjoy a breeze blowing through an open window too – you know how good it feels to have air blow across your wet body

Master Sexpert Tips to Turn Your Lover On While You Cool Them Off

Okay – we’ve got your supplies together, now let’s get busy.

• Let’s start things a little subtle. When its hot – inside or outside, every inch of your body is hot and wants to cool down.  What spots on your lovers body would you touch with your fingers? Their face, neck, arm, chest, leg, thigh…. Put a piece of ice in your hand and touch all those places with the ice, to keep their interest – slide the ice over their skin from one point to the next. If you want – you slide the ice over their skin and come behind the ice and lick it off. Or, simply let the air hit the wet trail you left.
• Do you and your partner enjoy playing with feet? Then definitely incorporate ice in the time while you’re playing with your partner’s feet.  This can include running the ice over the sole of your feet, around the edges of your feet and around your toes if you want. Have fun with it.
• I don’t know about you – but my head and neck sweat very bad when I’m hot. So, you may want to cool your partner down by running the ice cube along the upper edge of their forehead, and especially on the back of their neck at the base of their hair. If you do this on the forehead, its likely the melted ice will run into their eyes – keep that spare towel handy or lick it off for them…
• Pick a piece of ice that will easily fit in your mouth and think of all the places on your lover’s body that you’d like to kiss. You guessed it – kiss them (sure it will take some imagination) on all of those places, with the ice in your mouth.  This is great in places like their ear lobe, their neck, their chest, their thighs… you can use your imagination. You may or may not want to have your partner close their eyes or maybe use a blindfold – the anticipation of what you will do next can heighten the sensations.
• Find another piece of ice that will fit in your mouth – and kiss your partner, if you’re really creative, pass the piece of ice back and forth to each other. As you do this, the ice cube will get smaller and smaller. Any sort of tongue play that you want to do with your partner with the ice cube, is encouraged. You can enjoy playing with each other with the ice and also the warm and cold areas of your mouth as you play.
• One or both of you can pick up a piece of ice and use it on each other’s breasts – circle the breast, run the ice under the woman’s breast, work your way to the nipple, tease the nipples and watch them getting harder and larger as your play and after a sufficient amount of anticipation, rub the ice cube over the nipples – then it’s wonderful to suck and lick the water off. This can work on either partner, depending on the sensitivity of your nipples, although women may enjoy it more. But don’t ignore his nipples – some men have very sensitive nipples, so never ignore them. If you decide to do this with each other, you can sit facing each other – this will let you tantalize each other while you are being turned on.
• Do you enjoy mammary sex? If so – that can be a great follow up to the last idea. Let your man play with your breasts with the ice and get them good and wet, then have him move closer so that he can slide his penis between your breasts. You can push your breasts together to heighten the sensation for both of you – or you may choose to lower your mouth to take his penis into your mouth while he slides between your breasts.
• Use ice cubes with oral sex. This works for men or women, but a quick warning for women – if you are really sensitive, you should have your partner go down on your while you keep your underpants on. If you can tolerate the cold, your partner can take them off – with their hands or teeth, we’ll leave that up to you J Whether your partner is a man or a woman – you can alternate your mouth and your hands, with or without the ice. You can use your mouth on your partner and use ice in your hands or put the ice in your mouth while giving your partner oral sex. Get creative and watch your partner’s reactions – or ask which they like better and do that again. Remember that a combination of cool mouth, warm mouth, warm hand and hand with ice – variety is stimulating and anticipating what you will do next.
• How could I forget – whether you use the ice during oral sex with your woman or not — consider sliding a piece or two inside her before you have sex with her – it will provide a cool sensation in contrast to her warm body. This will give her a cool sensation along with her man’s penis inside of her or if you want to play with a favorite sex toy with her.
• Bottom line – get creative. You can use a piece of ice in any number of ways and places with your lover — the most important thing to remember, have fun!

Those are my ideas – what do you recommend?

Take Your Relationship to a New Level of Intimacy through Couples Enrichment

I have taken a lot of courses through Loveology University – but one of my favorite was on Intimacy in your relationship. One reason is because having true intimacy in your relationship really does take you and your partner to a whole different level of closeness. Another reason is because so few couples seem to have real intimacy – I’m not talking about just having sex – intimacy is much more than that.

These are  a couple of the reasons why I really enjoyed the course on Couples Enrichment. It includes information about the foundation and cornerstones of a great and lasting relationship. These include:

Topics to Lay the Foundation For Your Relationship

• Communication
• Kissing
• Love

Topics As the Relationship Deepens

• Seduction
• Intimacy
• Erotic Massage
• Sexual Fantasies
• Erotic Talk
• Pleasing a Man
• Pleasing a Woman
• Oral Sex
• Sexual Positions
• Tantric Sex
• Orgasm

Each of these are topics that will deepen and strengthen your relationship and contribute to the level of true intimacy and satisfaction for you and your partner.

What Enrichment Means -

• An improvement in communication, intimacy and sexuality.
• It has all the ingredients of true love; friendship, respect, trust, communication and passion

The Key Ingredients to a Deeper and More Loving Relationship

• Friendship
• Respect
• Trust
• Communication
• Passion
• Foregiveness

One exercise in this course includes these 3 questions. How would you answer these questions?

1. List 3 strengths in your relationships
2. List 3 weaknesses in your relationships
3. What can you do to be more in love with one another?

There are many short exercises which give you and your partner the opportunity to look deeper into your relationship and find ways to be closer. Many couples will never have the kind of true intimacy that will elevate their relationship to a much higher and more satisfying level. It does take effort, but isn’t your most important relationship worth the effort? This is a very small sample of the information contained in this course. This course is great for new relationships and it is also great for long term relationships that need a boost. Would you like to get that initial passion and closeness back that you and your partner had in the beginning? This course is for you

For more information, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=37

Loveology University also offers individual courses on each of the topics in this course – in much more detail. The complete list of courses, including the Certified Romantic course is located here – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/CourseCatalogue.aspx

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Re-ignite the Hot Passion in Your Relationship
• You want to Win the Undying Love and Devotion of Your Partner
• You want to Make Love Longer Than You Ever Believed Possible
• You want to Discover the Rewards of Intimacy with Sex

Welcome to Loveology University’s Couples Enrichment Certification Course. Inside are exercises guaranteed to improve your communication, enhance your love life and expand your sexual horizon. When a couple has been together for any length of time, they often take each other for granted so this course will help you to fall back in love again. Beginning with the forgiveness process if there is any resentment or animosity pending, followed by praising each other and giving compliments to restore the foundation your relationship was built on. Touching is a big part of this course so you’ll learn the various kinds of touches ranging from healing, romantic, seductive, sexual to erotic. As the course progresses, the exercises become more intense and exciting with mutual masturbation, erotic talk, sensual massage, oral sex, sexual positions all resulting in multiple orgasm for both of you.

Course Price: $69.95 (Includes Video)

For more information, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=37

Sex Toy Review – Moist Personal Lubricant

At times when you are getting ready to have sex – you realize that you want a little more moisture — that’s the perfect time for Moist — such a great name for a lubricant. Many lubes have a variety of ingredients that you could be allergic to or that will react badly with some toys – but Moist gives you a wide variety of lubes to pick from. The bottle is clear – so you know when you’re running out and the squirt top is great – whether you need a little or a lot.

The clear, water based personal lubricant is the one that I received.  These are some of the options – so no matter what type of lube you need or you prefer – they have the variety to fill your needs.

• Moist Personal Lubricant
• Silicone Moist
• Moist Anal Lube
• Moist Gel
• Moist Sampler
• Moist Lite
• Moist Heat
• Moist Shower Gel
• Glycerine Free Moist
• Flavored Moist – Strawberry
• Flavored Moist – Cherry
• Flavored Moist – Passion Fruit
• Flavored Moist – Kiwi

Master Sexpert Tips -

Even if moisture isn’t a concern for you and your partner, using a bit of lube can make sex even more enjoyable.

Lube is perfect for those times when you need some extra moisture – or if you want that extra smooth, silky feel in your love making.

Lube is beneficial for many forms of sexual activity – masturbation, vaginal intercourse, anal sex and flavored lubes are great for oral sex – pick your flavor or choice or try different flavors.  Some lubes are especially made for use in the tub, shower or hot tub.

1. Never use a silicone lube with silicone toys.
2. Always use a water based lube inside a woman’s body
3. Warming lubes are great for nipple and breast stimulation and can be used on the genitals
4. If you prefer more vigorous sex – definitely use lube to cut down on the friction and to let your partner thrust harder – for longer — and often, that’s what we want — isn’t it?
5. Oil and petroleum based lubes should not be used with condoms because it can cause the condom to deteriorate – o, KY Jelly should NOT be used with condoms
6. Water based lubes are a great choice, they are compatible with all toys and with condoms, it is easy to clean, and it doesn’t stain.
7. You may want to test several types of lubes on your own to see which type and what feel you like better. Then keep it close to your bed, in your glove compartment or purse — depending on where you plan to have sex
8. Moist comes in small packets to make it very easy to have lube with you – on the go.

To see the full selection of Moist Lubricants – visit http://www.pipedreamproducts.com/showsection.php?Section=01&Sub1=Lubricant

Description From the Pipedream Website

The clear choice in personal pleasure and voted BEST Lubricant by Women’s Health Magazine. Our water-based Moist lubricant comes closest to feeling like your body’s natural lubricant. Moist is crystal clear, condom safe, non-staining and fragrance-free, providing long-lasting slipperiness. Our easy dispenser makes reapplying a dab easy and hassle-free. Moist comes in various sizes and for on-the-go travel. You’ve experienced the rest, now experience the BEST!

Sex Toy Review – Waterproof Pretty Pearl G-spot Massager

This is my first review for Pipedream products and I was debating which toy to share with you first. Then a friend helped me make up my mind last night. We were texting each other at the end of the day and he asked his usual question, “Have you had an orgasm today?” I laughed and then texted that I hadn’t. So – he gave his suggestion that I should get a toy out and find my G-spot. This is interesting because years ago we shared my first G-spot orgasm. Sounded like a good suggestion to me

I got two new G-spot toys from Pipedream – so I tried one last night and one tonight. I’ll provide a link here for the Le’Reve Massager so you can read that one too

First let’s talk about the Pretty Pearl G-Spot Vibrator. It does have a pearly pink appearance.  It is also waterproof – so you can use it in the bath or the shower if you want — such a nice way to spice up bathtime

The shape of this vibe is a little different, but its a nice feel instead of the usual G-spot vibe. The larger area behind the G-spot tip is a nice addition.  That area is very nice for clitoral stimulation, as a prelude to stimulating your G-spot The Pretty Pink has 3 speeds – so you can choose your amount of vibration or you can easily adjust the vibe as needed – just push the button on the bottom. Even on high – this toy is pretty quiet. I don’t know about you – but I like quiet toys

Pros of the Pretty Pink G-spot massager -

• Sleek and smooth to the touch
• Nice shape for clitoral or g-spot massage – at different times of course
• Can be used for anal stimulation — see sexpert tip below.
• Quiet and variable speed vibration
• Easy to clean

Sexpert Tips -

• If used for anal stimulation, hold tight to the controller end of the toy since the larger end would be inside and you don’t want to toy to slide in too far
• Use plenty of lube (Moist is a great choice) for clitoral, vaginal, G-spot or especially anal massage
• Never use a toy in the anus and move to the vagina without cleaning it thoroughly first – with toy cleaner or soap and water.
• Be creative – this toy has a great shape, so turn it and use at different angles to see which feel better for you.  Let your partner try many variations and let him/her know what you like better. Then use it on them
• Be sure to thoroughly clean all toys before and after you use them. This is really easy with toy cleaner or soap and hot water.
• Last tip – if you’d like to experience a bigasm, use this sweet toy on your G-spot and use another toy, your fingers or your partners fingers or mouth on your clitoris at the same time. You will thank me if you try this

For more details – http://www.pipedreamproducts.com/showdetail.php?Full_Number=PD1149-11

Sexual Positions Certification

We’ve all heard of the missionary position, many have heard of doggy style and cowgirl positions – but that is only the tip of the sexual iceberg. There are so many other positions – and that’s just the “official” positions. I’m sure most, if not all, people have found other positions that they enjoy in their sexual encounters and I love spontaneity – so positions wouldn’t normally be planned

I recently completed the Sexual Positions Certification course in my Love Coach training. These are some of the topics in this course:

• Finding the Right Position for You
• Masturbation Positions
• Outercourse Positions
• All Oral Sex Positions
• Intercourse Positions
• Anal Sex Positions
• Male/Male Positions
• Female/Female Positions
• Group Sex Positions

Do you agree that list covers all the possibilities? I couldn’t think of any more when I finished the course.

Let me start by saying that safety is a concern and should be considered when deciding what positions to try with your partner. If you see the pictures of some of these positions – you will understand why safety could be an issue. Strength endurance, balance and flexibility are other things that must be considered when deciding what to try.

Part of the content in this course is giving you activities to increase your strength, balance, flexibility and endurance – this will give you the chance to try new and different positions in your sex life. You also need to understand you and your partner’s limitations.

There were a number of tips in the masturbation section that can also be applied with a partner – here is one:

Varying the spread of your legs, arch of your back and angle of your palm help reveal surfaces that you may not have thought of, but can’t imagine living without now that they’ve been found.

Remember that masturbating can be a great way to learn what you like sexually and then you can share those discoveries with your partner — but that’s information for another post

Here is another interesting insight that I wanted to share – many people may not know about “outercourse” -

Outercourse reminds participants to attend to all the potential of their partner’s body rather than targeting the genitals for penetration.

These are some outercourse possibilties -

• Femoral Sex—rubbing between the thighs
• Gluteal Sex—rubbing between the butt cheeks
• Manual Sex—rubbing in the palm of the hand
• Popliteal Sex—rubbing behind the semi-bent knee
• Spinal Sex—rubbing between the neck and shoulder
• Digital Sex—rubbing between fingers and or toes
• Naval Sex—rubbing on or in the belly button

From there – the course moves on to position for male or female oral sex and there are so many possibilities. The same with intercourse and anal sex, there are plenty of options.

Many people are intrigued with threesomes, foursomes and other configurations of group sex – have you thought about all the possible combinations of positions when you add more people to your sexual activities? There are all kinds of options – and this course shows and explains many of them.

There is plenty of information in this course for adventurous people, but there is also great information for people who would just like to add some variety to their sex life. You have the opportunity to study this information in the privacy of your own home and then use only the positions and ideas that appeal to you. I think you and your partner will definitely enjoy the new ideas and options that you will learn here.

Here is more information about the Sexual Positions Course from Loveology University.

Sexual Positions

This Course Is For You If: You want to Learn New Positions for Oral Sex, Masturbation, Intercourse and Anal Sex You want to Add Excitement to Your Relationship with Karma Sutra Positions You want to Discover the Best Positions for Stimulating the G-spot You want to Find the Secret Position that will Enable You and Your Lover to Have Simultaneous Orgasms Welcome to LoveologyUniversity’s Sexual Positions Certification Course. Inside you will learn about a variety of different sexual masturbation, oral sex and intercourse positions, how to perform them, the pros and cons of each position and the best time to engage in them. This course includes some sacred Kama Sutra and Tantric positions you may not have seen before, so get ready to expand your sexual horizon. There are helpful techniques for those whose lovemaking requires special positions such as women who are pregnant or people who have physical disabilities or limitations. Spicing up your love life with sexual position games can create new memories and even better experiences. It’s time to learn something that your mother never taught you, so get into position! Course Price: $69.95 (Includes Video)

http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=44&a_aid=litekepr

Orgasm Certification

This course digs into more than just having an orgasm. There is so much more involved. Let’s start with what an orgasm is –

Orgasm means a sudden burst of energy which allows your body to release tension. At the point of orgasm, or climax, energy is literally released throughout the body and causes a strong tightening of most muscles in the body, especially the vaginal muscles.

The course explains what an orgasm is, but also what it is not. There are many glimpses into why some people are unable to reach orgasm. Some are evident in the earliest memories of orgasms -

• Confusion

• Anticipation

• Guilty pleasure

• Frustration of whether it will happen

• Wondering if you have had one or not

• What it means exactly

There are many myths about orgasms – here are some:

• Women can’t have orgasms after menopause

• Sex isn’t good unless an orgasm occurs

• Ejaculation and orgasm are the same thing

• Vaginal orgasms are better than clitoral orgasms

• Condoms can prevent a man or woman from reaching orgasm

• There is no such thing as a G-spot

• Female ejaculation is when a women urinates

• “Normal” women reach orgasm through intercourse

• A woman who cannot reach orgasm has an unskillful lover

• If a man or woman cannot orgasm together, there must be something wrong with their relationship

The stages of orgasm –

An orgasm is reached at the fourth stage of the following five Dr. Ava Stages:

• Foreplay

• Excitement

• Plateau

• Orgasmic

• Resolution

There are many details about each of these stages of orgasm to help us understand what leads up to an orgasm, what happens during an orgasm and how the body “comes down” from this climax.

• Have you ever wanted to understand the physiological responses of men and women when they orgasm?

• Can you identify things that hamper you from reaching orgasm?

• Do you realize that YOU are responsible for your own orgasms? Sure your partner can facilitate your orgasm, but we can mentally and physically cause our body not to reach orgasm – and this is not necessarily a reflection on your partner.

• Understand the orgasmic “pleasure scale”"

• Understand the various female orgasms, clitoral, g-spot, vaginal etc

• Understand unigasms, bigasms, and trigasms – for women and men

Believe it or not – these details only scratch the surface of the details in this course. If you think you know all there is to know about orgasms, I still suggest that you take a look at this course. Imagine the satisfaction that you could enjoy and share by fully understand the orgasmic process…. and how to make it better…

Course Highlights

• Orgasms and Women
• Orgasms and Men
• Orgasm Obstacles
• Select Your Orgasm from a UniGasm
• BiGasm
• TriGasm
• Blended Orgasm
• Mind Over Body Orgasm
• Separating Orgasm from Ejaculation
• Orgasms and your Health
• Print out your own personalized certification after passing the quiz
• Place your e-trophy on your website to prove you are certified

This is an article I shared some time ago about unigasms, bigasms and trigasms that you may enjoy – http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2009/11/16/in-search-of-the-ultimate-orgasm-by-dr-ava-cadell/

More Details About This Course -

This Course Is For You If:

• You want to Learn About the Different Female Orgasms and How to Achieve Them
• You want to Learn About the Different Male Orgasms and How to Achieve Them
• You want to Avoid Orgasm Obstacles
• You want to Find Out About Orgasm Enhancers and How They Work

Welcome to LoveologyUniversity’s Orgasm Certification Course. Inside you will see interesting research, myths and fun facts, as well as the best ways to get the orgasm you deserve. By taking this course you will learn how incorporating all five senses can heighten your orgasm experience and how you have the ability to choose just what kind of orgasm you would like to have. You’ll understand how to overcome orgasm barriers, find out where to locate the illusive G-spot and how to stimulate it to orgasm, discover the Blended orgasm, the TriGasm and even the Hands Free orgasm for men and women. All responses are different in reference to the orgasm, but this course is sure to have you screaming yes yes yes!

http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=9&a_aid=litekepr

“Before this course, I couldn’t even tell if my partner had orgasms or not. Then I read the incredible wealth of advice and information in this course. Now, not only can I tell when she has an orgasm, I give her more than one! But the benefits don’t stop there; I’ve increased the enjoyment from my own orgasms as well!” — Vijay

Foreplay Certification – Part of the Certified Romantic Course Study

I’m one step closer to finishing my initial certification at Loveology University. My first goal is to complete the Certified Romantic courses – and tonight I passed the quiz for the Foreplay Course.

Umm – foreplay. I think great foreplay is an art form and not everyone knows how to do it right. But that is true about many aspects of sex S0 – what do you think is included in the foreplay course? These are some of the topics —

• What Foreplay Is & Isn’t

• Communicating Foreplay Needs

• Foreplay Do’s and Don’ts

• Anticipation

• Touch

• What is the difference between Flirting and Foreplay?

• Undressing

• Physiology of an Orgasm

• Outercourse

• Kissing the Genitals

• Fantasy and Foreplay

• Foreplay Fun Around the Home

Foreplay can include so many things – a look, a touch, a kiss, but it does not include intercourse. So you can think of it as an appetizer. It gets the mind and body ready for sex — it is true there are times when you don’t feel you need foreplay, like before a quickie. But many times foreplay is a great way to get the juices flowing – for both partners.

The list of foreplay possibilities is huge – but you can think of it as anything you do with your partner as a lead up to sex – kissing, cuddling, stripping, masssage, sucking, stroking, rubbing, licking, flirting, moaning, and so much more.

We’re all familiar with traditional foreplay, but what about Millenium Foreplay? It includes – so much more including, kissing, erotic talk, erotic massage, oral sex, mutual masturbation, sharing sexual fantasies and all the LU courses that lead up to sexual positions with penetration.

Communication is critical in all aspects of a relationship – including sex. Learn to communicate your foreplay needs, just like you should communicate your sexual and all other needs. Its hard to please someone when you don’t know what they want or need.

This  course includes wonderful tips, suggestions, do’s, don’ts, and much more to help you understand and utilize foreplay more effectively. I was looking through the course contents and wondering how long it would take to try even half of the things in here – I’m not sure how long it would take, but it would certainly be a lot of fun

For more details about this course – visit

https://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=34&a_aid=litekepr

Foreplay

This Course Is For You If: You want to Learn Foreplay Techniques to Use on a Woman You want to Learn Foreplay Techniques to Use on a Man You want to Turn Foreplay into Adult Play You want to Make Foreplay an Orgasmic Experience Welcome to Loveology University’s Foreplay Certification Course. Inside you will learn all about the basics of foreplay such as why it is so important when it comes to initimacy and sex, the different physiological responses in men and women and plenty of creative foreplay techniques. Foreplay isn’t just a prelude to sex, but a process that helps to warm up the mind and body for what is to come. It can be a conversation, a little trinket, a look, a touch, or a kiss. Foreplay can be a main event, especially when you engage all of your senses, and a romantic memory for years to come. This course offers you many varieties of foreplay to choose from so that you will be a master lover. This Foreplay Course is sure to get your juices flowing and put you in the mood for an unforgettable learning experience. Course Price: $69.95 (Includes Video)