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Inspirational Quote – Love is Not…

Posted by mitzirae on December 11, 2010

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Sex Toy Review – System JO Offers a Variety of Lube Options for Sexual Pleasure

Posted by mitzirae on October 31, 2010

I have done several reviews for various lubricants, stimulants and System JO Massage Glide, which can also be used as a lube. Today, I want to share details about the great options from System JO. We’re going to cover plenty of options — get your wish list ready.

Are you one of the people who doesn’t use or has never used a lubricant? Many people feel they don’t need to use any additional lubrication or have some confusion about lubes, but I would highly recommend that you give it a try. Maybe you’ve tried KY or water, or saliva – these are okay, but none are really effective. Some lube can also be great for foreplay when you’re both getting in the mood. There are also some times when women won’t be a wet, even with the usual stimulation — so add some lube to make it more pleasurable for both of you. If you’re embarrassed about buying lubricant at the store, you can order it online and its shipped to you discreetly. The items I share in this post can all be found here – http://www.systemjo.com/public/products/jo-personal-lubricants

The need or desire to use lube when you’re having sex, enjoying some foreplay or even masturbating — don’t feel like using lube shows anything lacking in your body or your technique. Its a totally natural thing to add extra lubrication. For fast sex, you may not need any lubrication, for a pre-lubed condom, you may not need anything extra. But for long lasting sexual intercourse, for sex in a hot tub or pool, for anal sex or simply for wetter sex with less friction – lube is the answer. You may have heard of people using a lot of lube, you should experiment with the amount and type of lube that’s best for you and your partner.

One of the great things about lube is that you can decide how wet you want your play to be — you can add a little lube to limit the amount of friction or you can use more during times and activities when you need more lubrication. You can also use a lot of lube if you prefer a “sloppy wet” experience. Lube is another way to make the sexual experience the best it can be for you and your partner. Flavored lubes are great for oral sex – they provide additional moisture and many people enjoy choosing a flavor. Some of the options include: raspberry sorbet, chocolate delight, lemon splash, peachy lips, cherry burst, banana lick, juicy pineapple, sweet pomegranate, strawberry kiss, tangerine dream, tropical passion and flavored watermelon. Think of the options and combinations — yummmm :) Anyone who reads my posts know how much I like to recommend creativity and spontaneity….

Here are some of your options with SystemJO – to get your imagination working.

You can start with a simple water based lube – it is compatible with all materials, safe to use in or on the body, is very easy to clean up and comes in warming, cooling, flavored and regular varieties. It is safe for use with condoms and with any kind of toys – including any silicone toys.

A Premium Silicone Lube which is very long lasting, can be used in water, but should not be used inside the body or with silicone toys.

The flavored lubes are scented and flavored to add several additional sensory benefits for you and your partner. These are also very good for people who are leery or uncomfortable giving oral sex. With a wide variety of flavors, there is something for everyone.

Do you like the warming or cooling sensations – System JO offers lubes that are warming or cooling to the touch. You can use one or the other, or a combination of the two. It all depends on what you and your lover like – or how creative you want to get. Maybe you want a cooling touch on your nipples and a warming touch between your legs – that is very easy to accomplish with warming and cooling lubes.

Seriously – the sky is the limit and you are only limited by your imagination — take a look at the options and buy a variety pack and see which sensations you like the best.  You can experiment with how much lube is best for you. Pour some warming lube or massage glide on your hands and then start by massaging your partner’s breasts. Maybe your partner would like you to start with their feet and work your way up their legs – your lube slicked hands are going to feel very erotic and your hands slide over their skin.

Your partner probably doesn’t want to feel like you are “groping” them, but some lube gives you the advantage of having a stimulating and erotic touch as you slide your hands over parts of your partner’s body. Again — you should experiment with how much lube is best for you. System JO lubes are thicker than many, they are long last (silicone being the most long lasting) and they are very moisturizing. I have found that their products really are not sticky or tacky — they feel natural. I have not tried them all, but I have tried 5 or 6 different products and they feel great.

Master Sexpert Tips

Let’s get down to my Master Sexpert Tips for you —

  1. Lube is beneficial for many forms of sexual activity – masturbation, vaginal intercourse, anal sex and flavored lubes are great for oral sex – pick your flavor or choice or try different flavors.
  2. Silicone lubes are especially made for use in the tub, shower or hot tub.
  3. Never use a silicone lube with silicone toys.
  4. Always use a water based lube inside a woman’s body
  5. Warming lubes are great for nipple and breast stimulation and can be used on the genitals
  6. For more vigorous sex – use lube to cut down on the friction and to let your partner thrust harder – for longer — and often, that’s what we want — isn’t it?
  7. Oil and petroleum based lubes should not be used with condoms because it can cause the condom to deteriorate – KY Jelly should NOT be used with condoms
  8. Water based lubes are a great choice, they are compatible with all toys and with condoms, it is easy to clean, and it doesn’t stain.
  9. You may want to test several types of lubes on your own to see which type and what feel you like better. Then keep it close to your bed, in your glove compartment or purse — depending on where you may have sex
  10. Silicone lubes are very long lasting during sex, and they are more difficult to clean up.
  11. The wide variety of lubes offer you and your partner many possibilities – so give it a try and see what feels best for you and your lover.
  12. While lube makes sex with your lover more fun – it is also great for self love. You may want to try the lube out on your own and then introduce it with your partner once you have experimented with the types to see what you like the best

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Review – Stimulation Gel from System JO

Posted by mitzirae on October 19, 2010

Some women want or need some additional stimulation to be satisfied when they make love. This is something that they can have, very easily and it can greatly increase their sexual satisfaction. Sometimes you just need a bit more – to help you reach a climax.

 

This clitoral stimulation gel gives you a warm and tingling sensation. Imagine the feeling of your partner’s warm breath on you and combine that with the tingling sensation of peppermint — this is the feeling you get with this gel. Combined with your usual stimulation by yourself or with your partner – you experience a more intense climax.

 

You may want to experiment with how much of the stimulation gel you personally need. The tube says there is enough in this small tube for up to 50 applications. If you want to get creative — and I always recommend being creative – you could use a bit on your nipples, ear lobes, your perineum, and so many other spots on your body and your partner’s body. I can’t guarantee that you will enjoy testing this stimulation gel on your erogenous zones – but I like so suggest creative ideas. And remember to give back to your partner. Feel free to come back and post ideas about where you would like to try this gel….

 

Description from System JO website – JO Clitoral Stimulation Gel

JO Clitoral Stimulant Gel is formulated to promote sexual sensitivity in women, resulting in a gratifying orgasmic response. JO Clitoral Stimulant Gel will cause a pleasant and satisfying warm and cooling tingling sensation resulting in increased sexual pleasure and satisfaction.

  • The only Silicone Based Stimulating Gel
  • NO L-Arginine
  • PH Balanced and Hormone Free
  • Safe for use with Condoms
  • Up to 50 Applications per tube

There are a variety of formulas- so there is the right strength for each woman

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Sex Toy Review – Extreme Natural Vibrating Cock (Pipedream Products)

Posted by mitzirae on September 5, 2010

I was looking through the toys that I have collected over the last 8 or 9 months and was trying to figure out what I’d like to review next. I’m looking through the different toys and one very common toy is missing – there wasn’t one dildo. Now, what self respecting toy reviewer can have a collection without at least one dildo and it has to be one that looks and feels like the real thing. Am I right?

So, I added the Extreme Natural Vibrating Cock to my “wish list”. I figure, if you’re going to do it – go to the “extreme”. Let me say this up front — I do not believe that bigger is the only way to go or even the best way to go. There is so much that is more important than just size. Although, it is an element that can add to the experience. With a dildo, you aren’t going to get deep passionate kisses or mind blowing oral sex – so the size and the feel are important.

I prefer the “whole package”, but for fun alone, fun in the shower or as an accessory with a partner – this is a lot of fun. Just girth and length in a toy is fun, but wouldn’t you rather feel a toy that is formed like a real penis — come on, you know you would :)

Take a look at the picture, the head is shaped like a real penis and the veins along the shaft are very – dare I say it – life like :) You will even enjoy the feel of this toy in your hands as you stroke it – I mean clean it…. but I digress…..

For people who are new to using sex toys, this is a pretty big size. Depending on the size you personally prefer – it can be used for vagina and/or anal penetration – for either, I’d recommend plenty of lube – especially for any anal play.

This toy is waterproof – so you can use it in the tub or shower. It also has a remote control that you or a partner can use. When you are using this toy with a partner, you can take turns with who has control of the dildo and the remote – to get a wide variety of experiences. Anyone who has read one of my reviews knows that I recommend plenty of creativity :)

We know there are many possible ways to stimulate the female body — nipples, neck, inner thighs, fingers, toes, the clitoris, the anus and so many other areas.  While reaching orgasm from vaginal penetration alone is rare — when the rest of the body is turned on and especially the clitoris — sometimes vigorous penetration and thrusting is just what we need — and this toy is great for that. Whether alone or with a partner – give it a try. If you want to experience double penetration without being with two men — definitely give this a try.  Of course, you can try that with a partner and almost any dildo or vibrator.

This dildo also has a great suction cup on the bottom — you can use it  on the floor, the wall, the shower or tub or anywhere else. This strong suction cup should hold for moderate or vigorous thrusting.

For the folks who would like to know the actual size — the head is about 1 1/2″ across, building to just over 2″ at the base and 8″ from the tip to the base.  (Let me add just a note that the average penis is 5-6″ — for comparison. I have heard the urban legends that the average penis size is 8-9″ – but I haven’t seen any scientific data to back that up. If you have – feel free to share.)

NOTE – The description on the website mentions huge testicles – but check the picture and you will see that isn’t right. I really liked this dildo and the addition of the vibrator is a nice touch. However, I would prefer that the wire plug into the dildo instead of the remote, so that there wouldn’t be any wire in the way when you don’t want to use the remote.

Master Sexpert Tip

  • You can use this on your clitoris, in your vagina or in your anus, but never use a toy in your anus and then move it to your vagina without cleaning it thoroughly first.
  • You can use a condom on a toy when using it around your anus, then remove the condom to move the toy to your vagina – to avoid having to clean it in the middle of your play.
  • Always use plenty of lube with your toys to increase your pleasure – even if personal lubrication is not a concern, the additional lube will give you even more fun
  • Try the toy on yourself and your partner, if your partner is interested.  Or have your partner use the toy on you.
  • This is a toy you can easily use by yourself or with a partner or for your partner. Remember you can take turns with your partner and yourself controlling the toy and the remote for added variety.
  • Always clean your toys before and after you use them.
  • This isn’t a “small” toy – so don’t be worried about using plenty of lube.
  • Finally – have fun, be creative, use your imagination and I always recommend being spontaneous…..

Extreme Natural Vibrating Cock – http://www.pipedreamproducts.com/showdetail.php?Full_Number=RD117-00&DB_Number=00001417

Description from Pipeline Products website:

Pipedream Extreme Toyz White Boy Vibrating Natural Cock

When size does matter and nothing less will do, reach for this huge Realistic Cock. This incredibly life-like dong is molded after the top studs in the business and will satisfy your every desire! It’s super-soft feel and throbbing veins, you’ll swear it’s the real thing…only better! The powerful suction base sticks to almost any smooth surface and stays in place with each passionate thrust!

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Pornography – What is It and Is It For You?

Posted by mitzirae on August 18, 2010

There is much that is said about pornography, both positive and negative – mainly depending on who you talk to and their perspective.

Where do many people get their perspective on porn? The most common places are:

  • Classmates/peers or Friends
  • Mother, Father or Siblings
  • Mentors, Teachers, Coaches or Counselors
  • Clergy or your religion
  • Media or TV
  • Uncles, Aunts or Other relatives

Anyone that you spend time with could be where you got your perspective about porn, whether it’s good or bad. That is especially true with most religious clergy. Family members and friends can have an interesting impact on our thoughts and people who have a supervisory relationship with us can definitely change or form our opinions – like teachers, coaches or mentors.

Where did you learn about porn?

  • High school and/or college locker room
  • A friend’s house
  • Corner drug store that sells a wide variety of magazines
  • A video store that carries adult movies
  • Online – through porn sites, ads, emails, forums, etc
  • You may have heard in a family discussion
  • Your parents or another relative may have a collection
  • Older sibling – usually an older brother
  • Cable or pay TV options

I remember the first time I opened a Playboy magazine – it was at my aunt and uncle’s house and I was babysitting my cousin, so I had the run of the house while they were out. My uncle had a big collection in the attic bedroom and that was my room whenever I watched my cousin overnight for them. Of course I’d heard hushed tones of family members and religious family friends that Playboy was the “devils work”. I was a kid, what did I know J But that does support the fact that many of us got our first impressions from family and religion.

Centuries ago – fine art often included nude men and women. If you look really close, they are often doing a variety of things, of course, that depends on where you see the art. But its still interesting that in other countries, there is fine art, statues, and other respected pieces of art which feature nude bodies.

However, nude or nearly nude bodies in movies and pictures are viewed as being bad in the United States. That often depends on the type of people you are around. I’ll share more about my experiences in a video store that rented and sold porn in another post, but I can tell you that we had a wide variety of people who rented and bought our movies. There were men, women, single and married people, some were very religious and they usually wandered around the store until the other people left. But they still rented porn on a regular basis. So – porn can be viewed by both genders, various relationship statuses, various religious viewpoints and many other variables.

Pornography or Erotica

Here is an interesting definition of erotica – Erotica has an interactive definition in that its meaning directly relates with who makes the classification. To be delineated as erotic it must be by the viewer’s standards an acceptable depiction of the acts of love and sex. So, the distinction is subjective and depends on the viewer.

Erotica is very popular with many women – along with movies and books that could easily be called soft porn. This can include novels, short stories, movies with erotic content (often Unrated) and sometimes soap operas push the limits – although the sheets are placed strategically. On the other hand, if a man read or watched the same thing, would many people automatically classify it as porn? I’ve got news for you – women watch porn and they have been watching it for a long time.

In recent years, there have been porn movies that are geared to women – and these can be just as graphic as the movies that men enjoy. But you will often see some differences. If you would like details about that – you should read Porn by Erika Lust. It’s a great book about women and porn – it also gives a great history of porn that many men would enjoy. My review is posted here – http://shedyourinhibitions.com/2010/07/30/book-review-good-porn-by-erika-lust/

So – how do you personal draw the line between erotica and porn? How do you feel about these movies or the books and how did you develop that viewpoint?

We’ll discuss more about pornography in future posts. If you would like to check into an online course that delves into the history or porn, details about porn, ways to use porn to spice up your love life and much more, check http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=53&a_aid=litekepr

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Sex During Menstruation – Guest Post by Dr Grace

Posted by mitzirae on August 17, 2010

Sex during menstruation to some is unthinkable and down right disgusting, but there are people men or women who actually enjoy it. There are women, who truly, get very eagerly aroused. In that time of the month, some women are constantly horny and easily respond to erotic stimulation. For some women, that is the best time to achieve their first orgasm, or the best and most intense orgasms, because every thing is already sensitive, engorged and swollen.

At first you may feel discomfort, but as you relax, more and more, and your lover is patient and gentle, it may be the best sex (or masturbation session) you Ever have. I would truly suggest doing it in the shower, with the water running over your bodies. This way you will not get distracted by getting cold and the blood will constantly wash away.

Some women who do get horny during their menstrual cycle, already masturbate with water while they wash. They will not share it with their men, because they feel dirty and grossed out and they are afraid they will gross you out if they ask you to help. If you are in the shower, you don’t have to worry about staining your mattress or any furniture and it’s easy to wash off. You can even use the shower head to tease her nipples and clitoris.

If the thought is still too disgusting to you, it’s OK, no one is telling you that you have to do it. I am just putting a few people/women at ease. I also had a few women ask me about it, “Is it normal to be so horny during your period? ” Yes, very normal, it may make you feel uncomfortable to share with your lover or anyone else, but it is normal, and I am sure if you asked any of your girlfriends, they would say they get “the most horny” when they are on their cycle, just none of them speak about it openly.

We are a repressed society where many issues go unlearned, undiscussed, unresolved or misunderstood, because of the views of the judgmental prudes among us and the scientists who publish bullocks and false information just to make a name for them selves, even if their theories aren’t totally true.

So Hunny, IT IS NORMAL, VERY NATURAL & VERY COOL TO GET HORNY during your period.

Masturbate and enjoy these enhanced, enforced, relaxing, relieving orgasms. Do it inthe shower for cleanliness, with your lover or alone, but make your self cum, never keep your body horny for too long. We may not realize it, but a lot of our physical discomfort comes from celibacy and withholding, it will help you with the cramps…Remember, while you orgasm and release… You are also relaxing your pelvic muscles for a while.

Also, it may even shorten the cycle, because more will come out faster during the shower. If you don’t have a partner, use a dildo and keep the water running over your body. Women need to stretch and massage the inner muscles regularly for their proper function… Your vaginal walls need a workout, “stretching and massaging” just as the rest of your body does, having delicious pleasurable intercourse is not just for pleasure, it is also your pussy’s exercise.

P.S. Just a little pointer, “Shower” is much better for this than bath… I can almost guarantee it :)

And Gentlemen, this does not imply that every woman likes it, or will do it, so don’t hassle her about doing it. Just a precaution. If you are curious… ask her “very” nicely during an intimate conversation: “Do you ever get aroused during your cycle?”. She may deny it, and that may in fact be the truth, or she may be also be honest with you and admit she does, but that only depends on the comfort and trust level in your relationship.

For much more information about Dr Grace and her work — visit http://www.sensualmentality.com/

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Sex Toy Review – Lia Dual Stimulator Tickle Tip

Posted by mitzirae on July 19, 2010

Recently I reviewed the Lia Wand (CalExotics) and the Pearl G Spot Massager (Pipedream) – both are shaped quite a bit like the Lia Dual Stimulator. However, there are a couple of distinct differences.  All three of these have features that will stimulate your G-spot. The tip of the first two are tilted toward the G-Spot, the Lia Wand has a flexible tip, while the Pearl has a firm tip for G-Spot massage. I liked both of these toys – they both have interesting features – depending on the type of stimulation and massage that each person likes.

There are some distinct variations in the Lia Dual Stimulator. Let’s start with the clitoral stimulator tip. Its the usual “rabbit” shape, but the tip has two tips that vibrate and stimulate your clitoris with a tantalizing touch. It feels very good on the clitoris, but this will also tickle and stimulate almost any errogenous zone. If you can angle this toy in a way that lets these tips touch your skin, it will massage you in a very nice way. There are some toys, like this toy from the Couture Collection (one of my favorite toys – so far :) . One of the really stimulating features about the Couture toy is that the tip of the clitoris stimulator gives a steady firm vibration and stimulation to the clitoris. Your choice could depend on the type of clit stimulation you want.

Now let’s move on the the G-spot stimulation with the Lia Dual Stimulator. The tip is unique – and it looks kind of funny when you first look at it. It almost looks like s scrubby brush you would use to clean – but you will have very different feelings about that shape :) Check my Master Sexpert tips for details about the stimulator tip — you have to try this :)

Master Sexpert Tips –

  • Use plenty of lube for clitoral, vaginal, G-spot or especially anal massage
  • Never use a toy in the anus and move to the vagina without cleaning it thoroughly first – with toy cleaner or soap and water. This is really important any time, but the character of the tip makes it even more important.
  • Be creative – this toy has the usual “rabbit” shape, but you can still turn it and use at slightly different angles to see which feel better for you.  Let your partner try many variations (you have 10 vibrations, pulses etc to use) and let him/her know what you like better. Then use it on them :)
  • Be sure to thoroughly clean all toys before and after you use them. This is really easy with toy cleaner or soap and hot water. The “stimulator” tip needs additional attention when cleaning.
  • Last tip – if you’d like to experience a bigasm, use this sweet toy on your G-spot and use another toy, your fingers or your partners fingers or mouth on your clitoris at the same time. You will thank me if you try this. If you and your partner are coordinated, combine this idea with a finger or vibrator in your anus and enjoy the sensations of a trigasm :)
  • The “scrubby” or “stimulator” tip feels very good on an erogenous zone too. Think about turning on the vibrator tip on nipples (his and hers), inside the thigh, sensitive spots on the  neck or ear, on the clitoris (depending on the type of stimulation is desired.
  • What about using this type on your man – on his perineum (test his sensitivity), on his scrotum and on his shaft — use your imagination and watch his reactions to see if he likes it.
  • Depending on the size of an anal vibrator that you or your man or woman enjoy – you could use plenty of lube and use this for anal stimulation – and wouldn’t he love that rabbit tickler on his perineum while his G-spot i being stimulated. Since you have the toy to use, you could also give him oral sex at the same time…
  • If you are a woman and you have enjoyed G-spot massage before, or if you want to try it — this is a nice toy for an intense G-spot orgasm ladies. (Don’t forget to go to the bathroom before you start.) I was very pleasantly surprised by how well the stimulator tip worked – and if you’ve never had a G-spot orgasm, you should give it a try :) I’ve found that often you have to really focus to have a G-spot orgasm, but this toy made it very easy — that is a very nice thing :)
  • G-spot tip – even though this made it easy (for me), you still need to know where the G-spot is located :) If your partner is using their finger to massage your G-spot, they need to lay their hand with the palm up, insert their finger(s) in your vagina and reach inside a couple of inches. They need to move their forefinger in a “come hither” way and they will be very close to the G-spot. When stimulated, it feels like a small patch of corduroy – that is the area to stimulate.  With this toy, you need to move it so that the “stimulator” tip reaches that spot. Even if you have to “play” to reach the right spot, you will be stimulated :) If you feel like you have to go to the bathroom – you’re in the right area — don’t stop now… go for it :)

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The CalExotics Sexpert Program – An Update

Posted by mitzirae on June 16, 2010

CalExotics® Sexpert Program Hits New Milestone
Unique Online Network Turns Up The Heat — And Sales

Chino, CA – Armed with information, willing to try new things — and blog about it — a new generation of adult consumers is finding more fun and enjoyment in their sex lives than ever before. The Sexperts blog program from California Exotic Novelties gives these users a platform to share their experiences and inspire others to try something new.

California Exotic Novelties Vice President of Sales, Jackie White, knows first hand: “there’s no question that online information-sharing has been an amazing asset to the adult toy industry,” says White. “The Cal Exotics ‘Sexperts’ blog program allows users to compare notes about what works for them. And ‘word of mouth’ from satisfied customers is the best kind of advertising!”

Since its introduction at the 2009 ANME show, Sexperts has grown to 100 qualified bloggers worldwide and nearly 1,000,000 views each month. The program operates by sending Sexperts a monthly toy to review and monitoring the results. The products are a cross-section of new releases from low, middle and top price points.

“When Al Bloom and Dave Newman Advertising first came to me with this program, I was a little skeptical about what it would mean for us,” says California Exotic Novelties President and Founder, Susan Colvin. “But after almost a year we realize that social networking is a valuable marketing tool and I’m just thrilled with the results!”

Director of Marketing, Al Bloom, adds: “We’ve been able to refine the list of Sexperts to identify the ones with a unique voice, who are serious about supporting the program and providing valuable feedback.” A monthly report keeps track of Sexpert reviews, reaction and web traffic.

“Most of the time we hit it out of the park… but even when we don’t, we get valuable information,” says Bloom. “The Sexperts and their followers give our product design team an unvarnished view of what they want and need from our products. And consumer trust is strengthened because they know Cal Exotics is really listening to them.”

On the sales side, White knows there’s power in the blogged word. “It’s not a coincidence that the products reviewed by our Sexperts are selling more rapidly than usual,” assures White. “Blog readers are also consumers. The Sexperts provide information and spark new ideas that drive sales. It really is amazing!”

Today’s consumers are turning to the internet for honest information and frank opinions about their intimate lives — and California Exotic Novelties is at the forefront of social networking for the adult toy industry. Qualified bloggers may apply to join the program at www.calexotics.com.

About California Exotic Novelties

California Exotic Novelties is the nation’s leading manufacturer of adult toys and novelties. Since 1994, the company has been at the forefront of research and development of products to enhance the sexual experiences of women, men and couples. From its 200,000 square foot operations center in Chino, California, ‘Cal Exotics’ maintains a network of manufacturing and distribution facilities world wide. Its products are available on-line and from retailers throughout the world.

Merchandise Contact
Al Bloom
Director of Marketing
California Exotic Novelties, LLC
Phone: (909) 465-4946
Email: al@calexotics.com
Web: www.calexotics.com

Press Contact
Dave Newman
Dave Newman Advertising
Phone: (818) 861-7444
Email: pr@calexotics.com

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Take Your Relationship to a New Level of Intimacy through Couples Enrichment

Posted by mitzirae on June 2, 2010

I have taken a lot of courses through Loveology University – but one of my favorite was on Intimacy in your relationship. One reason is because having true intimacy in your relationship really does take you and your partner to a whole different level of closeness. Another reason is because so few couples seem to have real intimacy – I’m not talking about just having sex – intimacy is much more than that.

These are  a couple of the reasons why I really enjoyed the course on Couples Enrichment. It includes information about the foundation and cornerstones of a great and lasting relationship. These include:

Topics to Lay the Foundation For Your Relationship

  • Communication
  • Kissing
  • Love

Topics As the Relationship Deepens

  • Seduction
  • Intimacy
  • Erotic Massage
  • Sexual Fantasies
  • Erotic Talk
  • Pleasing a Man
  • Pleasing a Woman
  • Oral Sex
  • Sexual Positions
  • Tantric Sex
  • Orgasm

Each of these are topics that will deepen and strengthen your relationship and contribute to the level of true intimacy and satisfaction for you and your partner.

What Enrichment Means -

  • An improvement in communication, intimacy and sexuality.
  • It has all the ingredients of true love; friendship, respect, trust, communication and passion

The Key Ingredients to a Deeper and More Loving Relationship

  • Friendship
  • Respect
  • Trust
  • Communication
  • Passion
  • Foregiveness

One exercise in this course includes these 3 questions. How would you answer these questions?

  1. List 3 strengths in your relationships
  2. List 3 weaknesses in your relationships
  3. What can you do to be more in love with one another?

There are many short exercises which give you and your partner the opportunity to look deeper into your relationship and find ways to be closer. Many couples will never have the kind of true intimacy that will elevate their relationship to a much higher and more satisfying level. It does take effort, but isn’t your most important relationship worth the effort? This is a very small sample of the information contained in this course. This course is great for new relationships and it is also great for long term relationships that need a boost. Would you like to get that initial passion and closeness back that you and your partner had in the beginning? This course is for you :)

For more information, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=37

Loveology University also offers individual courses on each of the topics in this course – in much more detail. The complete list of courses, including the Certified Romantic course is located here – http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/CourseCatalogue.aspx

This Course Is For You If:

  • You want to Re-ignite the Hot Passion in Your Relationship
  • You want to Win the Undying Love and Devotion of Your Partner
  • You want to Make Love Longer Than You Ever Believed Possible
  • You want to Discover the Rewards of Intimacy with Sex

Welcome to Loveology University’s Couples Enrichment Certification Course. Inside are exercises guaranteed to improve your communication, enhance your love life and expand your sexual horizon. When a couple has been together for any length of time, they often take each other for granted so this course will help you to fall back in love again. Beginning with the forgiveness process if there is any resentment or animosity pending, followed by praising each other and giving compliments to restore the foundation your relationship was built on. Touching is a big part of this course so you’ll learn the various kinds of touches ranging from healing, romantic, seductive, sexual to erotic. As the course progresses, the exercises become more intense and exciting with mutual masturbation, erotic talk, sensual massage, oral sex, sexual positions all resulting in multiple orgasm for both of you.

Course Price: $69.95 (Includes Video)

For more information, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=37

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Sex Toy Review – Moist Personal Lubricant

Posted by mitzirae on May 27, 2010

At times when you are getting ready to have sex – you realize that you want a little more moisture — that’s the perfect time for Moist — such a great name for a lubricant. Many lubes have a variety of ingredients that you could be allergic to or that will react badly with some toys – but Moist gives you a wide variety of lubes to pick from. The bottle is clear – so you know when you’re running out and the squirt top is great – whether you need a little or a lot.

The clear, water based personal lubricant is the one that I received.  These are some of the options – so no matter what type of lube you need or you prefer – they have the variety to fill your needs.

  • Moist Personal Lubricant
  • Silicone Moist
  • Moist Anal Lube
  • Moist Gel
  • Moist Sampler
  • Moist Lite
  • Moist Heat
  • Moist Shower Gel
  • Glycerine Free Moist
  • Flavored Moist – Strawberry
  • Flavored Moist – Cherry
  • Flavored Moist – Passion Fruit
  • Flavored Moist – Kiwi

Master Sexpert Tips -

Even if moisture isn’t a concern for you and your partner, using a bit of lube can make sex even more enjoyable.

Lube is perfect for those times when you need some extra moisture – or if you want that extra smooth, silky feel in your love making.

Lube is beneficial for many forms of sexual activity – masturbation, vaginal intercourse, anal sex and flavored lubes are great for oral sex – pick your flavor or choice or try different flavors.  Some lubes are especially made for use in the tub, shower or hot tub.

  1. Never use a silicone lube with silicone toys.
  2. Always use a water based lube inside a woman’s body
  3. Warming lubes are great for nipple and breast stimulation and can be used on the genitals
  4. If you prefer more vigorous sex – definitely use lube to cut down on the friction and to let your partner thrust harder – for longer — and often, that’s what we want — isn’t it?
  5. Oil and petroleum based lubes should not be used with condoms because it can cause the condom to deteriorate – o, KY Jelly should NOT be used with condoms
  6. Water based lubes are a great choice, they are compatible with all toys and with condoms, it is easy to clean, and it doesn’t stain.
  7. You may want to test several types of lubes on your own to see which type and what feel you like better. Then keep it close to your bed, in your glove compartment or purse — depending on where you plan to have sex :)
  8. Moist comes in small packets to make it very easy to have lube with you – on the go.

To see the full selection of Moist Lubricants – visit http://www.pipedreamproducts.com/showsection.php?Section=01&Sub1=Lubricant

Description From the Pipedream Website

The clear choice in personal pleasure and voted BEST Lubricant by Women’s Health Magazine. Our water-based Moist lubricant comes closest to feeling like your body’s natural lubricant. Moist is crystal clear, condom safe, non-staining and fragrance-free, providing long-lasting slipperiness. Our easy dispenser makes reapplying a dab easy and hassle-free. Moist comes in various sizes and for on-the-go travel. You’ve experienced the rest, now experience the BEST!

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